2006-12-25 05:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by sameer h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like my husband says....if you cant get milk at one store, you can get it at another.
2006-12-25 05:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Based on your statements, here are the possible solutions for your problem before you cave in and have an affiar: 1) It could be hormonal imbalances, and can be fixed by a physician. Take her to a good gynocologist. 2) It could be any medicines side effects, if she is taking any other medicine. Talk to your doctor. 3) Sex counellors can help you, seek their advice. 4) Maybe she is not sexually satisfied with you. Talk to her. An honest and good communication is the key of a successful relationship. Tell her everything, every feelings and ask her what is her main cause of problem. Only if she tells you what is the problem, you can then solve the problem. Be open, ask her what should you do to fulfill your sexual desire, if she is not interested to have sex. Maybe she has an answer for you. Just ask her. Have an honest communication. 5) If nothing works, tell her frankly you want to go in your separate way, so that both of you guys can be happier than you having an affiar. Be honest, you don't have to cheat on her. Good luck!
2016-03-29 06:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership! It should never be about what one person wants or needs ....that's one-sided!!! Your marriage partner should be your best-friend,one that you can express how and what you feel to without regrets later.You really need to sit her down and talk to her about how you feel your needs are not being met, and how she is the only one getting what they want out of the relationship.Life is too short for a person to be unhappy. Explain to her how you love her dearly and would hate to stray away from her because she is not there for you in the way you need. If you belong to a church or know of a pastor , set an appointment to talk things out. Sex is a big part of marriage,it is the physical and spiritual part that bonds and binds two people together in a partnership.
2006-12-25 05:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think marriage is an easy road, you are not communicating. You need to think about seeing a professional on this to see what the real root of the problem really is. Sex without a loving relationship will never work, been there and now will not settle for anything less. Talk, talk, talk, material things only make one part of you happy and that is not real
2006-12-25 05:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Angela W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-25 06:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If what you say is true there is more to your problem than her just wanting your money. She has lost the attraction she had when you married. If sex was always a problem then you know your money was what she wanted.
It amasses me why some will marry for money but not be willing to give anything in return. Makes them feel like prostitutes if they do I guess.
If there is no sex in your marriage I have to ask....what is in it for you? Why are you still their. It's one thing for her to love you but not be interested in sex but if both are gone you should be too.
The answer to your question is obvious. Seeking it in other women is not the answer. If you must do that they divorce first.
2006-12-25 05:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a similar problem in my marriage which I let grow out of hand which lead to a 6 month separation and a lot of heartache. My free advice is talk bluntly to her and tell her what you both need from the relationship. If two people want the common goal then you can fix it but it will take a lot of conversation and communication. If your goals are not in sync then other measures are needs.
We worked out problems and life is good for the two of us again.
Good luck
2006-12-25 05:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by mrnotcompetitive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, I think you guys need to talk. If she is not receptive, then maybe seek counselling. As for your satisfaction, well you have options, but I would suggest not seeking it from another person. Try to get to the root of the problem, then decide what will make you happier. Good Luck
2006-12-25 05:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you could do what a lot of men do - go somewhere else for sex. Really I wouldn't recommend that - talk to your wife - and buy her plenty of jewelry - maybe it will get her in the mood more often.
2006-12-25 06:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by trena h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend your money on jewellery but for a different lady.
2006-12-25 05:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Takis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she is a materialistic woman. Is there still love in the marriage or is it all about material things? If that is the case, you should move on to someone who is emotionally and sexually there for you.
2006-12-25 05:42:09 · answer #11 · answered by Brian and Kari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋