my husband has cancer and is in need of constant care.im tired of looking after him and need a break . i have been seeing a guy and am thinking of leaving my husband for this new guy . how can i get my husband in a hospice and let him die there so i can be free again .with my new man .
2006-12-21 16:34:59 · 27 answers · asked by iamkim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow you are inconsiderate....why did you marry him in the first place?
2006-12-21 16:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Trese 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is he really at that stage where he has no other chance of survival? I can probably understand that you be physically and mentally tired, but have some compassion. Try to see if he can live with a family member or longtime friend. They may be programs out there depending on where you live that can have someone assist him at home.
Think about having more compassion for him, place yourself in his situation, "There but for the grace of God go I". If this is how it has to be make the transition bearable he is already going through an extremely rough time in his life. Give him peace and do it the right way, keep in mind what we do and how we treat people in life comes full circle back to us. Bad or Good.
My prayers to you both.
2006-12-22 00:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by prayingangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a nice wife you are !!
I think you husband probably does need to go into a hospice - Im sure he would get much better attention from caring people there.
Go off with you new man and I hope one day you don't become sick and need someone to look after you
I have one word for you - KARMA
2006-12-22 00:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One day you will be paid back for the way you are treating your husband. What goes around comes around!! You are a weak person. Hospice doesn't take over (full time) until the end stages! Low life!
2006-12-22 00:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by holliemay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what if by fluke, or by miracle of Jesus, your husband doesn't die? I am sad for your husband that he is in this situation because YOU are supposed to be his STRENGTH. YOU are supposed to love him and care for him in SICKNESS and in health, and now you just go on with your life as if he is already dead? What if you were in his shoes, and he went and messed around with another woman while you were laid up and sick on your death bed? Your actions are pathetic! What is happening to the REAL woman? You are a coward. You are scared. If you ever loved your husband you would be there with him all the way to the end.
2006-12-22 00:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by angel777 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are a mean spirited person who should be spanked, repeatedly. You should be bent over a man's knee and have your bare bottom spanked, over and over until your cheeks are rosy red.
Secondly, there are hospice homes, sponsored by local businesses, in almost every city. Let your fingers do the walking.
You are obviously a troll. I miss the Yahoo message boards too. Now go azzrape a corpse.
2006-12-22 00:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've had terminally ill family, and you do need a break ( a hour to shop for food for the house) and some help, but to just quit?! Are you being real?! I think if people knew were you lived, they would storm your house with torches and pitch forks, save your husband, and burn your house down with you in it. Can't believe you even posted that, you are sad. "You need Jesus"
2006-12-22 01:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even be asking on what to do, you should be ashamed of yourself. What is so special with the other man that your husband doesnt have? Repent and tell your your God you are so sorry for your actions. Go back to your husband, care for him and remember one day your husband will wake up from the sick bed. (REPENT)
2006-12-22 01:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by seniomus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. What comes around goes around, your husband needs you now more than ever. Gather your strength and make sure your husband is comfortable in his last days.
When/If he passes you can move on to be with someone else. Now is not the time. Remember your vows...
2006-12-22 00:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
God help you. You are so mean. I hope you do not end up with someone as ruthless as yourself. Maybe he will just drop you off at hospice and let you die.
2006-12-22 00:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? It seems like if you are going to put him in a hospice center you can wait to mary the other man. If he can't wait and honor your situation to honor your vows till death do us part then he isn't worth it.
2006-12-22 00:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by liberty girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋