Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

i love men and some day i really want to get married and have kids. I'm 22 and whenever i know a guy is interested in me, all i ever do is tease the hell out of him and the second he tells me how he feels about me and says the "L" word i run and never speak to them. i do this and i'm afraid i might ruin something really special someday. My dad died when i 13 and dating was not really important to me. Deep down inside i crave all these romatic times but when i get what i want i run. i'm just wondering if my dad dying when i was young has something to do with the way i act.

i'm sure i sound like a real *****, but i really want to be able to solve this and be able to get close to someone. i have thought about talking to a psych, but i don't have the money.

2006-12-19 08:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to get him something. i think he is the sweetest guy ever. so i think i should get him something...but he wont tell me =[ he just wants to see me. someone help plz.

2006-12-19 08:16:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:15:33 · 2 answers · asked by dev d 1 in Singles & Dating

I notice about men if you want something to be done on the double ,you have to talk to them in a cooing voice,and if they make you angry and to make your points, you have to use a sexy voice.it works . Are the brain of men similar to turkeys? The go by sound of voice?

2006-12-19 08:15:16 · 2 answers · asked by Vannili 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i have been together over 2 years. we split the bills 50/50 I have 2 kids from a diffferent relationship but he is basically there dad should he help with the christmas presents for them 50/50 too?

2006-12-19 08:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by treez1976 2 in Family

2006-12-19 08:14:41 · 3 answers · asked by venu 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi I met a guy online feb this year we started to each other and have continued since managing so far every month to see we also talk every single night on phone for quite long periods .I keep on repatedly fidning him on dating sights,gay ,straight,tvs,cds,tgs.etc.I have a way of finding this information out wont go into that here but I always find it out when hes joined them.This is tearing me apart,making me ill,he professes his love for me but im not a stupid kid how the hell can he if hes doing this to me id told him time after time after time how much this hurts me and that its deceitful,dishonest and I actually doubt his sexuality and that frightens me in case ive caught something from him.I also do not believe a word this man tells me simply because of all of the above,What i cant understand is hes so generous and stuff and when we are together its brill we get on fine .Its wearing me down bigtime and I really cannt take much more id like other opinions on this matter jazzy

2006-12-19 08:14:18 · 10 answers · asked by JADE B 1 in Singles & Dating

My "girlfriend" is REALLY BADLY mentally unstable - she's endured rape, assault, being disowned, divorced parents, abuse, theft, and numerous hospital-scale beatings. We've been together for 9 months, but now the stress of feeling more like a full-time carer and physchologist than a boyfriend is kicking in. Is it too terrible a thing to leave her, because I'm so so so so so so so scared of what might happen if I leave her.

She's been planning to move in with me, with her social workers, and I'm the only person she can ever talk to. I know she loves me, but for me, that spark we had at the beginning has just disappeared.

Should I leave this "relationship," or is there ANYTHING I can do to resurrect this?

2006-12-19 08:13:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

while I at work all day?

I really wanna do her in the daytime too. She is the best.

2006-12-19 08:13:47 · 19 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if one day u find out the person who kill ur mom and kidnap u is ur dad.but is not ur real dad..like step father..but he look after u until u grow up..what would u do?

2006-12-19 08:13:28 · 6 answers · asked by teo a 1 in Family

2006-12-19 08:13:13 · 22 answers · asked by uklady26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i asked the guy i really like out and he told me he was not ready for another relationship so soon after the break up of his last one.
The problem is i have to see this guy everyday and its killing me because we are still friends but i cant seem to get past this. I cant just turn the feelings off that i have for him and im scared if i keep seeing him my feelings are just going to get worse and im going to go crazy because i know i cant have him but i cant seem to think of anything else but him at the moment.
Any good advice out there??

2006-12-19 08:12:38 · 29 answers · asked by anastacia500 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has not done anything wrong for me to divorce him over. The feelings are just not there. But I don't think that's a good enough reason to leave.

2006-12-19 08:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by Pam 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She just doesn't cut it anymore. When we met she was young, sweet, and all pretty. But after 5 kids and me cheating twice, along with all that weight she gained, I just don't feel like I love her anymore.

We haven't had sex in 4 years, and i'm starting to think she loves the pool boy more. Why do we even have a pool boy when we don't have a pool?

Anyway, is it a good idea to get rid of her and find someone better? Also, with the 5 kids. I don't want to take care of them. Can i just send them all a $200 child support check once a month and never see them again?

2006-12-19 08:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yeah, we have been going out since september. I though he was going 2 get me, like, a pencil or something. Well, he got me this beautiful necklace that makes my gift, which i have not given him yet, look horrible. I really wanna get something else. He's in 10th grade, and yes he is a boy. wht. should i get him?

2006-12-19 08:11:37 · 20 answers · asked by AC 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband keeps receiving calls from a 18 year old girl. We have known her since she was 8 years old and we consider part of the family. Since a week foward my husband recieves 10 to 15 calls a day from her. I asked him to tell her to stop calling because she never wants to speak to me and she demands to speak to him. He cursed me out and told me I was being stupid. My husband is 40 years old and I am 30. My husband made me feel really bad and he told me that I am fat and ugly. What should I do, I am feeling very stressed and I have taught about leaving him. Any comments, serious comments please.

2006-12-19 08:11:35 · 45 answers · asked by kayla_lopez_2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been seeing a guy for 3months but can't stop thinking about my ex. My ex wants me back and im completely torn between them.....AARRRRRRRRRGGGHHHHHHHH

2006-12-19 08:11:31 · 24 answers · asked by ccc 2 in Singles & Dating

I married a divorced man.his ex-wire was having an affair that's why they got divorced. they have 3kids. the kids are nice to me. anywz, yesterday was his bday. i bought a lot of gifts for him coz i also include his kids and mine too (we have kids too). when his kids arrived i was just surprised that they brought a gift for their dad. that was fine though but it was not only coming from them but also from their mom. of course, the kids cant afford to buy EXPENSIVE BRANDED Things yet. I ask him if the kids always give him presence and he agreed. i ask him how come i didnt know last year-he said he forgot what they gave him.i am just a housewife, so i cant afford very EXPENSIVE one (he is used to have those kind of clothes), so i told him il just returned my gifts for you coz your ex-wife is better than what i have. so, all this time the presents that he received and used it are all coming from her ex-wife. he is not suppose to wear or use it coz he is aware that it is his ex-wife buying

2006-12-19 08:11:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My finace seems very concerned that our gift-exchanges are fair and balanced. Specifically, he wants to ensure that we both spend the same amount of money. I don’t disagree; in fact, I was glad that we were able to talk about it and put a “cap” on our Christmas gifts to one another. Unfortunately, he talks about this type of thing often enough that I’ve grown uncomfortable. He has mentioned a few times how many presents he has purchased for me for Christmas. He has also mentioned that he has to buy more presents because I have placed more than one under the tree for him. I noticed this around my birthday, when he commented on how much he’d spent on my gift. In the same conversation, he talked about what I’d bought for his birthday, and what he had bought for my last birthday. It makes me feel like he’s keeping tabs on the dollar amount we’re both spending on each other, and that there’s some sort of running total that needs to be even. At first I thought he was trying to let m

2006-12-19 08:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by jlmeyer144 1 in Friends

okay so im 15 & broke...
well i got a about a $20 limit!
so you guys/gurls have any ideas what i can get my mom for christmas??
anything helps

2006-12-19 08:10:45 · 7 answers · asked by cami s 2 in Family

2006-12-19 08:10:29 · 42 answers · asked by kelsmo1971 2 in Singles & Dating

i had this boy that i was goign out with and he has a baby girl know and everything and i was glad that he got one but he told me that he would not hurt me that me still loves me and everything then oneday i called him and a gurl answered and i got pissed and like i called him again that day and told him that it was over and ever thing and know i wish i would not have dont that i asked him if he would go out with me again and he said he dont know he dont trust me again like he did but what do u think i could say to him b/c i do love him alot i really don and i want him to know that

2006-12-19 08:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:09:18 · 30 answers · asked by golferdude987 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by Shauna W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please- dont tell me i'm too young. I dont want to date or go out, but i want to be able to know that i have a bf... no kissing or going out but u know.....

2006-12-19 08:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by born_confuzzled 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a married woman who has had an affair with a married man. This man has come to be my best friend. We are very close. I know it is not all about sex but the temptation is there and attraction is mutual. We have had sex only 4 times in almost a year. We don't see eachother very often but we are in constant contact via phone and email. I know it is wrong to have an affair. I am considering ending this relationship as well but please be open-minded with your answers. Thanks.

2006-12-19 08:06:58 · 15 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The groomsmen have been selected for my brothers wedding and now my cousin wants to be part of it. He's a lot younger than us and the groomsmen that have been selected have a much closer relationship.
With that being said, this cousin has caused some faily drama and it seems as though parents are getting involved, if not already. I'm scared he might do the samething with me, since my wedding is in a couple of months and I haven't selected him to be part of the wedding.. but I think the most important thing is him and his family will continue to make this an issue till my brothers wedding and further on.. any suggestions on shutting him up?

2006-12-19 08:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My brother won't let go of the past and is taking everything out on my family. How can I help him focus for the future?

2006-12-19 08:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha Thompson 3 in Family

2006-12-19 08:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by Ryan M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 08:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by Sakura88 1 in Singles & Dating