He always tries to feel on me when shes away. He will kiss me and touch me and try to stick his thing in my stuff when im wearing short dresses and skirts. I cant help myself so i let him do it and 5 min later were going at it. It feels so good to me.I LOVE it! How can i stop this temptation
2006-12-21 16:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to evaluate why this feels good to you. Is it genuine pleasure? Were you interested in this guy PRIOR to him becoming your friend's man? First of all, you are not being a real friend and continuing the cycle of women who are terrible friends, liars and don't have enough self respect to demand more from a man than being his sex toy. Second, you need to evaluate why you don't feel that you deserve a real relationship from a man instead of being his left overs. Third, put yourself in your "friends" shoes. If you aren't going to tell your friend the truth or pursue a real relationship with this man, I feel you should end it. You need to believe that both you and your friend are worthy and deserve better.
2006-12-21 16:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said in your other question:
At this point, you've pretty gone out the door with flirting, and you've already given in to temptation. Ask yourself these questions, and be 100% honest with yourself about the answers: Do you love him? Does he love you? Do you care about and respect your friend? Does he care about your friend? If the answer to the 3rd question is "yes," than you have no choice but to stop the affair (and yes, it is an affair even if he and she aren't married). Stay as far away from him as you can and make it clear that it's over. Tell your friend all the sordid details and get on your knees and beg for both her and God to forgive you for the betrayal you've committed. I hope you make the right choice.
2006-12-22 11:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world kind of a friend are you? If ur friend ever found out, she'll HATE u for the rest of her life. What should u do??? Stay away from everyone and everything that makes u tempted to do stupid things such as the horrible thing ur doing rit now. I hope that u dont really think that ur a good friend, cuz if u've convinced urself of that, plz rethink that whole concept. Sorry for being harsh, but the truth hurts.
2006-12-22 00:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Allahu_Akbar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u or did u encourage this ? Why have you kept it a secret and ask for outside opinion if u are aware that this is your "BEST FRIENDS MAN " ? ? ? ?
Girl , dont play with emotions or feelings , not with those of your best friend or not your own - u could end up loosing yourself in the end - with no best friend and her man having used u -
think abt it , if he can do this to your best friend who is his girl right now - if u do suceed taking your bestfriends man for your keeps - he may end up flirting with your Sister (if u have one )
or being the "PIG_***" he is - flirting with your brother ?? LOL
take care hon - aint worth even a glance - tell your friend abt it , set him up to meet you at some hotel , and get your best friend to show up instead of you , or better still , both of you show up -
that 'll learn him to flirt . . .
2006-12-22 00:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you call yourself a friend? I hope all the bad things in the world happen to you and nobody but you.
2006-12-22 00:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bugz414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend and keep away from her b/f because who's to say he isn't doing to this to others? If he's cheating on her with you then he will cheat on her with anyone.
2006-12-22 04:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from that everyone can get hurt , if you care for your friend you will not do this .
2006-12-22 00:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u don't want to hurt her but i think if she is your best friend and u care about her then u should tell her because a true friend is hard to find and you would want her to tell u it hurts but tell her cause if he want u then he is no good
2006-12-22 00:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by gangstagalgangsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your friend leave you alone with her man or go with your friend when she leaves.
2006-12-22 00:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by Willie Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose. him or her
2006-12-22 00:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋