Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

I love my fiance very much and I really enjoy spending time with him, but he seems to sleep so much. It really does bother me and if I bring it up to him, he'll get bothered. To top it off his mom is paying for his house payment because he isn't working, I found out from other sources. I wish he would get up early like I enjoy doing and start looking for a job that I would feel comfortable knowing he's got a steady job before we get married next year. If my mother found out that he sleeps and doesn't have a job, she'll flip! I was raised to see the man of the house always up early and working of course. When he gets his migrains, he likes to be left alone with the bedroom door closed neglecting me, how can I let him know that I am bored with him, he doesn't even like to go out to dinner and to a movie, I don't mind doing it at the house as well but once in a while it would be nice if we could go out. I want for him to be the one but now I'm not sure. Please help!

2006-12-26 09:25:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 09:25:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over winter break, I decided that there is a certain guy in my school that, for various reasons, I no longer want to be friends with.
I don't know how to go about doing this after school starts, because this person makes me feel really bad and takes my mind off of my schoolwork, and I'm a straight A student.
I do not LIKE him. At all.
When school starts, should I just ignore him?
How would I do that?
Would it be hard if he sits next to me during class and is at my table during lunch?

I gave this person tons of chances, but I hate him.
How do I stop being friends?

2006-12-26 09:24:42 · 22 answers · asked by [A] 2 in Friends

when I am with this one guy, I get mine like at least 3 times in the first 5 minutes (the record was 9....we counted) but when I'm with anyone else, i can't get it even once?

2006-12-26 09:24:25 · 12 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

bumped into and ex one weekend, about a month before she was about to get married, nothing intimate, or sexual, just two old friends catching up, at an even breakfast. ... at the end of the night, when we were to leave one another she kissed me, and I don't mean " your a speical friend " kiss, ... I'm talking about, somewhere between, that was hot, and any more, and we'll be naked, kiss. ... Then she gets married 40days later.

2006-12-26 09:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by cunby75 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Specifically...first cousin once removed who is more than twice my age? I want to know how I can supress these feelings, for obvious reasons...

2006-12-26 09:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by Annalisa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The mother is worried about offending her mother, so she denies her daughter a true Christmas dinner and opts for the gigantic family potluck at the grandmother's house, where the daughter feels incredibly uncomfortable. *the daughter is related to these people, but by no means are they family*

The mother than goes on to explain that her mother *the grandmother* is 70 and may not have that many years left.

Now the daughter points out the fact that she has "survived" two suicide attempts, and even though she's only 17 every year could be her last.

Who has a better argument on the issue? The mother worried about the grandmother's feelings, or the daughter worried more about how the mother will feel when she finds the suicide note because this was just another piece of what's pushing her that way?

2006-12-26 09:22:29 · 31 answers · asked by mandy 3 in Family

2006-12-26 09:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without taking the edge off the season, here is something that I just wondered about.

If you died you can usually count on grieving relatives being there for the services and burial. Who else would be there for you and your family if you were the one in that casket? Would friends, coworkers, and neighbors be there too and in what number?

2006-12-26 09:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by Rich Z 7 in Friends

His a really good boy but his just not my taste... i think its a bit late for telling him that i dont want him!!! but his really not the one im looking for!! :((

2006-12-26 09:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Friends

She sold her house to move in with him. she has two small children. he is very selfish. he did not give her anything for christmas. she gave him something nice. but he did manage to get him self something nice. he wants to marry her but cant ask her yet untill she opens up more and depends on him more. what is the deal with that? should she stay or go??

2006-12-26 09:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by Orleanslady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I became friends with one of my friends through my partner of 13 yrs he has been friends ( bare with me ) with this guy my friends husband forever since little kids .
He regularly cheats and I know she is now pregnant and I feel like I should tell but know its not helping anyone at all ; the guy is also my friend and hes been through LOTS of drama . Losing a son who was 3 years old , then a miscarriage of his baby and his 16 yr old cousin dying . As i say drama , so I kind of feel like hes having fun and deserves to . But what about her and would she thank me

2006-12-26 09:20:32 · 30 answers · asked by C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

See we broke up not to long ago and now he calls me all the time! how do you know if he still likes me or not?

2006-12-26 09:20:26 · 9 answers · asked by love_basketballgurl09 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged, and thus begins the process of planning a wedding. Holy crap.

A lot of the beautiful locations around here have a site rental fee that is more than my car is worth! Seriously, $4k PLUS catering & booze??

I found one or two restaurants with nice surroundings that don't charge a rental fee, just a catering fee. Anyone found places in the Los Angeles area that are inexpensive? I'm open to both off-beat and traditional.

Thanks!

2006-12-26 09:20:19 · 5 answers · asked by eli_star 5 in Weddings

do guys ever go out with other girls to try to make their ex jealous?
How can you tell if he still likes you?

2006-12-26 09:19:00 · 18 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I was picking up my Childs father from work. When I saw my sisters husband at the gas station. I yelled and said Hi. He said hi back. When i passed him leaving I saw a female in the car. Should i tell my sister? Or should i keep my mouth closed. Cause i stell want to see my sisters children.

2006-12-26 09:18:47 · 19 answers · asked by smily face 1 in Friends

There's this guy, right, who i've always liked... then at the end of last year he told me he liked me too. The summer was really rockey, because although i liked him, he had gone through so many girls, i didn't want to be just another one. So it goes on, i will keep it short for i am limited in characters, but bottom line is that he says he likes me, but he doesn't seem to show it. I never really know whats going on between us, and it bothers me to know that i'm putting myself out there and not really getting anything in return. Pretty much, if this doesn't sound weird, i've been the man in our relationship, stepping up and saying how it is, while he just agrees with me but doesn't contribute. Should i wait for him?

2006-12-26 09:18:42 · 9 answers · asked by magicalmayhem_07 1 in Singles & Dating

I read an email that my boyfriend babymama wrote him saying to him that she is with someone and he should try to work it out with me. I dont see what he wrote to her.

2006-12-26 09:18:02 · 11 answers · asked by Bronz Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuzI4TaE0Sm4PGzNcdp5iC7sy6IX?qid=20061222134442AAHG6wc

So, now, that same boy that called me earlier said that John told him that he likes me. He said that if I want to go out with John, my last chance would be in a few minutes (he is supposed to call me soon). He is talking to John about me, and is probably going to ask if he's serious about the relationship. So when he calls me, not only will he have John's answer, but he will have me tell him if I want to go out with John. I am undecided. I think I should give it a shot, but I'm soooo scared! What if he's only pity-dating me? My heart has been broken too many times before, and I don't want it to happen again. Boys, how do you guys act when you like a girl? Girls, any advice? If you can help me in any way possible (meanning SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY), then that would be great. Thanks!

2006-12-26 09:17:54 · 3 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 3 in Singles & Dating

If the wife finds out about the affair and he sees how hurt she is, and how hard she is trying to make things work, why can't he give up the mistress? Why is it so hard for a man to end an affair to save his marriage?

2006-12-26 09:17:47 · 22 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, here's the story:
my "friend" is someone that i have known for about four years, but, even though i've called her my best friend, I really find her annoying and hard to be around. The problem is that she always takes advantage of me and makes me feel bad, then acts like she didn't mean it, or covers it up with a joke. However, I can't not be friends with her because i will lose a lot of my other friends. Please tell me what I can do to make her feel the way I do.

2006-12-26 09:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by u*no*me 1 in Friends

when we hang out he stares into my eyes like he is trying to read me.. but what does that mean?

2006-12-26 09:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 yrs old and was married for 4 yrs to(Vinny) my ex. husband.I am still in love my ex. husband i feel like i made a huge mistake.We were together 10 yrs dating middleschool through highschool on and off plus two years of college.Then i decided to transfer into a 4 yr college and he decided to go home to help his family run their resturant/wine store so we split up.I graduated college 3 months pregnant and my then bf left me.I needed a place to stay and Vinny let me move in with him.I gave birth to my daughter and he accepted her like his own.Two years later i got pregnant with my son and we married.The marriage was rocky he cheated while drunk and in retaliation so did i with my boss.We divorced and i was married to somone else for 6 months before getting divorced again.

2006-12-26 09:15:31 · 22 answers · asked by Maggie G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 09:15:01 · 7 answers · asked by sierra[: 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a realtionship really ever work if the other person was unfaithful?Doesnt make it any worse if they were unfaithful with your sister.Could they really be sorry?I was with this person for over a year and for some reason one day he ended up having realations with my sister.I ended up finding out from suspecions and eventually i confromted them.He lied in the beging,but then came truthful.I m still very much in shock from the situation he has never made me feel insercure or not loved or not wanted before. and i am not sure what to think.He calls me all the time and gets mad when i dont want to talk to him and he keeps tring to back together with me..Would i be a fool to consider it? I just need some insight Please!!!! Thanks

2006-12-26 09:14:58 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon W 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex was a virgin when we got together. We were together for a couple of years. When we broke up she was very upset. She then started seeing someone right away and having sex with him. If our relationship meant anything wouldn't she have waited at least a little while?

2006-12-26 09:14:36 · 28 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me & kids know he has a lady on the side who he also provides for but refuses to leave and wants to sleep in sons room or floor but constantly getting up all hrs. of night and opens all blinds and windows.

2006-12-26 09:14:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That i enjoy making men excited? Does that make me a bad girl?

2006-12-26 09:14:18 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

And any good prezzies or any really Shi* ones X

2006-12-26 09:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When did you have your first boyfriend or first date because, I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or went on a date with a boy?

2006-12-26 09:13:37 · 16 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating