like the same guy but he chooses you.
At first, she said she's fine with it and will respect whatever decision made. But now, she gets jealous seeing us together and tries to poke fun at us whenever possible.
2006-12-25 05:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst part is she starts disliking me now and I sense that the relationship has affected my friendship with her. I feel like breaking up with my boyfriend but I love him also.
2006-12-25 05:27:47 · update #1
We can always say that we are fine with things in conversation, but in reality, when the emotions get involved, things change.
This is what happened with you and your friend. You have to make up your mind who is most important and go from there. The best case would be that you could have both and maybe in time this will happen, but often times it's not the case.
Bottom line is that your friend should be happy for you and know that there is someone out there for her also. You have to support her in this time and help her get over the hurt while at the same time letting her know that you want her to respect your relationship with your bf. If she is a real friend, she will get over it and respect your relationship. When she finds a man or one finds her, then she will realize that she was being goofy about the whole thing...
2006-12-25 07:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by A Good Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First before doing anything ask yourself how much this boy mean to you, if you really care and it's not about him picking you and you felling triumphant, then keep him, and your friend. Just keep them apart. When you're with her don't tell her the things that happen between you and him. That's going to be hard if you and she are really close. Do all you can to maintain your friendship because when and if you and this boy break up she will still be there for you.
Whatever you do don't break up with him to make her feel better because this sends messages to her that she can control who you like and the way you should feel.
2006-12-25 05:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that her feelings are hurt and would not hang out with her or show affection around her that way it respects her feelings but at the same time you can be together
2006-12-25 05:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to have a relationship with someone that your best friend also likes. It can cause a lot of friendship troubles, as well. Is this guy really worth upsetting your friend over? Think of it that way.
Try to hang out with him when she's not around.
"Ho's over bro's"
2006-12-25 05:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know exactly how you feel and on the flip side how she feels and the best way to solve it is to talk to her invite her for a sleepover and talk about old times try to reconnect with her let her know your feelings on the situation tell her if its what she really wants for your friendship you will brake up with him but also tell her how much you love him and care for him and how you want to be happy with the both of them in your life but me and my girls motto is chicks b-4 ***** and that's the way it is but you need to tell her your feelings and i Hope it works out
much love,
Muffin the advice column
2006-12-25 05:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Hyper Hammy*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this actually happened to me. I would discuss it with the best friend, and if you were both okay with it, then go for it. If not, then just remember how important your friendship is with that person.
2006-12-25 05:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by cian506 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend time with her without him around and just try to not make her feel like the third wheel, try finding her a guy to- then it will equal out the oddness of it, shes just feeling left out thats all.
2006-12-25 05:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are forever, all through the end. And dont let let a homeboy come between you and your friends.
2006-12-25 05:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, and see her opinion. How would you feel if he chose her? You can try to see her view.
2006-12-25 05:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jillian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with cian506
2006-12-25 05:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by michele_aponte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋