What are "the cheating type" of men like?

Question

Do they have a past or does this just happen out of nowhere at any time in thier life? Is it maybe because they grew up seeing it or its just the way they choose to be?

Answer 1

The same types as cheating women. Just happens. There is no justifyable excuse. Not getting the attention or whatever is still not an excuse, that's a personal problem that the two should be working on rather than drifting apart onto other people......so dont listen to anyone who tells you that nonsense lol. There are no excuses or no precautions really you can take, people blame it on attention, being drunk, drugs, really anything you can think of, but none of those are real reasons, just excuses. And it's got nothing to do with what you see growing up. You can raise kids seeing death and murder until their an adult and it does not mean they will strive to go and commit to these acts. Each person choose their own path reguardless of what people tell them or try to influence them with.........just steer clear of the kind who can't think on their own two feet.

Answer 2

Yes, very true a man that sees his Mother or Girlfriends Mother get cheat on thinks its okay or any other weird excuse and no shame in his game adulterer would say. Its very sad because men that are strong in Gods faith have knowledge to pray when in fear, need, or want of more strength from under temptation, persecution and falling from Grace. But, the men that do not have good family back grounds Such as, the Father, Step dad, Uncle's, Cousin's and sister boyfriends all cheaters in his land. If thee young man is a weak man and not strong enough or have some type of faith or hope, the young man can fall into Big time Man's of Sin issues. Which all these men that love to keep secrets will always be punished by the hand of God. But on the other hand, for the strong men that have hope, faith, love and have good family structural back grounds keep achieving to your goals. God loves a man that prays and has faith in hope in their life and future. !!!

Answer 3

I am not sure that cheating men have a "type". As I have had the experience of getting cheated on. By both of my husbands. My first hubby still cheats on all his girlfriends today. My second husband, and current, cheated once 3 years ago. We almost divorced, and was split up for 5 months over it. Yet, he begged me to come home and I did. We have been happier then ever since that day. He doesnt show tendancies to cheat any longer, and is 100% devoted to his family. They usually say 'once a cheater, always a cheater', but that was not the situation with my second husband. I believe that yes, if they grew up in a family that cheated all the time, then they are probably going to, but then again, they may not. In some cases, they use that to their advantage, and keep themselves from doing it, as they dont want to turn out like their parents. It just depends on the situation. If you see signs of cheating, ask, or do a little investigative work of your own. Even tho you may not like what you see, its better to know then to have someone cheating on you, and bringing deseases and such home to you.

Answer 4

I believe some men choose to be this way probably because they are not getting what they want and need from their women, but sometimes they do it just because. I am a man. I have not cheated on my wife. I've seen this happen with a few of my brothers, and I think it was a path they wanted to explore; however, it almost cost them their marriages.

Answer 5

You cant blame anything or anyone for cheating. It doesnt necessarily have to do with what they saw growing up, if they were previous cheater or if they were cheated on. Both men and women cheat for different reasons. I cheated on my husband and Im still with the man that I had an affair with after 5 years. I love him and cheating isnt even a thought that passes thru my mind.

Answer 6

They don't necessarily have to have a past if they don't love you or you have cheated on them then they might try and get back at you! It could be that they grew up seeing it but that's not always the case!! Good luck

Answer 7

You don't want to know. Hope you never find one. Can be both of what you said or could be something different entirely. I'm sure you will find that if someone does it once they are apt to repeat it again. Some people are afraid of committment so they just float from partner to partner and when it gets serious, they bolt. Some think the grass is greener on the other side, till it's too late and they have lost the 1 true love of their life.

Answer 8

i do believe based on experience that they either saw it from their father's, did it to someone in their past, and yes this is the way they choose to be, putting themselves first before anyone, a selfish thing really. cheating type, maybe someone with lack of character, or strong morals, someone with poor self worth, poor impulse control, and a person who has little or no belief in god, and fairness. it is definitely a choice where they think they will benefit more if they cheat. it is about having something they don't think they have, and being unwilling to work on it or ask for it from their mate first, before moving on with someone else, thinking they may be seen as a weak person. also a cheating person may make their decisions based on what others are telling him, he may be easily influenced, and unable to make his own decisions.

Answer 9

This is an interesting question. I think there is a type of woman that all men will cheat on. The ones that are needy and selfish.Women have more of an impact on whether or not their man will cheat.

Answer 10

Just like a theif, there are no "attributes" to look for. The way I tell is if someone tells "white" lies or flirts a lot if they have a gf or wife. You have to learn how to identify the "test" questions these guys throw out there to test you for "willingness".