Ok I was picking up my Childs father from work. When I saw my sisters husband at the gas station. I yelled and said Hi. He said hi back. When i passed him leaving I saw a female in the car. Should i tell my sister? Or should i keep my mouth closed. Cause i stell want to see my sisters children.
2006-12-26 09:18:47 · 19 answers · asked by smily face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That all depends if you want to take on the karma for starting the fight that could be over nothing.
2006-12-26 09:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by The Druid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In those types of situations you have to take care of the issue at that moment!! Such as going to the gas station you saw him at to say hi and ask who this women was..Not in a rude way, as nice as you can be just to get the answer..And then when you told your sister their would be no confusion and he couldn't act as though you must have thought you seen something but you didn't or that you are just trying to start trouble...
But since that isn't the case think about what you would want from your sister.. Would you want her to tell you? Do you think that your sister deserves to know? If so then sit her down one day, take her for a drink or out to eat and explain this to her as since as you can be..If she flips out at first its just b/c she feels as tough her life is falling apart I'm sure..So be there for her tell her you will help her in any way you can..And that you just couldn't go any longer with holding that information..
2006-12-26 09:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask the husband who that lady was in the car with him the other day( be sure it wasn't something innocent). If he don't give a good enough answer then tell your sis, what are sisters for. After all wouldn't you want her to tell you if it were the other way around.
2006-12-26 09:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 16:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ofcourse, but if you knew that your sister's husband is really a gentle man and that women might be a friend of him or some good relation between them , then you can clarify it first with you sister's husband and if you are not satisfy with the answer that you get then you can proceed with your sister to save her life .
2006-12-26 09:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by rani v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a simliar situation like that I told my sister and she comfronted him, which he lied about it and eventually she seen it with her on eyes. So the only thing you could do is tell her, because you love your sister, I pretty sure if it was your husband she would tell you, tell her every thing going to come out in the open!! if not when you tell her it will in the future, and if she doesn't listen to you now she going to wish she did in the future. GOOD LUCK!!!! to you.
2006-12-26 09:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, it could have simply been a co worker or something. I mean if he didn't get all antzy when you said hi, he's probably not hiding anything. if he had something to hide he probably would have tried to ignore you or something. So ask him who it was, just let him know you were curious like you thought it was your sister but it wasn't and wanted to know. If he can't tell you maybe he is hiding something and its time to tell your sister.
2006-12-26 09:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the exact circumstances why that woman was in the car? If you don't, you really have no business starting trouble where there may not be any.
2006-12-26 09:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. get his story . Make him know that you know and tell him to tell her or you will. The kids iam sure you will still be able to see, but if something is going on she definately needs to know.
2006-12-26 10:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some family issues.....
Tell her. Then move out of the hood.
2006-12-26 09:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by U Luv It 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋