Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

if you have a friend who you felt wasn't quite on the same level as you as far as what you wanted the friendship to be, would you talk to them about it, or just let it be? with this friend, i'm always the one calling to chat, and i feel as though if i just stopped calling, she wouldn't be picking up the phone on her end, and we would drift apart. the same goes for wanting to hang out, i'm always the one bringing it up. i don't mind doing it you understand, it's just that i don't think, or at least i'm fairly unsure if she would take it upon herself to do the same if need be. what i'm thinking is that i should bring it up, and just see if maybe the phone calls are more for me, or if maybe there's a reason that she doesn't take the initiative on her end. she's also really bad at returning phone calls. i'm not talking about ending the friendship, because i think the world of her, but should i have this conversation? am i thinking along the right lines? any advice would be appreciated!

2006-12-21 16:29:03 · 4 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Friends

2006-12-21 16:28:32 · 2 answers · asked by hira_rediff 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Could I be pregnant?
I am on Levlen birth control pills, i am barely on time. i sometimes take them hours late, and sometimes a day and a half late, but i always follow the directions to take them right after.

Every four months i have a period. its those seasonal birth control pills. I just stopped taking them to have my period, but it only lasted a day and a half and i was LIGHT!

Now my last periods i was on them heavily and they lasted up to a month!

please note that i have been on these pills for three years.

Is it possible from always unprotected sex with my long time boyfriend and my pills that i might be pregnant?

PLEASE ANSWER SERIOUSLY, i dont wanna waste money or scare my man by gettin a pregnancy test. (we live together and he always knows where i am at)

2006-12-21 16:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by mandi lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy lives across the street from me and we've been talking for like a week (He calls me like 3-5x a day and is not my boyfriend) I gave him a kiss and now he will not stop calling me. Ive decided to stop answering his calls hoping he'll get the hint, because i dont feel like explaining that i not feeling him...should i tell him to his face or just ignore the calls? (Sorry for the long question)

2006-12-21 16:28:06 · 28 answers · asked by MissHot1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering if it is true that most women who have all boys feel they are "missing something" or their family isn't "complete" if a woman says she is satisfied with having only boys is she being honest?

2006-12-21 16:27:35 · 14 answers · asked by 4 Shades of Blue 4 in Singles & Dating

How long should you date someone until you have your first kiss?

2006-12-21 16:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to marry her but i want to have things in order first. she is so consumed with getting married it is messing up our relationship. at this point i think if i ask her to marry me she will be like damn what took so long. How can i make things better until i am able to get her a ring and ask her to marry me?

2006-12-21 16:26:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anthony C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Laura's real dad is around the place, she has seen him with her little step sister, she says that her real dad hits her and is totally mean to her, this kid isn't even 15.........we are thinking that if we see him again we are going to take the kid away from him and violence from anyone, and as this is Laura's step sister its of added importance to us, so what should we do, get an intervention order or something simmilar to take the child (like custody) or just take her in the middle of the night and do it quitely, then he can wake up and find the kid not there, then he'll know how it feels to have something taken away from you......

ideas please
Mitch

2006-12-21 16:26:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im just a teenage girl, and in my life im one of those "popular" socalled girls. i hate being judged, but it seems more than ever i get stupid comments from the boys. and im getting sick of it. soo how could i be less shy and get better feebacks.

2006-12-21 16:26:21 · 2 answers · asked by so.electra 1 in Singles & Dating

She bought a d1ldo. In fact, I encouraged her to, because she was to shy to do it and i though it was normal enough.

problem is - she bought a huge one. one that is alot bigger than what i have to offer.

second problem is - she loves it.

should i be offended? concerned? also, i thought you girls said size don't matter?

2006-12-21 16:24:41 · 22 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

I was really bored and I have my best friend over here. What's something stupid that we can do. But these are the requirments, it has to be inside, it cannot involve breaking anything, and it has to be kind of quiet.

2006-12-21 16:24:15 · 16 answers · asked by Maddie 1 in Friends

He always tries to feel on me when shes away. He will kiss me and touch me and try to stick his thing in my stuff when im wearing short dresses and skirts. I cant help myself so i let him do it and 5 min later were going at it. It feels so good to me.I LOVE it! How can i stop this temptation

2006-12-21 16:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Friends

2006-12-21 16:23:26 · 29 answers · asked by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 in Friends

2006-12-21 16:23:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got my girlfriend a present for the holidays and she got me a way bigger and more expensive gift. It feels ackward.

2006-12-21 16:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How can I help them through this?

2006-12-21 16:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by STY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What I'm afraid of is I might make him uncomfortable. But i want to get it off my chest soo bad. It's distracting me from everything I do.

2006-12-21 16:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by lmiitsoslx3 2 in Singles & Dating

So I'm in love with this girl who likes me back, but we don't admit to being more than friends. Long term it can't work because she is 9 years older, and is done having kids, and I am only 24 and I havent started with kids, and I think that's important to me.

So I might go to counseling. Should I try to move past her and stay friends? Or should I stop being her friend? Or should I try to take it to the next level?

2006-12-21 16:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my husband took a job in California. (against my better judgment) we agreed he could do it for a year. Well, now it's almost a year and now he's enrolled in college up there. Beyond that he has told me after graduation he wants to continue working in California...b/c it pays the most and fly home every other week. Currently, he is flying home once a month for 6 days. And, now that he's in school he won't be coming home for at least 3 months or unitl school holidays.... I can't live like this. What should I do??

2006-12-21 16:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Like my line said...i just lost my gf of 3 years, this girl was the girl of my dreams and she is everything to me! Im 20 she is 18 and she feels now all the sudden that she needs freedom from the rel. to be young and single...so we tried taking a break and we just got back tog. but now she feels that we cant speak at all and it is killing me...she ignores everything i try to say or do...she acts as if i never existed! For somereason i can not get over her...i think of her 24/7 and it seems that i even dream about her...i try to move on and meet other girls but i find everything wrong with them and go right back to thinking of my ex...please someone that has felt this or anyone that has any good advice...cause this is killing me worse and worse everday!!!!!!!!!!!its been about 2 weeks since we talked...we talked a little but it was her just being rude to me!

2006-12-21 16:15:53 · 26 answers · asked by Broke Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this guy a very sarcastic email the other day,for standing me up..never showing up when he said he would..He basicly had no idea it was sarcastic, then he continued as if nothing happened..writing me all these gushy, annoying messages..which really p issed me off like there's no tomorrow... I'm sitting here,mad as hell, I'm all a wreck from work...and this jerk has the nerve to not even know what he did?

I'm trying to think of something really funny, yet mean and nastic but really sarcastic to this guy.. at the end of this message.
(i want it to be funny, but mean, so it could bite him in the a ss )
So any help with this is greatly appreciated..
thanks../

2006-12-21 16:15:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy --an ex-- keeps bugging me about why I am not dating even though I am divorced. I keep telling me I cant find cute men. He's very cute and we talk everyday. Sigh! What's his problem?

2006-12-21 16:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This boy has been trying to go with me for 3 months now.And he is really annoying!So,one day, I decide to just ignore him.while I was sitting in the lunch table,he comes to me and says-''how come you wont talk to me?Am I annoying you?''I say"Yes"HE says''Alright,I will leave you alone but I want you to know this ....OB'' I say''What the **** does OB mean?''And he says''when you see me in the hall I'll show you what it means.'' I dont know what to do.I go home and I cry my eyes out.I dont know what to do.Can somebody please help me!!!!!!!!(By the way,can you tell me what OB means too,thx!)

2006-12-21 16:12:03 · 12 answers · asked by nickia 2 in Friends

I have a lot of guy frineds...and a couple are xboyfriends. So I just want to know other peoples opinions on the matter. I have been arguing with a coworker for the past 3 hours. He says if i would ask people from other parts of the US people would agree with him...where as people from the midwest would agree with me. So in your answer please state where you are from and if you are male or female. Thanks

2006-12-21 16:09:53 · 17 answers · asked by daisy_102 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been cheating on my husband with a younger and better looking man for 4 months now. i am thinking of throwing my husband and 2 kids out of the house . i know that i willget the house because i am a woman .what would be the best way to get them out of the house so it will be all mine .

2006-12-21 16:08:42 · 32 answers · asked by princess lisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 16:08:29 · 33 answers · asked by skygirly62 2 in Family

I know that I can't enable her in ANY way by giving her money or even a place to live at this point because she's used me in the past to get money for drugs and has even sold her foodstamps for crack, but I feel in my heart if she doesn't get help soon she'll die out there. Every time I've tried to help her it's failed miserably. I've tried to get her to go into treatment, but she's not ready yet. What do you do when you're certain something really bad is about to happen to someone you love, but you're helpless to save them???

2006-12-21 16:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by oscpressgirl66 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the friend of an xfriend sits acros the isle on the bus to me. every now and hten when the guy next to him (my xfriend) and he are in the middle of a conversation he'll lean over and me like "so, tara, what's goin on?"
does that mean he's interest or just bored with my xfriend.
then theres this one time when i backed up in to him to try and knock him over on his back in the middle of the bus isle....he started banging me like woaw....is that him being flirty or just horny?

2006-12-21 16:07:44 · 3 answers · asked by Tara 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:06:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:06:24 · 11 answers · asked by krissym_15 2 in Friends