ive come to the conclusion i have to let go of the man i love.hes on this site too and i know what hes been asking and basically i dont know why hes with me and ya all reckon he should leave me and me him, it boils down to sex which saddens me but its quite obvious there is nothing else to do, but i dont know how to let go, i dont know how to stop loving him, i tried before and couldnt be without him, its really getting me down, what do i do
2006-12-26 11:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to leave him, been nearly 2.5 years, how do you do something you dont wanna do
2006-12-26 12:00:33 · update #1
I don't think you should make any decisions based solely on what people on an internet chat thing say. Talk to him first
2006-12-26 12:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times we think it is hard to let go because we don't want to let go. Ask yourself, what is he doing for me besides making my virgina ordorefous? You can get anyone to have sex. Sex is beautiful when it is done by a man and his wife. Will this man marry me? No! He doesn't really care for you. He is probably having sex with someone else. Don't you want a man who loves you back? Why use your body for abuse. Don't you know before long, you will meet other guys that want to have sex with you, and abuse you and your body? What's the point. I have found out these things through trail and errors, and I pray that I can help any young girl who will listen and understand. But if you just have to have sex, think about aids and all other social diseases you can contract. Think before leaping. I don't be pressured by your peers.
2006-12-26 11:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by pleasantville982001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like a grieving process letting go and it does take time before you feel better,but you will get over i don't know what hes been asking but from what you have to say its just not working for either of you.Love should be good without any major problems.good luck
2006-12-26 12:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not easy hun,i broke up with my ex 3 months ago after 3 years 2gether n im still hurtin.we both love eachother dearly but were no good together.just try n be strong and know the next few months are gonna b tough but you will get through it.i wish you all the best x
2006-12-27 09:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly make the decision, which i think you have half heartedly done so far. Then either walk away or send him packing, then don't look back. It will take time to get over him but you will eventually meet some one else who will reciprocate the feelings that you have.
2006-12-26 11:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by L D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are, sadly, mad about sex, as much as possible and as varied as possible! This isn't necessarily a bad thing, I suppose it depends on a couple of things - How he goes about expressing his sexual desires and you're own personal libedo! And don't pay too much attention to what people say on this site, most folk are just bored and out for a laugh, I'm usually one of them!
2006-12-28 17:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple of deep breaths and scream at a pillow or something! let eveyrthing out! then talk to him! in a nice way! guys have feelings to! you can't over push! then just let go of him! if you can't live without him go get a disacrtaction! ice cream! or go hang out with your girlfriends! do anything but think about him! :) good luck!
2006-12-26 11:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is hard at times. not clear about the second sentence: i know what hes been asking.....
you are wearing your heart on your sleeve. get strong. now. and get rid of him. you can do it! i'm rooting for ya.
2006-12-26 11:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that when I broke up, it took me seven months to start feeling better. Give yourself time. But, you can be strong enough.
2006-12-26 11:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by yowhatdoyouwant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to Jesus cause guess what i have the same exact problem.
2006-12-26 11:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by boricuaangel196 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋