How can someone wanna be a player and also want a relationship?

Question

maybe he likes to sleep with other woman and isnt ready to settle down with just one, but he knows that when he's ready, THAT woman will be the one he settles down with. so he wants to be in a "non exclusive" relationship with her so he doesnt lose her (and he can have her later to settle down with) while he sleeps around. -- he wants the best of both worlds but in my opinion, no girl should wait around for a guy like that unless they are really in love with him. he needs to choose to either be committed to one person, or to NOT expect to have her whenever HE is ready..DO u agree with this opinion?does it mean he can really love the steady g/f?

Answer 1

in my opinion she shouldnt have to wait for the guy to come to his senses and figure out that its only her that he wants, but i guess she would if she really liked him

Answer 2

It's not hard to see what you are trying to say. You want to have a steady girlfriend that only screws you while you go out and do every girl that will spread'em for ya. So isn't that what a Playa is? You already do it anyway right?

Answer 3

some men are basically in are relationships because of the fact they have been given the female pregnant. At coronary heart, they're single because of the fact they do no longer somewhat love the only they're with. they do exactly no longer desire to pay baby help.

Answer 4

Lots of guys seem to want to put up a "front" as a player because it makes them look cool to their friends..

Answer 5

There are many people like that out there

Answer 6

sometimes men are idiots and we don't have a good excuse or explanation for our behavior look in our heart it never lies