I love him soooo much but for some reason he doubts me and it hurts because i go out of the way to try and make him happy what should i do?
2006-12-26 10:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by outspoken_princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cant trust you then **** him
2006-12-26 11:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably had a long line of girls that abused his trust, and in turn he belives no one. Im the same way but i dont know how much this girl cares about me. Just sit him down and tell him how u feel and keep reminding him of the postive experiences u guys had. Show him not just tell him how much u care, and hell believe u soon. If u care about him, you should tolerate it and when he feels ok, the relationship will be that much better. Jus talk to him, make sure you guys have communication because trust issues can ruin a perfectly good relationship.
2006-12-26 19:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you’re going through is me 6 months ago; I tried everything to prove to him that I’m not cheating! I went out of my way, and at the end, he broke up with me and accused me of being a liar and a smartass. It kills me because I wasted all this time on him. So please leave him for your own sake, he won’t change, he might say he will, but that’s just how he is. So as hard as it sounds dump him now, or else you will be 10 times more heart broken if you get dumped after putting all that effort. TRUST ME.
2006-12-30 02:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by NS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first advice I would give would be not to let him run your life, but at the same time, be careful of appearances. If you're going out with a group of friends and there is a guy present it should be ok, but maybe not one on one encounters, or incredibly long phone calls. Also be cautious of how you talk about other guys. Outside of being contious of those things, and not really cheating on him, I don't know what else to do.
2006-12-26 19:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by gamegurl8504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had the same problem..............it is not that he does not trust you. It is that he does not trust that he is good enough for you to truly love him.
My boyfriend like that destroyed my feeling for him by continuously accusing me of cheating when he was the ONLY man in the world that I wanted.
It is what is known as a self fulfilling prophesy. He drove me away, fulfilling his anticipation that he was not good enough and that I WOULD leave him.............I hung on to that bad relationship too long to try to PROVE to him that I loved him and would not leave.
Short answer, you can't.
An idea:
Show your question and answers to him. It may open his eyes. You have nothing to lose. Unless you can open his eyes, that relationship is doomed anyway.
2006-12-26 19:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your boyfriend is feeling a little insecure. Well my boyfriend says he trusts me but not any guy around me.. and i kept on assuring him that he doesnt have to care about other people as long as he can trust me.
Communication plays a major role. Talk to him softly and convince him that you love him till it hurts when he has doubts in you.
2006-12-26 19:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new boyfriend.
Insecurity and unfounded jealousy are traits that will not fade with time; they will get worse.
This guy is not right for you; even if you're giving him reason to worry.
2006-12-26 19:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a big thing in a relationship. did you do something to make him think not to trust u? was he hurt in past relationships? if not, dump him.
2006-12-26 19:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt trust you than you shouldnt be wasting your love on a guy like him...and for hu knws he myte be the cheatin on you...
2006-12-26 19:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Naima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***. He might be the one cheating.
2006-12-26 19:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he has to trust u,,,don't try to brove it,,,, u r not guilty,,,so stop being worry ,,,,don't care about him ,, he is a truble maker
2006-12-26 19:03:49 · answer #11 · answered by maggi_essam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋