We have been going out for about 4 months. Last month was my Brithday and he got me a really cute gift, it was a good surprise. I thought he was just going to get me flowers. But for Christmas he got me a tiny box of chocolate! I am embarresed to tell anyone but mainly I am disapointed in him. I thought he liked me more than that. Should I just break up with him? Or just tell him how disapointed I am of him and hope he gets the picture that choclate is for Valetines Day not Christmas.
2006-12-26 10:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by Little_Sailor_Pluto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a shallow, dumb, materialistic biatch. You are wrong when you have expectations of him giving you stuff. Be glad that he actually got you something and be happy with it. What the hell did you get him? If you got him nothing, then you deserve nothing from him. Be glad he didn't dump you the day before Xmas. He deserves better than you. You're a shallow a*sshole. You deserve no presents you ungrateful biatch.
2006-12-26 11:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I actually relived this right journey in straightforward terms an afternoon in the past. My boyfriend overvalued my present lots. final 12 months I spend over one hundred funds on his present and he spend in fact no longer something, so i presumed this 12 months the tables could turn. remember we've been relationship for some 12 months and a 0.5 now. I gave him a checklist that he particularly needed and that i carefully opened his present, which grew to become into very small and flat. i grew to become into already afraid of what he had overvalued. I opened it up. It grew to become right into a $20 present card to Panda exhibit. while he observed the look on my face he grew to become into soooo sorry. He saved apologizing many times and telling me to forget approximately approximately it and that he'd get me something else. In his techniques, there grew to become into actual no possibility of me no longer liking it. yet particularly?? From my boyfriend?? Does he additionally know me? And $20?? He constantly says value would not count because of the fact he loves me... yet I basically wish he grew to become into prepared to spend lots on me for such an important day. i know he makes various funds at his interest. Ugh. it is so frightening.
2016-11-23 18:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you put the value of your relationship on a box of chocolates. last time I checked its the thought that counts.. maybe hes had a rough couple of months at work and that what he could afford, huh break up with him for that.. pretty shallow..i have been wit the same girl for 4 years and I got a book that cost probably 19.95 id better go break up with her. you should be more embarrassed to tell your Friends how shallow you are
2006-12-26 11:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
IT would be beyond shallow to break up with him over a stupid gift! He got you what he thought you would like- guys are hapless when it comes to giving gifts sometimes, so get used to it. If you don't like him enough to love him no matter what he gives you, you're probably not good enough for him anyway.
If my bf gave me chocolate I'd be happy, give him a kiss and say thanks, then share it with him. Its the thought that counts. You didn't even deserve the chocolate!
2006-12-26 11:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should be grateful for any gift, especially on Christmas. Definately not something to break up with someone over. Remember what Christmas is all about...
2006-12-26 11:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He didn't have to get you any gift...if you are considering breaking up because he didn't get you what you think you deserved, then yes...do break up...you're apparently not a good match and may want to seek someone who'll spend money on you in the manner you seem to desire.
2006-12-26 11:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are materialistic.
He buy some thing and he gave you a gift it
He might have financially problem, he gave you what he can afford right now. It doesn't matter if it is small or big....He gave you some thing. It matters how he treat you and feel about you.
you air head!!
2006-12-26 11:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the thought that counts. Maybe he's having financial difficulties. What did you expect him to give you? With your attitude you should've got a lump of coal.
2006-12-26 11:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should actually be happy :| Why would you break up with him for not getting you the right gift? That's just wrong.
2006-12-26 11:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't break up with him, give him another chance although chocolate is for Valentine's day he probably coudn't think of the right gift, and tell him how dispointed you are. It will help.
2006-12-26 11:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by jazzy*fizzle 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋