i married her dad after having three children when i ask her when she is going to get married she tells me well you have three
2006-12-26 11:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by sexpregir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
does she have kids? if so tell her not to have anymore unless she is married.
2006-12-26 11:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It should her choice to make, something this important should be rushed into. Remember life is a journey,not a race.
I suprised that you would rush your daughter into marriage with the divorce rates over 50%.
I am a 35 yr man and happy to be single,nor will i be rushed into something by family, friends or girlfriend. It's my decision to make. The last time I checked back in the day kids were born AFTER the couple were married.
2006-12-26 11:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by isbros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my daughter got pg everyone pushed marriage on her, I told her not to do it, when she got pg for the second everyone put their feet down and said they better do it, hubby and I tried to talk them both out of it but we were out numbered, they were too young, yes they were too young to have children as well but there is a difference, now the youngest is 2 they are in the middle of a very nasty divorce and the kids are suffering for it, if they had not had gotten married they could have avoided most of this drama
2006-12-26 13:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot dictate to your daughter when its time for HER to get married. she must have a good head on her shoulders not to listen to you. dont push the issue. she did not find the right one yet. you dont just tell someone to get married because its time. leave her alone. if you are that anxious for her to get married...why dont you just do it. if the truth is known, you are probably one of the failed marriages too....
2006-12-26 13:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its really not your business when she gets married! She will get married when she feels she is ready. Why would you want to push your daughter into something she is not ready for........divorce rates go up every year!
2006-12-26 11:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER is a good time to tell someone to get married. She really must decide 100% for herself, and even as her mother, you have no right to decide for her about marriage.
2006-12-26 11:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by eradicate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your job to impose marriage on anyone, not even your own child. And truthfully, you can't nag her when you haven't really led by example. If she's old enough to get married, she's old enough to make up her mind about the way she wants to live her life free of judgement from anyone who disagrees with her lifestyle.
2006-12-26 11:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will decide in her own time when she's ready to get married. You can't force her into anything.
2006-12-26 11:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Katie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will get married when and IF she even wants to. It's HER choice .. not yours. Get over yourself and let her make her OWN choices.
2006-12-26 11:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her business now, but we do set the examples for our children. We are their major role models. Perhaps you could tell her your experiences on why it would benefit her, but it's still her business and her choice. If you hound her, she might deliberately resist...that's common.
2006-12-26 11:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋