So our relationship started out with sex, but grew into something which I thought was a real connection. I feel like I've made a mistake by telling her how much I like her and how I'd like to make more out of our relationship. Is it true that girls don't wanna hear that kind of thing? She has mentioned how incredible the sex is and how she wishes she would have found me sooner, but we have been having sex less and less often. Sometimes it feels like pulling teeth when I ask her to hang out with me. It's really hard to make set plans with her because she's so busy, but I feel like I'm not much of a priority to her. Is there anything I can do to figure out where I stand with her?
2006-12-27 12:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by girls are confusing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her.
2006-12-27 13:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her where you stand. That is the only way you will know. If she said the sex was incredible and now you all are having sex less, there's something wrong with that picture. She probably lied to make you feel good because if someone has incredible sex, then they would want to have sex more often not lesser (just from a woman's point of view).
2006-12-27 21:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look at your question. look at the word that stands out among all the words. you said after you did that it made the relationship great, that you are tying really hard to get something out of it. but think about it. if you hadnt have experienced God's gift to a man and a woman would the relationship be what it is now? a man can only do so much to make a woman happy. and we can only do so much to make a man happy. i think you should just be yourself. dont try to hard. try getting hints to what she likes and things she loves to do. take her out to her favorite restaraunt when she wants to. just be there for her and give her every reason to love you with everything she has. good luck and just be yourself. if she really loves you then it shouldnt matter if you try hard or dont try hard. because either way it goes love is love and no matter what you do, she's still gonna give you her unconditional attention.
2006-12-27 21:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her for a day or so, if she doesn't act concerned about where you've been or why you didn't call, then the relationship was not meant to be. Find some other activities to get involved with that don't include her, and I don't mean with other women, but more like sports, exercise, interest groups, that sort of thing. It could just be that she's feeling a little suffocated and would like for you to find things to do on your own. Women don't like clingy men.
2006-12-27 21:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by vkl96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out and ask her... tell her you really enjoy being with her... and were she would like the relationship to go. Don't pressure her or corner her into feeling things she thinks you want her too.. just say... I know your busy.. I am too.. but I really like spending time with you and yes the sex is great but I feel that there is more then that between us... what do you think... were would you like this to go.. or do you want it to stay the same.... be honest and true to yourself.. :P
2006-12-27 21:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER base a relationship on sex. That's your first mistake. Let her go and be more careful with your next girlfriend. Get to know her for who she is and not what's under her clothes. Sex is a reward for learning to love and should not be a basis for a relationship.
2006-12-27 21:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not true girls do like to hear that kind of stuff from a guy who they are in love with. But you guys need to have a heart to heart talk. That's the only thing to really know where you guys stand. well good luck!! ttyl
2006-12-27 21:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by sweegirl200418 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. girls like guys who speak their emotions or feelings. you don;t find that in a guy often. but some girls just aren;t looking at that..
their looking for just a fling ya know? i think she doesn't have the same want in this "relationship" as you do.
maybe she does.. and she;s too afraid to give in.
talking is the key thing in this
2006-12-27 21:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her how much u like her...she probably thinks u just want her for sex but let her know how u reely feel!!
2006-12-27 21:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by CHEESECAKELADY!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋