My ex was a virgin when we got together. We were together for a couple of years. When we broke up she was very upset. She then started seeing someone right away and having sex with him. If our relationship meant anything wouldn't she have waited at least a little while?
2006-12-26 09:14:36 · 28 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHY? she wasnt a virgin, your relationship was over!
2006-12-26 09:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could look at this several different ways.
1. She is so distraught that she is trying to force herself to get over you by filling the void with another man. "Rebound"
2. She is trying to make you jealous so you will come crawling back to her.
3. She has realized there is a large world out there and she is ready to explore it while putting her past (you) behind her.
Whatever the reason, maybe this is a sign that it wasn't meant to be between the two of you and you should also move on (not meaning another relationship). It will hurt and it will hurt longer the more your thoughts keep playing this scenario over and over in your head. You need to keep busy with friends, work or hobbies right now.
You may feel betrayed but when your relationship ended the both of you are free to do what you wanted and with who you want without having to answer to the one another.
Good luck on mending you broken heart.
2006-12-26 09:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to her. Sorry, but you have no say in who takes her virginity. You are her ex, and ex's have no more to say on what the other does with their lives. If you broke up with her then yes she was very hurt by the break up and maybe she wanted comfort and maybe the affair wasn't supposed to happen with her losing her virginity. Or was she really a virgin? Was too quick with sleeping with someone else other than you after the split.
2006-12-26 09:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that she was having sex with someone straight away, did she tell you ?? Perhaps she needed the closeness of someone else to comfort her. You said she was very upset. Did you break up with her ?? In all honesty though it is really none of your business now what she does, as she is your ex for a reason. Get on with your own life and stop worrying about hers. Best of luck.
2006-12-26 09:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel too terrible. At least she waited til you guys broke up. My ex (of 3 years and father of my son) knocked a chick up in another state while we were still together. Yeah....dumb girl that I am...didnt know about it til the 'twins' were a year old. All this BS about Im sorry...I love you...I want to marry you, not her...he married her 2 months after we broke up.
For the record, it was the best thing that could have happened. Things happen for a reason!
2006-12-26 09:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by colored_gem23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 01:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she didn't want to break up in the first place, and that you did.
If that's the case, you set her free, and Lord only knows what your really set free... She was on the rebound. That guy probably won't be the first one she'll sleep with, and it's in an attempt to make her feel better.
It won't work, and she'll figure that out. Once she does, though, that's when you need to watch out. That's when she'll meet someone she really DOES care about, and let's hope that you don't have feelings anymore for her by that point.
2006-12-26 09:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no longer together, and therefore it's not really your business who she chooses to sleep with. Or how long she waits for that matter.
He's probably just a rebound and now that she is no longer a virgin, she probably doesn't see any reason in waiting to have sex anymore.
Try not to let it bother you. You need to move on and stop worrying about her.
2006-12-26 09:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by purvislets 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best way to hurt someone back is to do what is unexpected. It doesn't mean she didn't care it just means she's not mature enough to handle herself and her emotions. It has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with her and her self esteem issues. Sometimes some people feel that the best way to get over another person is to get under someone else. Which does not help the situation. It only makes her look bad and immature.
2006-12-26 09:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An ex is an ex is an ex. There is a reason this person is your ex. Get over it. Maybe your ex was too young or immature to settle down. Now she is seeing what she was missing out on.
There is absolutely nothing you can do to change her. Do yourself a favor and stop keeping tabs on her.
2006-12-26 09:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you break up? Did you start seeing someone else? If you did something that made her really upset she just slept with someone out of revenge not because she doesn't care about you.
2006-12-26 09:17:23 · answer #11 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋