She bought a d1ldo. In fact, I encouraged her to, because she was to shy to do it and i though it was normal enough.
problem is - she bought a huge one. one that is alot bigger than what i have to offer.
second problem is - she loves it.
should i be offended? concerned? also, i thought you girls said size don't matter?
2006-12-21 16:24:41 · 22 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should have fun with her with it.
2006-12-21 16:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Riviera_ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, wait. Don't overreact. The solution is simple. Incorporate her new toy into your activities. There are position options that allow you to totally participate and at the same time have her eye roll back in her head. Just stay open minded and experiment. This could be a very good thing for you. You could be her hero. Don't be offended or concerned and don't compare yourself to her toy. Very few men are that size. A toy is a toy, but the real thing can never be replaced.
2006-12-22 01:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by icantknow2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this is all new to your gf since she was so shy about buying one in the first place.
Don't be offended or concerned. Most toys are alot bigger than the average guy. Just enjoy having fun with her with it.
And its true, its not the size that counts its how you use it
2006-12-22 00:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by loza500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldn't be. So what if its bigger than yours...you are the one that wanted her to buy it. So have fun. Size doesn't really matter, buying a bigger one just gives her more of a variety. If size really mattered she probably would be out finding a bigger one.
2006-12-22 00:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by daisy_102 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wanted her to get one so she did. So no you have no right to be offended. Obviously size matters to her. Next time you should think twice about what your asking.
2006-12-22 00:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm you brought this on yourself...more than likely she was going to get one sooner or later...as far as the size goes you can do a great deal more than the dildo can....after the novelty runs out you will be back in good with her...if you do not want to wiat that long then enbrace the idea that she is exploring yet more of her sexuality and ask her if you can help her explore...have fun with it...make her see that you are not jelous of a peice of plastic...size...well if you know how to please a woman then it doesnt matter what size it is...if you do not know how to please women then yeah they want the size to make up for it.
bout as honest as i can get on that one...good luck
2006-12-22 00:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by MARY L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey not-thing feel better than the real thing what are you worry about let her have some fun with it and you can too also It do make a girl hot and you will be right there when she's really.
2006-12-22 00:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by bigmomma3526 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size does matter......to some girls. Face the reality.
2006-12-22 00:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should quit worrying about it and figure out how to improve your life so you are not concerned with such trivial matters. Seriously.
2006-12-22 00:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the Joke is on you. Be careful next time what you encourage your girlfriend to buy.
2006-12-22 00:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I dont think you should be offended. It is perfectly normal if you are though. Guys are usually self consious or whatever...
2006-12-22 00:29:18 · answer #11 · answered by Apples and Mapples 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋