most of the time..so i cant help my feelings. i just get this terrible feeling in me when they like do something w/ out, but i know in my heart its not right for me to get upset. i dont know what to do. like one of the girls is away and like me and the other one are doing things together. so then i was at her house, she goes and emails the other girl saying shes doing sometihng with me and dont get upset and all that. but she never does that to me wen they hang out?! i always talk to her about this but like the next day its no diffrent. help!!
2006-12-26 11:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they do like me....then they wouldnt have even started hanging w/ me..
2006-12-26 11:29:17 · update #1
but even sometimes i just get upset for like not really such a reason. i just get this wierd feeling in my heart....
2006-12-26 11:30:36 · update #2
sweetheart the answer is obvious. they might click more together. And the reason she is saying dont be mad is because they have realized you are jealous.
i have a friendr who was the same way. it led to a big ole argument where i was accused of something because of a misunderstnading when i know the other friend of ours would have been given benifit of doubt. I really do like her too. i could sense her jeaolousy or hostility and i tried avoideing her. then when we were together thats when the blow up happend. my advice is dont care. Really if they like each other better so what. you still like them. why dont you try to individually make the best relationship possible with each of the three girls. Then dont care what they do together. obviously they like you..........or they would not hang out with you at all.
relationships change through time. who knows in ten years you might be closer friends with these girls. or you could make even better friends. as long as you have friends that back you up and bleive in you then who cares. YOU as their friend should want the best for them too. Sometimes, that wont be you
2006-12-26 11:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant always hang out with all of them all the time. Let them have their time together and when you are with them just appreciate it. After al they must like you or they wouldnt hang with u at al. You just need to chill. FInd things you can do when your alone. Being alone is not such a horrible thing. It gives a person time to reflect on life but dont dwell on negative things.
2006-12-26 11:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, Go and do something else when they do something else. Have fun instead of feeling all upset, it only makes it worse for you. So, try to find some other friends to do things with. And dont forget that you are fun, and happy, and a good friend.
2006-12-26 11:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Long Beach Moose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you propose, i've got experienced that for the period of the previous. this is good you stick up on your individual comments and don't grow to be a same to them. regrettably there is the asserting "2's business corporation, threes a crowd". do no longer say something yet while they start ganging up on you basically say "why do you constantly gang up on me because of the fact this is the way it feels". in case you nonetheless desire to be pals with them then do it gently and don't get offended. you ought to constantly pass off someplace on your individual once or twice and that they had pass over you and ask the place you the place. Or be particularly quiet and in the event that they ask what's incorrect tell them which you sense lonely or skipped over.
2016-11-23 18:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if it's more than 3! it's a crowd! trust it happens to me all the time! it's okay! just look in the bright side! you have friends!
2006-12-26 11:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me when i was young and it does not feel good.i lived through it but going through it sucks
2006-12-26 11:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by pappydig33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED BETTER FRIENDS THAN THEM THEY ARE TO FACED SOONER OR LATER YOUR GOING TO HAVE TO DECIDE WHETHER THEY ARE WORTH HANGING OUT WITH I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH WITH YOUR FRIENDS I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH A FRIEND OF MINE AND HAD TO PART WAYS WITH HER
2006-12-26 11:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by hallowsevenight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are yal dyking???
2006-12-26 11:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so................ first tell her how you feel and see how she would feel if you did it to her
2006-12-26 11:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jaz J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they don't like you?
2006-12-26 11:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋