If a guy asks you" so what are u thinking about" does it mean he is interested?

Question

I am very outgoing, but sometimes when I'm on a date with this guy lets call him F.R.. He makes me feel so happy inside, and I get quiet for a few moments... Ijust smile and stuff. And wonder.. And he looks at me and asks me what i'm thinking about... Is that good, is this guy interested in me. Or just goes out with me because I'm hot. He also says he loves the way I am, I'm kind of crazy, but weird crazy, and he is that way too so we get along very well
so do you think he enjoys my company and cares about what's on my mind?

Answer 1

I think it is a common question just to keep the conversation going.

Does not indicate how much he likes you. If you're always calling and he's always getting off the phone--pay attention to that.

Does he treat you with respect? Does he listen when you talk? Does he take time to give intelligent you answers to your questions? Does he want more than just sex?

Answer 2

Men absolutely care about what's going on in the mind of women. In fact, men would love to be mind-readers, but since they can, men often ask this question. When you answer, men do feel they have to rely on their own assumptions, which in many cases are not accurate. Men also can gauge if the relationship is going anywhere by the answers you give. So keeps those lines of communication open...

Answer 3

I think he cares for you, but he doesn't want to get too serious until/if the relationship gets serious. Being hot usually has something to do with it, but don't be so judgemental over guys, but, since the question was "If a guy asks you "so what are you thinking about" does it mean he is interested", I would say yes, if he said that he really did care what you were thinkin about.

Answer 4

I think that the very notion of him asking u tells u everything u need to know. From what I've noticed, men who don't ask, don't really care or are scared to hear the answer. Enjoy the todays u have with him and just enjoy being with him.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

i think there is a very good chance that he likes you for you. my boyfreind always asks what i am thinking about and i find it cute i mstill in the phase that he may just be saying this to get into my pants but then irealize that iam not that cute so he could go for way better girls then i am but he is gonig for me if he trluy cares you will find out sometime dont give him sex in case that is what he is looking for he wont stay very long if that is the case

Answer 7

I think it is a positive sign.

I asked this question all the time to my wife before we got married.

I asked it because I wanted to know if she wasn't having a good time or was unconfortable. I wanted to make her feel better and let her know I cared.

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Answer 8

Yes he cares and wants to know wether you are thinking of him or about him maybe he is still a little confused as to wether you like him or not. Tell him more of whats on your mind.

Answer 9

Men love that secret little smile. He could be interested, or just plain curious....
There used to be a saying that went,
"Smile, it will make people wonder what you are up to"...

Answer 10

I think he cares about you. If he cares enough to ask you about your opinions, he must care for you. At least a little bit. Good luck.