I started working at a place in 00, left in 01 and came back in 05. I had developed a crush on a woman who started working before I left the first time. When I came back, she was still working there. She never knew how I felt until May of 06, when she asked me about dinner one night. I totally slipped throwing all my cards on the table. I knew she was married, later learned that her marriage has been falling apart for 3 years. One night we talked and she expressed an interest. I had always dreamt of this moment and now it was reality! We're both going through rough relationships but the end is in sight. We got closer, spending hrs on the phone, endless texting - but no sex. And I'm cool with that. We think it would be best to wait until she leaves him (her idea). That ROCKS. She moved out. I have met her family and spent Thanksgiving with them. Then SEX. I left again, and she hurts.We are in love.I hear it everyday. She is back with her abusive hubby. Should I walk away forever?
2006-12-25 05:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by mumra_06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it sounds like you really love this person. however, its not so easy to walk away from marriage. even if it is abusive. woman generally always go back to an abuser. i dont know why. i wouldnt give up totally. something good could come out of this. it may just take more time for her than you. good luck to you and merry christmas.
2006-12-25 05:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You accomplished your mission of securing "the booty" -- from a married female, no less.
Congratulations! You made your dream a reality.
However, don't be foolish and create a nightmare for yourself.
Manlaw dictates that you should cease and desist all communications with your "ex"-lover until she needs to stop by your place for another booty call.
If you decide to make her your #2 (referred to as sloppy seconds), you should have enough physical strength and brawn to defeat the husband in a physical altercation, should he caught the two of you.
Also, it is very important for you to find a suitable replacement for her BEFORE you violate manlaw and "catch feelings" for her.
2006-12-25 13:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u need to help her from her abusive hubby. don get me wrong by kidnapping her. use the legal way so tat she will be happy and both of u can be happy togeter. walk away is not a way for u to avoid. face ur problem before it is too late.
2006-12-25 13:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋