I always flirt with my friends boyfriends and end up sleeping with them! I cant help it i meanim LOVE! I love sex and me! But i want to stop HOW???
2006-12-21 16:31:57 · 32 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See a psychiatrist. This could be very deep problem that could get much worse.
2006-12-22 03:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that you are going to have NO friends very soon and you will be all alone. Friends are a gift and you should cherish them. If you love sex so much, see a therapist, you might be a nympho and there are ways a doctor can help you. I think that this stems from insecurities that you have within yourself that you may not even be aware of. You need male attention and that is why you do what you do. It's like people that shoplift, you do it for the rush. You will regret it all eventually and it will end up ruining your life. THINK BEFORE YOU ACT, ultimatly it is all a decision you make. I do hope you are using protection too.
2006-12-21 16:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can help it, but it is hard. You will not have any friends left or self -respect if you don't stop. Try not to get into situations where you're alone with their boyfriends and flirt with people who are unattached. Better yet, seek out other interests for a while that have nothing to do with men. You want to develop your inner self, and then you'll stop doing things like this.
2006-12-21 16:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can help it.
You're going to end up with a nasty little name for yourself...I'm sure you can figure out a few of the ones I'm thinking of. You're also going to end up with no friends.
How would you feel if your friends did this to your boyfriend? That should be enough to stop you.
You obviously are insecure with yourself and need tons of attention and stop at nothing to get it. That is a big sign of immaturity. Why are you so jealous of your friends and their relationships? Why not find your own boyfriend?
Let me offer this: Your friends boyfriends having sex with you doesn't mean they think you are hotter than their girlfriends...it means they think you are easier/sluttier than their girlfriends.
Karma
What goes around, comes around.
2006-12-21 16:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Riviera_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a bad idea. But when you do the things you do, by now you know the risks(physically, emotionally, and mentally) you run. Must be a blast though if your friendships don't matter.
But why are the boyfriends off the hook? They play a role too. Just limit the 1 on 1 with them.
2006-12-21 17:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by 2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because your love is blind and you have deep emotions for him which make you ignore the facts that is before you. In other words, you are just ignoring the facts which only lead you towards your own destruction and great suffering in future which you are unable to see. After reading, I don't think so that you will lead a happy and peaceful life with him. If this relation made then you are the only who will suffer whole life. Better avoid him and delist him from your life. Start afresh your life and be wise in choosing a person who is good. This is just an experience you to teach the lesson of life. In school we learn lesson first and then give test but in life we first give test and learn a lesson. The lesson we learn in school we often forget but the lesson we learn from our experience never forget. Don't make yourself dumb for him. He is truly do not deserve you. He literally do not have any affection for you if he shows that is fake like crocodile tear. God bless you!
2016-05-23 12:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one - why can't you get your own man and not your friends? two -why do you want to hurt your friends like that ? three-you need to talk to someone that can help you for real you have a problems. get some help girl before you before you be all alone because the boy sare going to use you up and make you feel bad about yourself and you would have any girlfriends to talk to it's not worth it . a women need her girls around you will see one day.
2006-12-21 16:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by bigmomma3526 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a psychologist advice. A doctor will help you. And think if you are in love with your boyfriend and your bestfriend had sex with him. What would you feel?
2006-12-21 16:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by . 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL! Just pretend a guy who does not have a gf has a gf and you should be ok. Just pretend he is lieing about her and does not want you to know, because she is not only his gf but sister!
A Mind is a Terrible thing to waste!
Good luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-21 16:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope one day you are totally in love and some girl does the same to you.
2006-12-21 16:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Hanky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋