His a really good boy but his just not my taste... i think its a bit late for telling him that i dont want him!!! but his really not the one im looking for!! :((
2006-12-26 09:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first off if you know he is not the right one for you why waste any more of his time and his feelings??
sit back tonight and think of all the reasons and why you think this is best for him too, and if need be, write it all down and put it into sentences and be nice but be sincere.
Its obvious that you like him and care about him regardless so its not like you want to hurt him.
So, just keep that into consideration when talking to him.There is no guarantee that he isn't going to be hurt so just be kind and honest both and in the end you will know you did it the best way you could to prevent him any hard feelings.If he does have hard feelings after this, more than likely after a little time he will not and still be a good friend.
2006-12-26 09:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 10:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to be really honest with him and not beat around the bush, you need to tell him that you think he is a good person but you just dont think that you two belong together, or that your not ready to be in a relationship because your not ready to have a commitment, but no matter what, you have to be honest thats all anyone can ask for
2006-12-26 09:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by lilbutterflydevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you need to do-- there's just no easy way to do it. No way to stay friends, no way to avoid hurting feelings.
Look at it this way: you can do what you know you have to or you can spend the next few months faking your relationship and wasting time with someone you don't want to be with.
In the long term, are a few days of hurt worth the next few months of you becoming more and more miserable?
2006-12-26 09:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by AmyHalf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be honest but be sensitive about it. Do not make him feel as if it is his fault and there is nothing wrong with him but that your feelings have changed and that you are no longer in love with him. Tell him that he deserves better than what you can provide. Good luck to you.
2006-12-26 09:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by deep_hearted_empath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god... if theres anything i HATE in this world, is when a girl leads their boyfriend on thinkin everything is ok, thats what happened to me
tell him RIGHT now, or ASAP, you already screwed up, just try to do damage control if he asks why, tell him exactly why, dont give him no bullpoo answers
2006-12-26 09:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend the truth and be honest.
Good Luck!
2006-12-26 09:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him the truth would probably be the best.
2006-12-26 09:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Travis W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him but if you don't have the guts to make "him" break up with you. But the best way to do it is to tell him. sure he'll be sad but he'll move on and you can be happy
2006-12-26 09:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by dbskluvYUNJAE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what u tell him just dont use the " its not you its me" line thats the worse.
just be honest and he will hurt but he will understand.
2006-12-26 09:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by justincase119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋