What I'm afraid of is I might make him uncomfortable. But i want to get it off my chest soo bad. It's distracting me from everything I do.
2006-12-21 16:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by lmiitsoslx3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say it once, if the feeling was not mutual, i will never say it to that person again.
2006-12-21 16:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell him because it might help you focus on other things; and it might make you feel better. I experienced something similar with one of my friends. I had feelings for him and he didn't returned my feelings. I also struggled with telling him because I didn't want him to feel uncomfortable and I didn't want our friendship to end; but i eventually told him....and we are still friends today.
Anway, telling him will take the pressure off you...and even if he doesn't love you back, at least you can say 'I told him.' This way you won't have to wonder about the outcome.
I hope everything works out for you
2006-12-22 00:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Susu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was scared too, when I first started having feelings for my best female friend. I didn't think she felt the same way, but I told her to get it off my chest. And do you know what happened? It turns out that she did feel the same way about me as I did about her, and now we're madly in love and have dated for almost a year.
2006-12-22 00:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. I try to never miss an opportunity to express my love to someone that I care for. If it makes him uncomfortable, he will learn to cope. But, he needs to know.
What if something should happen to him, and you never have the opportunity to share how you feel? Wouldn't you feel regret for the rest of your life?
Love is all that matters in this lifetime. It is never wrong to give it, or express it.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-22 00:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by treefrog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, you should definately tell him. I know that you don't want him to be uncomfortable or things be weird...but if you want him in your life you have to imagine what life would be like without him. I know that it may be difficult to tell him...but you would never know how things could've been. Be open to him and let him know that you still want to be friends, but you wanted to know if you could've been more. Good Luck, I hope everything goes well!
2006-12-22 00:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Danelle L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT embarass urself. But for the sake of your chest bothering you, might as well tell him. Then avoid him if he doesn't like you (for a while)
2006-12-22 00:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Oghale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is no need to tell someone. If its there just let it be there, it would make you feel really bad if he reacted badly to you telling him.
2006-12-22 00:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Apples and Mapples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him. Even if he doesn't feel the same at least he will be aware of how you feel.
2006-12-22 00:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it him but he doesnt feel the same. maybe his not feeling you yet but he wants you in his life
2006-12-22 00:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by princess1001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try, and if he dose'nt love you back, maybe hes not worth it.
2006-12-22 00:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by ha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋