- a man that knows how to treat a woman
- a man that knows how to take a woman out
- a man that is secure with his self
- a man that wants a good woman
2006-12-27 13:05:09 · 14 answers · asked by alluremn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're out here.. we're just hard to find. put yourself in places where you are likely to meet new people and make new friends who may share common interests.. a boyfriend will come into your life when you least expect it to!
2006-12-27 13:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, there is a hell of a lot of good men out there. A whole lot in actual numbers. Not a whole lot however in the proportion. You see men in the old days, the really old days in my grandparents generation where taught how to be gentlemen. However in recent generations this has fallen by the wayside. First by the baby boomers and then by generation X. This is because in treating a woman right we were in essence treating another HUMAN BEING right. It was a matter of ethics, morals and decency. With the current idea that moral don't matter, ethics can be dispensed with and decency-what's that?, it is no wonder that women are being treated how they are.
However do not give up. REAL MEN treat women decently. And there are plenty out there-in numbers. However do not look for them in the wrong places. Do not look for them in pubs, clubs, pool halls or peer groups. If you look in a sewer, what do you find. Similarly with human beings. If you want to find decent men look in places where it takes character to go. The gym, libriary, launrymat or mixed social circle. The men who are maccho might be loud and agressive. But they are covering weakness. A wounded animal shouts the loudest. Strength however needs no fanfare. For behind modesty lies confidence. I am not speaking about shrinking violets, but sensible, humble and modest men..
MORAL CHOICES HAVE PHYSICAL CONSEQUENCES. So if your choices in men are based upon what is good and decent, and not showy or what appears to be, then you will get decent men. For let me tell you this: A loving relationship is worth more than all the galaxies in the universe. And believe me- I know how many and big. And it is HUGE. There is a saying: If you want a friend-be a friend. Similarly if you want a good man-be a good woman. And then not only will you attract a good man, but you will choose(because of what you are) a good man. There are good men out there-take them. And good luck.
2006-12-27 13:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single and all of the above. I have a hard time finding a woman that wants all of these things in a man. You can write me anytime.
2006-12-27 13:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by topdps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-27 13:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not believe me, and I would not blame you, but I do fit that description. I am currently a single father with sole custody of my two daughters, and believe me that alone shows a lot. Too bad many men (sorry guys) have lost touch with those guidelines.
2006-12-27 13:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are both good woman and men it just seems they are hard to find anymore but they are out there.
2006-12-27 13:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey thats me. Too bad some woman already laid claim to me.
2006-12-27 13:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a good man, by your standards and by mine
2006-12-27 13:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not very experienced but i think id make a good boyfriend, but the question is... are there any good women left?
2006-12-27 13:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is.
I want to know if there are any good women left.
2006-12-27 13:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋