as i was saying, i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and he recently told me that he still loves me. well, there's this other guy that likes me and i like him too. at first, i didnt know if i was ready to have another bf, so he waited for me. now that im ready, he's not. its sooo confusing. we text each other like every single day. but when i talk to my ex, i sometimes i get tht feeling that i still like him. what should i do?
2006-12-25 05:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by hallie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First decide if you want to go back or forward
2006-12-25 05:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by rams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie... I think you are ready to move on and you weren't and now that you are, this guy that waited for you, isn't ready and your feeling that loneliness now...
You probably do have feelings for your ex but not the way you think you do but the truth is....
Ask yourself why did I break up with you?!
And if it was a good reason.... and every reason is a good one, but is it a problem that you are willing to go through again and again.
Someone once said "When you make someone an ex, you make them an ex for a reason... there should be no going back, because you'll be going through the same thing." You finally got out and walked away and your willing to let loneliness get the best of you and put you back in a place and position you didn't want to be in the first place----*No back-tracking!!! Not even for a good quickie!
Learn to love your alone time. You could wait for your new friend to come around... I mean--- he did wait for you. But I say let his behind be too... because he hassled you and said he'd wait, to wait is to be ready when you get there!
Go out, meet new people, hit the chat rooms and just do you!
Right now you have no one to answer to but YOU! Enjoy and Happy Holidays and may you find a buddy to help ease those lonely pains....
Someone you won't have to deal with on a mental and emotional connection, unless you want to and you've gave it time and thought and you know exactly what it is you want and don't want and you've sized his behind up and weighed him in the palm of your hands! Knowing all his flaws and the things that make him tick!
Be safe Ma and don't sacrafice NOTHING you got for NO ONE! Not even your heart.
2006-12-25 13:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever we say, this is one of those questions where you would not follow our advice anyway, but I will indulge you anyway...
You waited too long for the other guy. In the meantime, he either found someone else or gave up on you. That was your choice. As for your ex, he is you ex. Girls are ALWAYS succors for their exes. There had to be a reason why you broke up with him. If the reason was substantial, I would let him go despite your "feelings". Feelings come and go, but there are other better things to place love upon. Good luck!
2006-12-25 13:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest staying away from your exof course you are gonig to still have feelings for him since you are not over him however i dont think people should date twice they had their chance and well why go through it again knowing it will fail. Another thing if that guy you like does not want you now tell him to stop playing games cause that is what he is doing and let him knw how you feel if he is still unsure and does not have a good reason to be then fdorget him too and find a better person someone who will treat you the way you should be treated
2006-12-25 13:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on why you and your ex broke up as far as if you should go back to him. if it was something that can be fixed then go for it, if not then move on. in the end it all boils down to what you feel in your heart.
2006-12-25 13:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to go out with the other guy and see if you like him as much as you liked your ex if not you shud totally get back wit your ex
2006-12-25 13:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by sassy suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still really like him you would not have broke up with him!!
2006-12-25 13:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by EDWARD D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are confused, therefore you shouldn't get into a new relationship just yet.
2006-12-25 13:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by just_acali_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you broke up w/ him for a reason didnt you?
2006-12-25 13:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by shelbo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what your mind says
2006-12-25 13:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋