u fall in love w/ a player?
2006-12-21 16:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by cookiemonster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask yourself, "Am i falling in love with the attention he's givin me, or with him?" Playas are good at telling girls what they wanna hear, how to make them feel. if you like that, then drop it. he's only after you for one thing. (and if you're not old enough to know what that is, save yourself the trouble and break up with him now. if you don't you may end up being hurt)
if you know stuff about him, like little details about how he likes his coffee, what his fave thing at mcdonalds is, minor stuff like that, then go for it. guys can change, but they have to want to. you CAN NOT change a player, you'll only end up stressin.
if he remembers the little things you told him, and isn't always feeding you lines to make your heart skip a beat, then go for it. but as a guy, i can tell you that dudes will say almost anything to get some. just be careful and think with your head.
2006-12-21 16:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be setting yourself up for a lot of hurt. Players don't love just one,they need the thrill of the chase to be happy. Usually their happiness doesn't include making you happy along the way. Get out now,before it's too late!
2006-12-22 00:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diviya, your question seems incomplete... I think you are still thinking about what to ask.... Love has no bounds.. you can be in love with a player but then it has to be selfless love!! Do not expect anything in return... just love him whole heartedly, enjoy his every achievement and write to him whenever he needs to be congratulated. Experience the happiness that comes out of seeing him grow!! These are the boundaries of happiness that you can experience... beyond this it turbulant zone.... love. I would love to hear more from you nut8all@yahoo.com
2006-12-22 00:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by P S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont fall in love with players.
Not a very good idea YA NO
2006-12-22 00:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. this JUST happend to me. i ALMOST went out with him but i didn`t. [:
& i`m sooo happy i didn`t.
there`s really nothing you can do if you fall in love.
love is one of those things we can`t control [:
if he`s really WORTH it,
just KNOW you`ll get hurt.
but some things are worth the pain babe.
i`ll tell you that [:
2006-12-22 00:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly,hooooneeestttlllyyy. i play the same dirrty game i want to be the girl to tell him that he's really hurting thats when i've talked to him about it and he continues. lets see how much of a playa he is and if he can stand and please GOD please let u probably be one cute girl that boys trip over. oulala
2006-12-22 00:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by crystal n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU expect cheating, jealousy, insecurity, and lack opf comittment.
2006-12-22 00:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out fast before you have your heart broken !!!
2006-12-22 00:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get in it because they can hurt you .
2006-12-22 00:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play along and have fun
2006-12-22 00:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋