Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

it seems when im extremely nice to my bf he acts distance but when i act like i dont care about him he acts like he loves me. what gives? how can i act like i dont care to where it doesnt bother me doing that. cuz it does bother me being something im not. someone told me that you cant always let a man know you are inlove with him cuz he will take advantage. what are some ideas to that i can use to help me not care as much. it seems im making him the first in my life. i need serious help.

2006-12-21 16:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:46:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting aggrovated by trying to live up to other peoples expectations.

2006-12-21 16:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have this one girl on my mind all the time and i can't get her off my mind every time I try to keep her off my mind it does not work..

so is it love or a crush?

2006-12-21 16:45:59 · 11 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

how can I love some body else ,when I cant even love my self enough to know when it is time to let go....?

2006-12-21 16:45:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:44:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I lyk this boi.He lyks me.HE is moving away.We never went out.he dont know i lyk him.Should i tell him i do & i am goin to miss him!?he is movinmg tomrw!!=[

2006-12-21 16:44:08 · 11 answers · asked by tpoof 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend asked me out, and i don't want to go out with him. he is so nice, and he can make me laugh, but i told him no. he is just not my type. he is a jock, and i am more into skaters. I like this guy in all of my classes, and he knows. My friend gets sad whenever i talk about any guys. I have this big thing for the band Panic! at the Disco, and he gets sad when i say i think ryan ross is cute. I have no idea what to do! he cries too. he is my best friend, and since he asked me out, we are not like we were. I even told him why.....I told him, that i do not want a boyfriend right now (and i don't) he thinks i am just trying to make him feel bad, and i don't care about his feelings. I do care, but i do not like him more than a friend. I just am very confused. I want to die!!!!!

2006-12-21 16:42:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I emceed his company's function and I always am professional, so as not to give people the wrong idea. But I guess he was led on when I msged him after the function, thanking him for having me as emcee and that it was good to work with him. To me, thats a standard msg I send to people after I've emceed their function. I guess it was a mistake, because now he's asked me to dinner which could or could not be politeness or trying to get to know me more. Whatever it is, I would rather not go, just in case its the latter. I waited 40 min before replying "TQ but I cant make it tonight due to prior plans and happy new year to you". Now hoping he gets the msg. But if he asks me out another night instead - how should I respond?

2006-12-21 16:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by KaY K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

u fall in love w/ a player?

2006-12-21 16:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by cookiemonster 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:39:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal...

My friends parents are sooo nice it seems like.. sometimes i just make up stories so it seems like my parents are more involved in my life.. my friends parents always take to the movies..ect. bc my parents always complain when they have to take me somewhere.. and tonight i went to my friends house.. i forgot to tell my mom.. i just told my sisters.. and now my mom is going to ground me for a long time.. my mom yells at me for not keeping my room neat.. its getting so old.. she always is like " why do i always do all the cleaning around here!!" i dont even feel comfortable telling her when i am doing stuff with my boyfriend..so i make up stories saying im going to the movies with my friends instead.. she knows i have a boyfriend but still.. idk maybe im just in a bad mood.. are your families like this?.. what can i do to make it seem better?

2006-12-21 16:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I always try to let them see what's inside me.. but some just don't seem to see it..

Or perhaps, am i not showing myself enough for men to understand?

Many say i'm mysterious and they juz can't get me..
Sometimes, They don't know what i'm thinking of.. what i want..

But, really... i'm just a simple girl who needs a simple life like any other girls.

What's wrong...?

2006-12-21 16:39:25 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

Why don't you have a boyfriend is what they ask and I don't mean once in a while either. On my birthday my mom was like, so maybe next year your b/f can take you out on your birthday! Single women, do you ever get this? My grandmother came to visit us in the states and asks so, when do you planned to be married? My mother constantly reminds me that she had me at my age (26). So should I be frustrated about this? It just makes me feel strange around them. What is your take on the reasons they are asking? Do they doubt ever giving a dowry to someone?

2006-12-21 16:37:24 · 24 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have two guys one that i love with all heart but we broke and me and him still kiss here and there but now there is a guy who is trying so hard to be with me. he calls me everyday and tells me that he really wants be with me. but the guy that i love he still tells me that he loves me and misses me. but this new guy keeps on trying. at the same time im a busy person. i am in two dance teams and two cheerleading teams. i barely have time to see my family, how am i going to be with this new guy if i can barely see my family. should i give him a chance

2006-12-21 16:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by princess1001 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:36:15 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has cancer and is in need of constant care.im tired of looking after him and need a break . i have been seeing a guy and am thinking of leaving my husband for this new guy . how can i get my husband in a hospice and let him die there so i can be free again .with my new man .

2006-12-21 16:34:59 · 27 answers · asked by iamkim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I may not have explained the situation well enough the first time. He decided to go to work up there with 3 other guys as nurses. They all share an apartment and expenses. All are married. I said, he didn't want me to move to California which is not completely true. He doesn't want me here at home depressed and lonely, but my moving kinda makes the whole idea of getting paid more in california and me living in a lower cost of living state not worth the money. And, also housing in California is pricey. He is enrolled in school becomin an Rn. And, has said he needs my support at this time, yet all of my plans seem to be on hold. We had talked about starting a family before he hopped the plane to cali and decided to work there..now he says not until he finishes college which will be in 1 1/2 years. I will be 36 or 37 at that time...which is not an age I ever wanted to have my first child at. I feel like I need to move on.. HELP?

2006-12-21 16:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we fight all the time

2006-12-21 16:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by lilbomber_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

(and I am looking for things that are not really tangible!!) Thanks!!

2006-12-21 16:33:49 · 14 answers · asked by help4you 2 in Friends

2006-12-21 16:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Havisham 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:33:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry to ask questions like this. I'm just really down today. Don't mean to bother you all but I truely wanna know.....thanks :)
And by the way MERRY CHRISTMAS to all................
Mine is "The Last Time" by Eric Benet

2006-12-21 16:32:58 · 14 answers · asked by my051688 2 in Friends

I always flirt with my friends boyfriends and end up sleeping with them! I cant help it i meanim LOVE! I love sex and me! But i want to stop HOW???

2006-12-21 16:31:57 · 32 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 16:31:20 · 8 answers · asked by garnhardt 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 14, this ís because they were too harsh when I made some mistakes. The thing is over, today they are even proud ofme, but my resentment will
never go. What can the consequences be, now and in my adulthood? can they take a revenge, though they have no reason?

2006-12-21 16:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been dating this guy for a year now. He was once married but this marriage did not worked out so they seperated. When i know he is visiting his kids, i feel jealous. What should i do?

2006-12-21 16:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Marge 1 in Marriage & Divorce

with the other girl its not the case, we are able to make love whenever we want.

2006-12-21 16:29:43 · 18 answers · asked by monisaab 1 in Singles & Dating