Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

i got married to my first love young and i am still young but it hurts how did you heal?
i have no kids so what do you do when you have to start a new relationship and how fast after did you date?

2006-12-26 11:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by mz.alayne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to find one thats not to expensive ive looked online and either the are to expensive or i dont like them but any websites u could give me would be great

2006-12-26 11:07:09 · 19 answers · asked by jna1105 3 in Weddings

2006-12-26 11:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex of 3 1/2 years ago txted me out of the blue yestarday stating how beautiful i am and how attracted he is to me. i still hate him for what he did to me. i was in a 4 year relationship woth him and he cheated on me so i dumped him. i just dont what to reply to him or shall i reply at all? what would you lot do?

2006-12-26 11:06:24 · 34 answers · asked by bex 3 in Singles & Dating

I know that the personality is the most important thing, and I believe it, but this question is very specific: it is about the looks. If you had the power to "build" the perfect partner for you, exactly how would he/she be? Green eyes? Dark hair?strong arms? curly hair? how?

2006-12-26 11:05:52 · 22 answers · asked by Mila S 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay. So this is going to be kind of long. I'm a freshman in high school. I'm in the band. And I've never had a 'boyfriend'. At the begining of this school year, I found out that one of the sophmore's in the drumline liked me and he started talking to me a lot and he was acctualy kind of cool. And I think around the first of October he asked me to homecoming and I said yes.

So we went to homecoming together, and I thought it was pretty fun. But after homecoming (October 21), he just stopped talking to me and I'm not really sure why. I don't think I did anything wrong. And yes, I have tried talking to him but he just ignores me.

So here comes the point of this whole thing. It's been more than 2 months since then, and I can't stop thinking about him. And I'm really not the type to get hung over on a guy. So can anyone tell me what this means...please??? Or give me some sort of assurance. It's driving me nuts!!! :/

2006-12-26 11:05:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know if anyone knows what will make sex last longer with my husband? has anyone tried creams and if so do they work??? i am deperate because our sex life sucks... the last time was only 2 1/2 minutes and this has become our average... we're lucky if we get 5 minutes and we're only 26...please help

2006-12-26 11:04:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 11:03:19 · 40 answers · asked by Danielle M 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and me haven't spoken in over a month. She got mad at me for something I did not do but she accused me of doing it and told me to find someone else. She argues with me every few months and we stop talking. On Christmas, I sent her a nice gift and I also emailed her to say Merry Christmas but she ignored me totally. My family says to forget her and move on. I feel she found someone else in the month we have been apart. I miss her like crazy. What should I do? Should I continue to email her and not get a response or should I just leave her alone? It's hard for me because I do love her.

2006-12-26 11:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her mother passed on we had stress from her 2 children & my one, she moved to VA & I miss her so much.Is there a way to recapture the love we once shared?

2006-12-26 11:03:09 · 2 answers · asked by canran2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend likes this girl and he always talked about her she broke his heart by saying i dont like u how do i help him?

2006-12-26 11:02:31 · 14 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Why can't i just let go and enjoy life? The sad thing is i've been lucky enough to met some lovely people over the years, who went out of their way to be genuine and friendly towards me. But i get irritated very easily and have a fantastic ability to alienate the very people who've extended the hand of friendship. So unsuprisingly i'm friendless. I like watching comedies and laugh like a drain when i'm alone. I can see the funny things in life and laugh at myself and how ridiculous i can be - but i'm unable to share this side of me with other people. I've been told i'm 'hard work' to be with. :-) So i sit at home alone instead of sharing my life with other people.

I feel like life's passing me by. How can i change for the better?

2006-12-26 11:02:24 · 26 answers · asked by pam 1 in Friends

2006-12-26 11:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by S B 2 in Singles & Dating

They both feel something, but is it just wrong? Nothing sexual at all, for years to come, but she is very matured.

2006-12-26 11:01:30 · 19 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time I asked my fiancee for something he gives me a million and one reasons why he cannot. A few weeks ago we were talking about getting my car serviced and he told me he had a friend that would fix my car real cheap. So I told him to call the guy. He never did. When I asked him again he told me that he could change my oil himself. He never did and when I asked him he said that he didn't have time. The next weekend he brought home his friends car to put a radio system in it but he couldn't change my oil!!! Today he got off work early and I asked him to pick the kids up from the babysitter he told me he was in the store buying a computer desk and that he wouldn't have time this was at 5:00pm and I don't get off work til 8. So when I called him back at 6 he was at home and said that his stepbrother had just come over to so he couldn't get the kids!!! By this time I was pissed off!!! So when I blow up at him he told me I was being unreasonable!!! Was I?

2006-12-26 11:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been going out for about 4 months. Last month was my Brithday and he got me a really cute gift, it was a good surprise. I thought he was just going to get me flowers. But for Christmas he got me a tiny box of chocolate! I am embarresed to tell anyone but mainly I am disapointed in him. I thought he liked me more than that. Should I just break up with him? Or just tell him how disapointed I am of him and hope he gets the picture that choclate is for Valetines Day not Christmas.

2006-12-26 10:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by Little_Sailor_Pluto 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone had any experience using them? What was the outcome?

2006-12-26 10:59:10 · 1 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love him soooo much but for some reason he doubts me and it hurts because i go out of the way to try and make him happy what should i do?

2006-12-26 10:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by outspoken_princess 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are in a newly long distance relationship. We almost never argued face to face. We get into alot of fights now. And everytime we get in a fight on the phone, he hangs up on me and wont answer my calls. Why does he ditch the problem instead of face it.

2006-12-26 10:56:59 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal kitten 1 in Singles & Dating

i was in a club on friday night but i would say its not the best kinda place to be looking especially with beer goggles on .

2006-12-26 10:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone. I am having a situation at my place of employement. Background is that I tried to become friends with this person that I work with, and I kept pushing, and pushing to the point that she is having a hard time even talking to me. I was basically a pushy *** and didn't want to accept that she didn't want to be friends with me. We sit next to each other in a small group, and all day I hear her talking with my other coworkers in a friendly way. However, she will not do this with me at all. I try to talk with her as normal, but I receive looks as if to say - please go away and die or something. I have tried to make amends to her, and I have told her repeatedly that I was sorry for everything I did, but that I cannot take back what I did even though I wish very much that I could. My question is how and what can I do to get her to just change her opinion of me to the way it used to be. It is very uncomfortable for me. I care about her and want the best for her. Please

2006-12-26 10:54:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ian 1 in Friends

2006-12-26 10:54:32 · 17 answers · asked by Kate the Saint 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we do not know what to do...tell them we r going out or just love each other and not go out at all

HELP

2006-12-26 10:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by american_gangster_5 1 in Friends

My soon to be step sister is mad at me cause me and her sister were writing notes on the computer wordpad about some thing very personal. i was trying to make sure she was happy and I was sayin i was a vampire. some how she got on the subject of "what if we left tommorrow...." i had no idea what she was talking about so i said so. then she got the idea that i dont care about her, her sister or her mom. what should i do. shes 2 yrs. yuonger than me

2006-12-26 10:53:24 · 1 answers · asked by *Gulielmo Marconi* 2 in Family

Well...?

2006-12-26 10:52:55 · 12 answers · asked by michael d 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 10:52:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK, first of all, I'm a 13 year old. I've had a boyfriend for not too long now, but he was a really close friend of mine for around a year before we got together. He told everyone EXCEPT me he loves me, and I don't really know what ot do. I love him, too, that I'm sure, but how do I tell him?

2006-12-26 10:51:29 · 4 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Singles & Dating

Been with a Guy A for over 4 years,we are in love, but hes not ready to move to the next step. Guy B known and liked for over a year. Everything just seems to click wonderful with him. Guy A, is great, and everything is comfortable but not ready to grown up. Guy B, knows im with Guy A, but still wont give up, thinks we are meant to be.
Do i leave the guy im comfortable with, for something that could be 10 times better or worst, dont know.

Please Help!!!

2006-12-26 10:50:49 · 18 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have certainly never encountered anything like this before, I could use some advice. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years. We met shortly after my ex boyfriend and I (of 2 years) broke up due to him moving away for college. We spared each other the pain, knowing long distance relationships just don't work. My fiance and I built quite the happy life together, we purchased a house, and we're doing excellent, we were happy... We were happy until he cheated on me. We broke up for a week. After deciding to try and make things work, I moved back in. We have not managed to be happy since the incident... Both of us are desperately trying, we don't want 3 years of happiness to go to waste. What my fiance doesn't know, is I have kept in contact with my ex. We send emails back and forth, about once a month, we have remained friends. We are very spiritually close... For example, I had a dream about him a couple months ago, and to my surprise found out he had dreamt of me as well. We can, and do, talk for hours straight... 3-8 hours at a time, without bored or awkward silences. I still think about him every single day... 3 years later and I still can't seem to get him off my mind. The worst part? Three days before Christmas my ex graduated college and moved back home. I was nothing more than to see him, but I know I can't. I am STUCK. I love my fiance, but... This whole thing is so very confusing.

2006-12-26 10:50:39 · 16 answers · asked by melsaruly 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 4 years have loved him to death but unfortunately did not get married & now he has found someone else & he is behaving so rudely. Was it love or was I mistaken ?are all guys like that when they find something else they turn into a total different person as if they dont know. He hurt me a lot by behaving like that I want to forget everything every little thing that ever happened between us. How can I? I dont want to deal with the frustration & pain I have to go thru because of him.

2006-12-26 10:50:11 · 17 answers · asked by rsus1230 1 in Singles & Dating