I read an email that my boyfriend babymama wrote him saying to him that she is with someone and he should try to work it out with me. I dont see what he wrote to her.
2006-12-26 09:18:02 · 11 answers · asked by Bronz Beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, it means that you were reading something you shouldn't have. Reading his private email is only going to cause you issues and if you confront him, the only thing you two will be talking about is how you read something that wasn't meant for you.
The other thing it meant was that he went to her for suggestions on how to handle something that had to do with you. Does that cause you pain? Yes it does, but honey, get over it or move on. They have a kid together, so my guess is that she'll be around a hell of a lot longer than you will be if you push this issue to much.
2006-12-26 09:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a babymama??? Goodness. He is going to be paying child support - and that is money that you will need for YOUR kids and YOUR relationship. Are you sure you want this guy as your boyfriend?
And NOW - he must have written something to her to get that response. Get out of this relationship now. It's sounds like he is not in it anyway. RUN!!! Find somebody who doesn't have a babymama!!!!
2006-12-26 17:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Babymama", now let me guess - is that a woman who he has a baby with? Anyhow, what are you doing snooping aroundin your boyfriend's email? Even if he is your boyfriend, or even if he is your husband, there is no right for you to read that person's email without their knowledge. Now if I am in the wrong here, and you do have permission, it's his fault for let you see such dribble. I suggest you then bring it up to him and give him the opportunity to answer truthfully to what is going on. Then and only then, you will know the truth.
2006-12-26 17:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by StylerEX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he was trying to get back together with his ex. If you read something like that, You need to GET OUT of that relationship. Obviously, he doesn't want to be with you or he wouldn't be trying to be with someone else. As hard as it is to accept, you've got to logically think that he'd said something about the possibility of being with her and not wanting to be with you so that's probably why she was trying to tell him that they couldn't be together and that he should just stick with you.
Sorry to say it but if he hasn't cheated on you, he's probably thinking about it. If not with her, with someone else because it doesn't sound like he's really faithful if he's getting emails like that from other people.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 17:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at that it seems like he was unhappy and went to her for whatever reason and was probably discussing private/personal parts of your relationship. Don't even bother confronting him, you don't need drama like that kick him to the curb.
That one thing he did is worth 3 strikes......kick him out.
2006-12-26 17:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by åߪõ£úţέ мåŷá 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is not entirely happy in a relationship with you and explored the possibility of getting together with the woman who had his baby. Seems she rejected him anyway.
What are you doing spying on him in the first place?
2006-12-26 17:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's really sad, apparently maybe he still has feelings for her and just maybe he was trying to get back with her. Maybe that's why she wrote back to him that!!
2006-12-26 17:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Yvette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means she wants to live with that someone..and wants ur boyfriend to work it out with u because she probably wont see him again..and wants him to stay with u because she'll be gone
2006-12-26 17:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he was going to leave you for her
2006-12-26 17:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by mell14716 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that he wants to leave you and get back with her.... i guess, sounds like it...
2006-12-26 17:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋