well see i broke up with my first true love and i think about him 24/7. he called me on christmas eve and we talked for like 2 hours but then he said hell call me later and never did. i fell soooo mad and i dont know why. i still love him even though i dont want to. pleas help. pleas im begging pleas.
2006-12-25 05:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and make it like your giving advise to a 12,13 year old some were around there.
2006-12-25 05:22:54 · update #1
well we broke up because i thought he was cheating on me. he made it saound that way. we gave it a nother chanse and i blew it. he said i broke up wit him but realy i think he vroke up wit me.
2006-12-25 05:27:44 · update #2
kay kay: i tex him and he never texs back. his dad called but he speaks spanish and i dont. i am on vacation and home alone all day for a long time so theres nothin i can do to keep my mind off him
2006-12-25 05:30:22 · update #3
mimi and the other who said "call him" i see him everyday at school and im to shy to tell him the way i feel. i was about to when he had to go. i dont think he will call me back
2006-12-25 05:33:11 · update #4
and no im not 12, 13 ok
2006-12-25 09:18:40 · update #5
Sometimes you just can't help who you fall in love with. Give him some time to call you back. I don't know why you all broke up, but breaking up is very hard. A broken heart really hurts and you won't get over him overnight. It will take time. What you have to do is learn from that relationship and know that if he isn't Mr. Right, how can you meet your Mr. Right unless you move on. Trust me, in the future, you will think back and say I'm glad I was with him, but I'm glad I'm not now or else I wouldn't of met ____. You'll fill in the blank later. Good luck!
2006-12-25 05:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of what you are feeling are those terrible teen hormones and emotions mixed with a still-developing ability to cope. Just do your best to be patient and let life a time take their coarse. There are always reasons why things do or do not work out and it is usually for the best. Just keep being a good friend and keep your chin up. He'll call when he's ready. Maybe he was just busy. Hard to say, but not worth feeling angry over. You could also try to keep your mind busy on other activities to help pass the time and feel better.
2006-12-25 13:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just avoid him. and if he calls you tell him that you can't talk to him or just "be friends" just yet. distance is the best way to help get rid of most feelings.
And remeber if you see him a year from now or even more you will still remeber when you were with him and you will still feel that hurt just a little but it's ok and that doesn't mean you still want him it, he's just a part of your past. the heart is a trecherous thing. just keep reminding yourself that this is the best thing for you and about the good things around you. like friends, family, or your sucesses.
hope that helped :)
2006-12-25 13:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by hopeincubus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all this is not the end of the world, and you need to learn what is appropriate for a relationship, every one has needs, and wants, and they can not all be met, as for this boy , is it really a big deal if he talks to other girls, are you so insecure that you hit the panic button when he does, because he has friends other than you, this is not the time to set up all sorts of rules and regulations, this is the time for you to build your confidence and self esteem, so that you will be able to have a fun relationship with any one, please go over all the anger you feel, and learn from it, Anger never hurts any one but you. as it eats and destroys you self confidence. Please do not play mind games with your self, keep it real, if he is not interested in you then learn from this and go on with your life, 12-13 is way to young to be bogged down with boyfriend problems and to have you in such a mess,
2006-12-25 14:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason behind the break-up? I do not understand why you would break up with someone who you still love. Although, I have done it myself, and cried for days afterwards. We gave things a second chance and it worked out wonderfully.
2006-12-25 13:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him! tel him u luv him and u wanna start it all over again like never happened before! u say dat u wont make a mistake again! and if he calls u dont wait dat hell call u again coz he must be wating fir ur call u shud call him!
2006-12-25 13:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back
Tell him you still have feeling for him and see if he still has feeling for you too. It is not healthy for you to get mad, make things clear and decide if things is going to work out with him or not.
HAPPY HOLIDAY!!!
2006-12-25 13:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on you have your whole life ahead of you, this is a changing world, and you need to learn how to change with it
2006-12-25 13:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important person in your life should be YOU! That is the answer to everything.
2006-12-25 13:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down do some meditation
2006-12-25 13:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋