Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

I mean: Can sexyally healthy man after a few days without sex not be able to came?Erection is there,but no sperm.His explanation is:that happens because of not performing sex for a few days, he has lock on, clog or kind of constipation of sperm.Next day this problem dissaperes.Can that be true? Or it's because he did just opposite- performed a lot of sex during those days away ( 3-5days),as I suspect?Please,help me!!!

2006-12-21 07:09:16 · 26 answers · asked by olinkasolo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she speaks to me at free lessons, randomly started speakin to me, tho now its always me that has to initiate talkin.

she does not 'avoid' me but she seems quiet with me (she used to be loud), maybe she is uncomfortable? if someone else is there she speaks to them like its easy to do. is it shyness?

askin for her email she said yes but she said she doesnt use it often so i said "nevermind doesnt matter" then she eyed me up all lesson.

if she is busy and i ask her stuff she still pays attenion, and she asks questions back so its not like she doesnt like chatting.
if she hated me would she not even speak to me (ask back)?

she once ignored me so i ignored her back, became distant. then i wasnt around much the week after so she speaks to my friend in private about 'me'. Asks like "where is j" - "what school did he used to go to". stuff like that, but when im there with her alone she dont ask me questions. its bizarre

i give her my no. but nothing.. shud i just ask her out face to face?

2006-12-21 07:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Singles & Dating

Things will be going great for a couple of days but then we get into a huge fight. Sometimes it gets nasty and things are thrown. He never hit me. We got into an arguement over him wanting to sleep on the couch. Now he told me that maybe it would be best if I would get a place of my own but we'll continue dating. For some reason it just doesn't feel right. I don't know what to do. Is there any other options other than moving apart or breaking up?

2006-12-21 07:08:38 · 19 answers · asked by .... 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants to leave me. She says i am a good guy, she just fell out of love with me. We have 3 kids. 1 not mine and 2 are. Do i have to pay her spouse support if she works full time and make a little less then me and she is the one who wants to leave for no fault of my own or that i can fix. Also how mush would i have to pay in child support for my 2 kids. I want joint/shared custody and she cant say anything bad about me.

2006-12-21 07:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by anthony v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is in the military and is coming home from Afghanistan for two weeks.He'll be home by Dec 24th. He says he does not want to talk about any thing that happen over there. He isn't being very open. What do I do? What can i say to comfort him? I'm so conscious of everything that i say that i' begining to song weird when I talk to him. When I do talk it's as though he's not there? I could never get his full attention.PLease Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-21 07:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by naomijoan0615 2 in Singles & Dating

he is always on the computer when i need it.and is so annoying and crazy and loud.my mom or dad wont help so wat do i do?

2006-12-21 07:07:25 · 12 answers · asked by ..::JuNiOr StAtUs::.. 2 in Family

My mother have to leave the house because the agresivity and bad behavor of his son. Actualy she live in my house.

2006-12-21 07:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by victor163 1 in Family

Do they have a past or does this just happen out of nowhere at any time in thier life? Is it maybe because they grew up seeing it or its just the way they choose to be?

2006-12-21 07:05:26 · 20 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have friends, my family is the only people i share stuff with.. but they dont' seem to care much. For example i make art and i make music, i learn guitar and sometimes i want to show them and i do.. and they are not very interested.. feels bad. So i just have to keep it all inside.. and can't share with no one

2006-12-21 07:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are all the professional and good looking guys who know how to treat a lady getting lesser every single day?? Thats what I think!! I always end up with guys who are losers. I have been with my bf for 10 months now but his habits has still not changed. I am more of an independent and polish kinda lady, successful too. Whereas he does not even have a good career (but that did not matter). I kept giving him chances. I changed him from his poor dressing style to his haircut to his communication style. But he still has those old habits. Goofing around, flirting, checking on girls (yeah I mean checking all the girls butt) even when he is with me. The list goes on and on. Everytime I break up with him, he would not let go. He comes by my work waiting hours, coming by the house, txt msging, phone calls, vm etc etc. HOW DO YOU GET A GUY TO UNDERSTAND ITS OVER!!!!??? Should I just go and find someone else to prove I don't wanna be with him anymore?

2006-12-21 07:05:10 · 16 answers · asked by miss_curious 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother died this year and all three of my kids have made plans to be somwhere else on Christmas day. It will be the first time in my life that I will be alone without my mother or kids. I am not depressed, just lonely. What can I do to fill the day so that I won't get deppressed?

2006-12-21 07:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we want to move forward and become more than friends. Not sure if a long distance relationship will work. Any advice.

2006-12-21 07:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never been on one... :-)

2006-12-21 07:03:23 · 17 answers · asked by fairydust 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 07:03:18 · 19 answers · asked by dandon 2 in Singles & Dating

i am trying to find a a gift for my dad. he is 40 and i dont have a lot of money. i also cant drive so it is hard to find a time to get a gift but i do have some time i just dont know what to get him.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

2006-12-21 07:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Family

I've been dating this girl for like 8 months now, and she is awesome and we get along great. I'm usually not the clingy type b/c I've had one of those on me before. Someone that is totally dependent on you. That's hard so I don't want to be that person. So anyway, she has been on this trip for a week now (it's a 9 day trip) and I've been just pissy and sad the whole time pretty much and bored. I get upset with her when she can only talk for a couple mins b/c they're busy on the trip but I try not to let her know, although I seem to ask her if she's mad at me often. I know she would never cheat on me so that hasn't been a worry at all.

The only thing I can think of to explain it is that I'm transfering jobs, so I am didn't have to work this week and everyone else I know is also working and I'm just bored to death and she is usually who I hang out with now.

Anybody felt this way or something?

2006-12-21 07:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by Still Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

do girls believe that thier net frds can be thier gud frds....

can they be life long frds?????

2006-12-21 07:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend graduated in May with his Masters Degree in Public and Corporate Communications. He's a well educated, smart, funny, and great guy. Ever since the graduation, he's been looking for a job, and unfortunately only got rejections. He's had to apply to about 70 jobs by now and gotten like 40 rejections. Needless to say he's a bit bummed out.
I'm in a sorority, and my sorority has a list serve that allows you to email each sister through a single message. It's quite common for sisters to post job openings or their resumes to help out another sister, sister's relative, sister's friend etc. I'm thinking of putting my boyfriend's info on there, do you think i should? of course i'll just list his qualifications and maybe a link to the resume, but some men can get ashamed, or just angry that they had to get help from their girlfriend. But he's been unemployed for a while now ( even before he graduated he wasn't working) so we could use the money. please help!

2006-12-21 07:00:49 · 4 answers · asked by myfianceisamonkey 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 07:00:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

need help

2006-12-21 07:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Friends

21 yrs old, drinks too much, assaults you, verbal abuse, always forgive him, cause he`s your son. Says sorry, but always does it again, where do you draw the line?

2006-12-21 07:00:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-21 06:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by BRUCE P 1 in Singles & Dating

and then he is making out with every chic in school and i feel so bad

2006-12-21 06:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by betty pop 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 06:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i donoe why is that so .. i mean i know people who thinks that the fairer or even translucent is better.. it depends coz i seen other people with beautiful colouring around.. and no i'm not fair and not trying to be .. why do people emphasize so much on skin colour..

2006-12-21 06:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Nat B 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm ready to move on and start fresh. Had 8 good years of marriage, but last two have not been the same. I can't seem to get my feelings for her back. I think she'll be hurt when I tell her, she knows and admits there's problems, but she seems to ignore them. We have one 11 year old daughter.

2006-12-21 06:57:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

With all the divorces I've seen and heard about and how women seem perfectly fine on their own afterward with the kids I wonder if we matter anymore. I know that a lot of these guys aren't woth spit but I also know that women are looking for this idealized prince charming that has no faults and fits their idea of the perfect match to the way the women see their lives (and women complain about us guys wanting hot chicks, well.....). So I hear stories of guys being dumped because they weren't perfect or something and there is all this female empowerment talk going around and a lot of male bashing (some of which is called for), and women are even being encouraged to live totally independant from men. So what about family? Do us guys even matter anymore or are we just sex toys/fertility tools for women nowadays?

2006-12-21 06:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In this circumstance every friend he invites to be his friend is a woman with a tight body, usually 20-30 years younger than him and the extremely out going, like to tease kind of woman. I am not an ugly woman by far although I am also not in my twenties either. Should I be worried as I am concerned that it really isn't a long shot to believe that one day I will be replaced by one of these "cyber chicks".

Trust has become a very sensitive issue in my relationship at this point in time.

2006-12-21 06:57:33 · 9 answers · asked by Laydown Sally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and i are going to be getting a divorce. It's Not by my choice but she says she has fallen out of love with me after 3 years. I dont abuse her, i dont cheat on her, i dont smoke,drink or party. I have a great job at an engineering company. I am also in collage right now. I take care of them just as much as she does. She even says i am a great father and there is nothing bad to say about me but she cant handle not seeing them more then a day so she wants them to stay with her and i see them on the weekends. I do not want to be a weekent father. I want to read bedtime stories and make a mess doing breakfeast and i want what i think is just. I live in nevada so i dont no the law that well. do i even have a chance to have shared custody of my kids and what case do i need to bring to the judge for me to get it. Her own mother will testify against her saying that all she does is yell and scream that saying her mother has been married 6 times but i still have her own mothers back.

2006-12-21 06:57:29 · 10 answers · asked by anthony v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 06:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Inessa K 1 in Singles & Dating