it seems when im extremely nice to my bf he acts distance but when i act like i dont care about him he acts like he loves me. what gives? how can i act like i dont care to where it doesnt bother me doing that. cuz it does bother me being something im not. someone told me that you cant always let a man know you are inlove with him cuz he will take advantage. what are some ideas to that i can use to help me not care as much. it seems im making him the first in my life. i need serious help.
2006-12-21 16:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel.
But all that is just gameplay.
And if you keep playing games, eventually your going to get tired.
Let me just tell you..that,
Some guys arent as expressive as others.
Im pretty sure he really loves and cares about you, but he's just not expressive.
And maybe he realizes what he does and therefore, He feels bad when your giving him distance, cuz he's scared of Losing You.
Trust me...Ive been in this situation, and Playing Games Like that Just causes more trouble and stress into the relationship.
If your not confortable with the way he treats you, then have a serious talk with Him, and let him know how you feel.
Maybe like that he will change his ways, but then again, Give Him Time.
Love Is Patient...So Just go with the flow.
and always remember.
LOVE IS = 50/50 (50 PERCENT OF YOUR HEART, AND 50 PERCENT OF YOUR BRAIN).
never let love and your emotions lead you to things.
Always think Before Doing anything.
2006-12-21 16:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are supposed to add to your life, not consume it. Don't distance yourself, it will only add strain to the relationship. Instead focus on building the friendship between you two. Have fun, go bowling, miniature golfing, laugh! When he see's your fun and not this emotional and clingy girl, he'll respect and want you more. And at the same time you won't have to distance yourself. You'll be growing closer.
2006-12-22 00:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bugz414 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like this relationship is going no where. you both need a change. Take time apart, date others.
2006-12-22 00:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to play games with him then it is time to walk away. Do not waste your time with someone who plays games with your feelings.
2006-12-22 00:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu need couples counseling. No games work.
2006-12-22 00:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋