Im 14, this ís because they were too harsh when I made some mistakes. The thing is over, today they are even proud ofme, but my resentment will
never go. What can the consequences be, now and in my adulthood? can they take a revenge, though they have no reason?
2006-12-21 16:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For your own sake, you need to resolve your anger towards your parents. If you don't, it will affect you negatively all throughout your adult life. Since things seem to be better now, why don't you sit down with them and tell them that you are having a hard time getting over your anger at them being so harsh. Tell them you appreciate that they are proud of you, and you don't want your anger to get in the way of loving them. They will not take revenge on you. They will be glad to work things out, and you will feel a lot better and so will they.
2006-12-21 16:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they beat you and locked you in the basement till you were 18 they were not too harsh---I think you are tripping--and why would any parent that took the time to correct your wrong when you were a child take the time to revenge you ?? What the heck kind of thinking do you have going on here?? Someday you will have kids of your own and you will see just how hard it is to show them you love them and have to discipline them too---
2006-12-21 16:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋