I recently fell for this girl and found out she likes me back. But the more i thought about her the feelings i had for my ex girlfriend/bestfriend came back.i also catch my ex sometimes staring at then looking away quickly when i look. i'm not sure who i'm in love with. could someone help?
2006-12-26 11:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds cliche, but if things are really over between you and your ex-, you might just need to "say good" or "get closure". I didn't want to type that.
I had been separated from my now ex-wife when I met my current wife. My ex- and I had never really wrapped up the loose ends and until that happened, I had similar feelings to those you're having. And things were NOT good between me and my ex-wife. So there was really not much to hang on to. Maybe what could have been but never would have been. Tell your ex- goodbye. For YOU.
2006-12-26 11:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by poorsias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I Would Ask My Self Why I Left My Ex Are Why She Left Me. Once You Break Up With Someone You Most Likely Never Will Work Thing's Out Are You'll Just End Up Breaking Up Again. Then Ask Your Self Do You See Thing's Working Out With The New Girl? Has Your Ex Been With Other Guy's Sense You Broke Up ? Has It Been A While Sense You Broke Up ? If It's Been A While And She Has Not Tryed To Get Back With You Then She's Probably Accepted The Loss. My Advice Is That You Wait! Sense You Need Advice You Clearly Are Not Ready! And You Don't Need To Rush Into Another Heart Break! Are Something Your Not Ready To Handle Just Yet.
2006-12-26 11:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. you like the new girl because of looks/personality/potential. the old girlfriend didn't work out because...? why? if the old problems might resurface and you can work through them then try if it means that much to you. the new person ... maybe she is a good fit for you. sounds like you have to do more soul searching but it's not clear if you are really in love with either of them to you yet because love is maybe not the right word. look to the person you can build the strong future with.
2006-12-26 11:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find this answer on your own. You just need to think about whether or not you really like the new girl or if you like her because she likes you back. Same applys to your ex.The ego is a funny thing. Good luck
2006-12-26 11:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a little time to sort things out. don't get caught up in the moment and do something that you might regret. don't stress too much, just take the time you need.
2006-12-26 11:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by HansonFan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are clearly in love with yourself. take the bestfrined if you must choose. but bf/gf relationships NEVER work out
2006-12-26 11:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you here. You have to really think about what and who you want.
2006-12-26 11:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and get over her.
2006-12-26 11:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chris from West LA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who could you see yourself more with? u really should know in your heart.. who makes you smile more easily? prob the ex
maybe ur finally realizing wat u had
2006-12-26 11:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋