my brother always calls me names and my parents dont care what do you think about it?
2006-12-27 12:23:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
preatty typical for sibling relationships. enroll in karate and then beat the crap out of him.
2006-12-27 12:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by me2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time when you have other girls over you and the other girls should start calling him names since he is calling you names. When you have other girls with you, you should get your brother to sit in a chair in the middle or if he does not stay there then have the girls tie him to the chair so he does not get away and then you and the rest of the girls make a circle around him and your brother will be in the middle. Then take turns making fun of by telling him things such as: he stinks, he needs a makeover, he needs to be carried to the bathroom by the girls, he should dress like a girl, etc... this shoudl get him to stop calling you names because he will probably not like being surrounded by all the girls.
2006-12-28 14:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he call you names? Have you done something to cause him to do this? If not then you need to find out the reason he is calling you names. Another thing you should do is to ask him why he calls you the specific names he uses. Also see if you can find out why your parents do not correct him. Don't assume anything and remember, if you don't ask questions then you will never get the facts. I am thinking there is a reason for what is going on. If not then something is wrong here.
2006-12-27 20:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your brother is very immature but this is very normal! Your brother is doing this because he knows that it bothers you...so start ignoring him! I know this is hard to do but it will work!!! Plus, just stay away from him as much as you can! You be the bigger person and try not to let it bother you! And, if it does, than call a friend to vent your frustrations but DO NOT let your brother know that it is bothering you!!!
2006-12-27 20:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My brother used to always call me fatty and I was nowhere near fat (I was a size 8). Fight back is what I would say.
IE, one day my brother was saying his usual crap and make me so mad (I just came back from tennis and had racket and bottle of water) that I threw my bottle of water at him and came at him with my racket and you know what was so funny? He ran and locked himself in the bathroom! LOL
Another time I slapped him in the face and foot with a huge loaf of bread...fight back and he'll run...
and BTW, we're in our 20's now lol
My parents didn't bother to intervene cos they knew I'd kick his but and the worse thing is he's older than me!
2006-12-27 20:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound harsh, but you need to get over it. I have a brother and we used to fight like crazy, I started to pretend it doesn't bother me and he lost interest. the more you put up a fight the more he will do it. I know it can be annoying and hurtful but unless hes being downright abusive let it go.
2006-12-27 21:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by nonamebrandpirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it would be very difficult....but I absolutely would have a flatline response....I would not look at him...acknowledge him....have any response what so ever....because that is the pay off for him when you negatively respond....He knows he has you at that moment....He wins. I can tell you if he becomes invisible to you...it will eventually not be fun any longer. So, take the control back....I think it could be a little fun too.
2006-12-27 20:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother did too and continues to do it and we are 36 and 38. It is a sign of affection and I just give it right back at him!!!! Don't take it personal!
2006-12-27 22:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him---its what I do he'll get so tired after a while it won't be worth it.I have an older brother and my parents ALWAYS take his side.
2006-12-27 20:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by peacejump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents probably know that they will grow out of it. You will become best of friends when you are older. Just write it off as a lack of maturity.. they'll grow up.
2006-12-27 20:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old saying sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.My kids did the same sometimes still do.Parents care but it still happens no mater what you say or do.He only does it cause you answer try ignoring him no mater what he says he will tire of talking to himself.Try it my daughter did and it worked it was hard not to relpy to them but they soon gave up
2006-12-27 20:32:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋