Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

My siblings continue to annoy me. They show up at my work (at a gas station where I run a register) and ask questions about my personal life that they have no business even asking. It isn't my wellfare that they are concerned about, they have never cared about bettering anyone's lives but their own. Why do they have to keep prying into my life? I have been hurt by their speculations and rumors before, and talked to them about this, but it still does not stop them. Why are they doing this to me and what should I do? At work I am professional, treating them with courtesy just like any other customer, but they abuse this too. I am under a lot of stress right now, and can't take much more. I am at my wits end. Please, any information on how to protect my personal life will be much appreciated.

2006-12-25 05:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Darkwraith83 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

......away from all these pretentous, lunatics that I have to deal with everyday" What are your ideas as to what he meant? I have known him for 4mo., not intimate, talk everyday online, super nice gentleman (opens doors, helps with coats, walks you to the door!)! He is wanting to move to Florida in a couple months & I am really sick over it. You don't find men like him often at all. We are the same age..47. Thanks for your input.

2006-12-25 05:33:51 · 10 answers · asked by offmgr100 1 in Friends

like i do sweet things....like message in a bottle and then i made him a poster with pics of me and him......but its like he wants something more money wise

2006-12-25 05:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if on christmas day you were stuck at home with nothing to do everyone is so out of christmas cheer and seems to have forgotten wat christmas is really about you wanna have fun and have a very merry christmas but you dont know wat to do to get everyone up and going somebody help me i need some advice

2006-12-25 05:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-25 05:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by sameer h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently met and developed a relationship with a wonderful man. All was well until he told me he had been seeing a lady for over a year that he couldnt get close to. He had sent her away with a choice to make after Christmas. Move on with him or finish. He says i have turned his head, he texts me everyday and we have shared some wonderful intimate times. I am trying to be as patient as i can and not bother him. He has 2 teenage girls that i get on with very well. They have told me they prefer me to her, which although very welcome was embarrassing for me. Do i make him choose, or just keep doing the patient kind friend thing and wait? I really want him, but i feel i may get hurt. I'd love to move on with him. What do i do?

2006-12-25 05:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by beckietuck 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very outgoing, but sometimes when I'm on a date with this guy lets call him F.R.. He makes me feel so happy inside, and I get quiet for a few moments... Ijust smile and stuff. And wonder.. And he looks at me and asks me what i'm thinking about... Is that good, is this guy interested in me. Or just goes out with me because I'm hot. He also says he loves the way I am, I'm kind of crazy, but weird crazy, and he is that way too so we get along very well
so do you think he enjoys my company and cares about what's on my mind?

2006-12-25 05:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

like the same guy but he chooses you.

At first, she said she's fine with it and will respect whatever decision made. But now, she gets jealous seeing us together and tries to poke fun at us whenever possible.

2006-12-25 05:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 05:22:19 · 25 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

well see i broke up with my first true love and i think about him 24/7. he called me on christmas eve and we talked for like 2 hours but then he said hell call me later and never did. i fell soooo mad and i dont know why. i still love him even though i dont want to. pleas help. pleas im begging pleas.

2006-12-25 05:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend has been wanting me out of his house for a while. i finally left when i just couldnt take being somewhere unwanted during the holidays. he encouraged me to change my life for him. Switched my bank, full time job. i took care of him, his pets and his house for him, bought him food, bbq, clothes. he was very in love at one point. we had am amazing friendship and sex life. ive never stopped loving him. after a while he was just was at bars every night. i know I should just give up. but we had the same goals to leave the state i ended a lease at an apt for him. i am homeless & have a job near his house and no where to live and am living out of a hotel after the holidays. he says his brother is moving in the 1st to his house and i couldnt have lived their anyways with him there. but i dont think his bro will be able to. he backed into my car a while ago owes me for the money he borrowed for the breaks in his car. WHAT can do or say to let him let me live with him again

2006-12-25 05:21:08 · 6 answers · asked by bqbalchick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 05:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by Callie P 3 in Friends

ı dont know

2006-12-25 05:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Hakan Ggurer111111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

uncle

2006-12-25 05:14:41 · 31 answers · asked by ritu 1 in Friends

maybe he likes to sleep with other woman and isnt ready to settle down with just one, but he knows that when he's ready, THAT woman will be the one he settles down with. so he wants to be in a "non exclusive" relationship with her so he doesnt lose her (and he can have her later to settle down with) while he sleeps around. -- he wants the best of both worlds but in my opinion, no girl should wait around for a guy like that unless they are really in love with him. he needs to choose to either be committed to one person, or to NOT expect to have her whenever HE is ready..DO u agree with this opinion?does it mean he can really love the steady g/f?

2006-12-25 05:14:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as i was saying, i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and he recently told me that he still loves me. well, there's this other guy that likes me and i like him too. at first, i didnt know if i was ready to have another bf, so he waited for me. now that im ready, he's not. its sooo confusing. we text each other like every single day. but when i talk to my ex, i sometimes i get tht feeling that i still like him. what should i do?

2006-12-25 05:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by hallie 2 in Singles & Dating

I had been dating a guy long distance, and we seemed to have a very nice relationship, but then he didn't call for five weeks. Well, he called last night to wish me a merry Christmas and he acted like nothing had ever happened...of course I asked him why I haven't heard from him. He said he was on his cousin's phone and he would call me today, but he kinda acted like he was surprised that I would ask such things....

Why would someone disappear and then pop up all of a sudden like nothing happened? And what should I say to him when he calls?

2006-12-25 05:10:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

together w/ bf/gf or hus/wife on a certain day but didn't have a set activity would it be ok to suddenly make plans w/ someone else because you figure there wasn't a specific activity so you didn't really have plans?

2006-12-25 05:09:17 · 10 answers · asked by uknowme 6 in Singles & Dating

Out of respect and loyalty to my best friend, I try my hardest to stay away from him. I don't want to stab her in the back because she really means a lot to me. What should I do? My best friend and her husband are in their forties and I am in my twenties. My best friend helped me recover from drugs and alcohol and she is always there for me when I need someone and I am always there for her as well. But, I really do like her husband in a sexual way. To me, it's really sickens me that I have these feelings. I could go on and on, but the bottom line I want to fall out of love with my best friend's husband. Her friendship means more to me than a fling. Please advise on what I should do. Thank you in advance.

2006-12-25 05:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by Maria Gallercia 4 in Friends

He IM's, pretending to be a random chat; he sends secret text messages; he has a buddy friend spy on me to find out details about me. He's 29!!! Should I stay clear of such immaturity?

2006-12-25 05:08:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started working at a place in 00, left in 01 and came back in 05. I had developed a crush on a woman who started working before I left the first time. When I came back, she was still working there. She never knew how I felt until May of 06, when she asked me about dinner one night. I totally slipped throwing all my cards on the table. I knew she was married, later learned that her marriage has been falling apart for 3 years. One night we talked and she expressed an interest. I had always dreamt of this moment and now it was reality! We're both going through rough relationships but the end is in sight. We got closer, spending hrs on the phone, endless texting - but no sex. And I'm cool with that. We think it would be best to wait until she leaves him (her idea). That ROCKS. She moved out. I have met her family and spent Thanksgiving with them. Then SEX. I left again, and she hurts.We are in love.I hear it everyday. She is back with her abusive hubby. Should I walk away forever?

2006-12-25 05:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by mumra_06 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay listen Please dont yell at me , i m just looking for advice..
I met this guy online and we've been talking for a while...he's really nice and sweet and i think i m starting to fall in love with him...we flirt alot , he asked me to be his gf , and i didn't accept , Cause i didnt want any online relationship and also cause i can't seem to trust him since he doesnt have a webcam and he doesnt have any recent photos , well..he has this picture he looks really hott , but i 'm not sure if its fake or not . He said he might get a webcam .
Well i know i didnt agree to be his gf but we're still really close as Gf nd bf .We hope that some day we will have a future together...but i 'm just 13 and i know that I'm not gonna marry the guy , i just like to think that i am . And yes , i heard about those kidnapers , and i am being careful and i m not even giving any personal info even my location
1.Am i doing anything wrong ?
2. Is there a way to make sure the pic isnt fake
Thx

2006-12-25 05:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you make for procrastaning and not getting your girl a Christmas gift, on time. Although the gift will be received a day late, how do you make it for it?

2006-12-25 05:08:01 · 15 answers · asked by lawrinse2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 05:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by Tushar R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this person for four years and realized when I saw him this summer that I love him. I want to wait until next summer (when I see him again) that I love him because I want to tell him in person. However, I'm beginning to feel that I can't wait that long so should I tell him by e-mail? Also, he lives in England so I'm not sure if I could make it work?

2006-12-25 05:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Danie M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem, I realize that I complain and nag to much, but don't know how to stop. I have tried before, and it seems to change temporarily, but then it goes back to normal. I have a control problem. for example, if i am the only one at home cleaning and nobody elso will help.
Say the husband and kids are just playing a game or something and I am cleaning up after them.
Lets say I ask them to pick something up I and considered always bichin about something. Oh and he and I both work to.
I am on the verge of getting a divorce. He is so mean and hateful to me and sometimes says cruel things to the kids and says that I made him that way
How to I stop carrying it overboard?

2006-12-25 05:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Ruthie38 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 12 years old,and I have been having dreams about my ex.Like last night,I had a dream that he asked me out again,but I dont know what I said.And I l already have a boyfriend,so that makes it even more weird.Shouldn,t I be having dreams about my boyfriend,rather than my ex?

2006-12-25 05:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially if you think that she is the one.

2006-12-25 05:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by delux191jnz 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 17 months just broke up with me...X-mas eve...how do I get over him? It seems like such a general question but I guess I'm not used to it cuz I usually just move on to the next guy and I am usually doing the breaking up. This time he really broke my heart...and I don't know how to fix it.

2006-12-25 05:00:53 · 5 answers · asked by zildjian908 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like girls for there body and not there sence of umer?
WERE HAS ALL THE DECENT GUYS GON????
:-(

2006-12-25 04:59:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating