Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

The guy Im seeing disappeared on me for like 4 days. And just today he sends me a text message on my mobile. Asking me if I was ok and that he miss me alot. Im pissed as hell i hated it when people disappear for no reason. I didn't reply to any of his messages or calls. I feel like disappearing myself just so he know's how it feels. I don't like people taking me for granted. Am i over reacting here?

2006-12-26 11:36:22 · 19 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend got into a fight,and we made up.And,when we were fighting,she said that she saw my boyfriend holding hands with another girl.Then,we madew up,and I asked if that was true,and she said,yes,and I told my other friend that,and she said that she cant see my boyfriend doing that to me.And,I havent seen my boyfriend in a while, but, I cant see my boyfriend doing that either.But,I could be wrong.What should I do????

2006-12-26 11:36:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to out to a club on new years eve but my boyfriend wants us to go to a party at his mates house. The thing is my bfrind is not english nor are his mates and they said that they would be more comfortable having ther own party. I dont live near my friends or family. Also ive a new outfit which isnt really for a house party.

2006-12-26 11:36:14 · 14 answers · asked by Daniella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 11:35:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and now i feal as though she's always around me dissapointed in me..

2006-12-26 11:34:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy and i have liked each other for two years. we're young, so the only things we have really done are watch movies and do group things. i want to kiss him, and hes the shy type, who definately wouldn't initiate the kiss. Since we know each other pretty well, I don't think it would scare him away. should i make the move, or do you believe it will just happen at the right time?

2006-12-26 11:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by Marc 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel very sad. All I do is fight with my husband..he never takes accountability for things he does and tells me I'm the one who causes everything, I'm depressed, etc and hs even called me a c word 9 times one day. He likes to bring up ex-boyfriends and throw them in my face. I know we have a 9 month old and that adds to stress but when to draw the line?

I can't fight anymore. How do you know which is the lessor of 2 evils: Being sad alone or being sad and trying continuously to improve things?

Please help. I can't stop crying.

2006-12-26 11:34:16 · 22 answers · asked by tired_of_being_sad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 27 and I've never had sex because I've never really felt the urge to. Now, all of a sudden, I've met this guy who I am incredibly attracted to. We get along just fine and the chemistry is incredible and all I can do is think about sleeping with him. It's really interesting to know what "horny" feels like!

Ideally though, I would want to be in a committed relationship with this guy, but I don't think either of us is ready. I am willing to forgo the possibility of a relationship, but I can't pass up the possibility of sleeping with him. I keep thinking "there's no time like the present" and it is driving me nuts. If he’s the only man I sleep with once, I’ll be just fine.

I don’t masturbate or use toys (just doesn't work for me). I need his touch. (help!). How should I approach him on this topic without scaring him away or making him think I’m easy?

2006-12-26 11:33:25 · 35 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean to you

2006-12-26 11:33:01 · 58 answers · asked by ♥Natalie♥ 2 in Friends

Ok my best friend since i was 2 want to go out with the guy i am dating! i really really like him but do i continue dating him i dont want my friendship or my relationship to be over. She has a boyfriend of her own. Does she only want me to be unhappy?This is the longest time ive been with a guy. He seems that he loves me.Im gouing to the movies with both of them tomorrow what do i do???

2006-12-26 11:32:19 · 2 answers · asked by Me 2 in Friends

Do you have thoughts of divorce?

Or are you totally happy with your marriage?

Is life better now that you are married?

2006-12-26 11:32:13 · 27 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex, who is a lawyer, managed to hire the best lawyer in town to reduce his child support payments by 60% of the normal rate. We now live in Mexico, I am am starting up a business. We currently live on $1,400 per month and our rent is alone for the business and our home is $600. He told the children today that they are spoiled and need to learn to work. He took them to the orphange today to show them how they could be living. Any ideas on how to handle this? My children are 11 and 15 years old. This is just one of his many schemes.

2006-12-26 11:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by Nelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a really bad break up with my boyfriend. We've been together for about 10 months,and after the break-up, i never felt like myself. I constantly think of him, dream of him, and feel like i can't move on. It's been 2 months already and i still can't forget about him. It was hard to stay together since we already tried a long distant relationship. He said he'd come back, but i'm worried he won't! How can i help myself move on? What should i do?

2006-12-26 11:30:59 · 20 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's two guys - Let's call them M & N. The problem is difficult for me because I liked M for nearly two years and I talked about him alot with N. About a month ago I finally asked M out and he said no but I haven't told N or anybody else because it's so embaressing and I haven't talked about him in general. So now I like N and he's my best friend so we're really close. Yesterday night N and I talked on the phone and I told him I didn't like M anymore and he was like, "Sure you don't" and I told him I didn't again and he was like "Riiight." How do I get him to believe me? If I asked him out the first thing he would probrably ask me is, "What about N?" Help?

2006-12-26 11:28:55 · 13 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Singles & Dating

I believe that my she's trying to break up with me. She said that I make her feel "uncomfortable". I don't see how I do so because i treat her right and I'm not cheating on her or doing anything behind her back. I'm not really sure what's going on; perhaps she needs space... idk. I'm very confused. My gf is insecure and she has no self-esteem whatsoever. I call her nicknames such as "bonita" and "cupcake", but she told me to stop calling her those names because it makes her feel uncomfortable. Anyone have any advice for me as to what I should do or how should I handle this? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

2006-12-26 11:28:02 · 17 answers · asked by g13player 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up 5 months ago bcuz we never saw each other and i was too quiet. i'm really not a quiet person but i was insecure then. I am not now. My ex and i hav started to talk a lot and hav fun talking and teasing again. But he started going out w/ my friend who is very awkward. i heard him saying to my friend that 'yeahh my gf's really quiet' and made a sad face. i hav a lot friends, pretty, athletic, smart and now finally CONFIDENT in myself..i like this guy again and know if i show him my confident side it would make him think...what should i do??

2006-12-26 11:27:55 · 11 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

ive come to the conclusion i have to let go of the man i love.hes on this site too and i know what hes been asking and basically i dont know why hes with me and ya all reckon he should leave me and me him, it boils down to sex which saddens me but its quite obvious there is nothing else to do, but i dont know how to let go, i dont know how to stop loving him, i tried before and couldnt be without him, its really getting me down, what do i do

2006-12-26 11:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it something thats second nature, or is it learned throughout childhood?

2006-12-26 11:27:38 · 35 answers · asked by Crystal kitten 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating this guy.. I am 22 he is 30... the age is not a big issue for me at all and I don't think it is for him either but just to give you a better picture of whats going on... well I made it clear to him that I am very particular about who I have sex with.... I don't have nearly as much experience as him obviously and I'm not looking for a serious relationship.... well at first we talked almost every night and I really started to like him a lot .. still do.... and we had sex and since then he hasn't called me quite as much as he used to and he seems to want to have sex everytime we meet up now. I really don't know for sure how he feels about me because he never tells me... I think he may be using me, and another part of me says that he maybe slightly insecure and waiting for me to break the ice.. help?? what do I do???

2006-12-26 11:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda F 2 in Singles & Dating

i married her dad after having three children when i ask her when she is going to get married she tells me well you have three

2006-12-26 11:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by sexpregir 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when your ex-bf says ur hot and puts his arms around you and gives you shoulder rubs but he has a gf that he is considering dumping her for u?

2006-12-26 11:26:59 · 1 answers · asked by squeakers579 2 in Singles & Dating

he was like totally playing with himself. like naked. on the bathroom floor. nothing covering him. What should I do?

2006-12-26 11:26:40 · 27 answers · asked by Skittles 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 11:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by 2thpick 1 in Friends

I recently fell for this girl and found out she likes me back. But the more i thought about her the feelings i had for my ex girlfriend/bestfriend came back.i also catch my ex sometimes staring at then looking away quickly when i look. i'm not sure who i'm in love with. could someone help?

2006-12-26 11:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

most of the time..so i cant help my feelings. i just get this terrible feeling in me when they like do something w/ out, but i know in my heart its not right for me to get upset. i dont know what to do. like one of the girls is away and like me and the other one are doing things together. so then i was at her house, she goes and emails the other girl saying shes doing sometihng with me and dont get upset and all that. but she never does that to me wen they hang out?! i always talk to her about this but like the next day its no diffrent. help!!

2006-12-26 11:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-26 11:24:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm from florida, and i'm getting married in 1 week or so. I have no idea what process i have to go through to have my last name changed to his. Help :)

2006-12-26 11:24:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went to a movie with my girlfriend and i had my arm around her almost the whole time and it felt really uncomfortable for me cuz the seats werent really made for that, anyway i asked her if it was uncomfortable and she said it wasnt was it uncomfotable and she just wanted me to hold her or was it that it really wasnt uncomfortable?

2006-12-26 11:24:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He or she cheats, your partener of 3 years. Once. Apology after apology after apology, tears and more tears... They have made it very clear that they are sorry, and have sworn on their life it would never happen again.

What would you do and WHY? Would you turn your current life upside down to start a new one over again? Do you believe them? Would you trust them?

HONEST & SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE.

2006-12-26 11:24:23 · 24 answers · asked by melsaruly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends mainly one that i actually care about are upset with me because i dont spend as much time with them as i used to, i used to be out with them every night and now that i got engaged i go out to dinner with them at least once a week and ill go get coffee whenever i can, but i feel as though i am in a relationship with my friend...lol... its kinda annoying because i dont want to hurt her feelings because she is a few years older than me and i know she really wants to be married i dont know what to do any suggestions, we always invite her out with us but she doesnt really come

2006-12-26 11:23:11 · 11 answers · asked by SB33 2 in Friends