Been seeing a guy for 3months but can't stop thinking about my ex. My ex wants me back and im completely torn between them.....AARRRRRRRRRGGGHHHHHHHH
2006-12-19 08:11:31 · 24 answers · asked by ccc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're under 25,you should be dating as many guys as you want. There is no good reason to be tied into a monogamous relationship untill you're ready to get married. Listen to Tom Leykis ,Check www.blowmeuptom.com for your local station or listen on line.
2006-12-19 08:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless things are not going so well with your new boyfriend, I would advise staying with him. Think about it; you & your ex split up for a reason. It is only natural to think about getting back with the ex, for the familiarity. Think of it this way.... look forward in life. Stick with the new guy for now and see how you feel in a months time. If your feelings are still strong with your ex, try again. But whatever you do DON'T see both men at once as it will only lead to problems. Good luck!
2006-12-19 08:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something that EVERYONE experiences in their lives. truth be told, you have to follow your true feelings, maybe sometimes what is right isnt what you may be feeling. by that i mean that even if your still feeling for your ex, maybe theres a reason you are, is there something your new guy of three months isnt showing or satisfying? the real question is, you say you have feelings for both of them, and you want to be with both of them, the question is, are either of them right for you? if one is your ex, something must have happened that interfered with the feelings and emotions you had with them causing the break up, maybe they just arent the right person...now for the new guy, you get feelings for your ex because there must be something missing with the new guy... i would honestly recommend taking a break, ending it with both of them. go a month or so without having a relationship, be single for a while. try to find yourself and what you truly want, rather then what you think you want. feelings are controllable but you just need to get ahold of yourself first. its a very frustrating and at the same time emotionally upsetting issue. but from experience i have figured that leaving both and taking some time to yourself and letting yourself clear everything up is what works the best. all in all, you have to follow your heart and your true inner feelings, by taking a break from dating, this will help you figure things out. just tell both of them you need some alone time. some space, and you will be allright in a few weeks. hope i helped yah out. Take care and good luck, Arek
2006-12-19 08:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Arek Ryzak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wonder why he is your ex?? if things was so great between you he wouldnt be...
sometimes when u have a new one before u gor over your ex.. this can happen... I think you should not go back to your ex,, keep on with the new guy and see how things come along... Dont be so serious have fun!
2006-12-19 08:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by sofiaa_k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, but then i started to think about it again..... he is my "ex" for a reason.... jusat think about that reason you two broke up, and if u can live with it might happening again, then go for your ex (depending if you ever loved him and how long you've been together, do u miss him?) it also depends bc u know what u had, only u know if u like that, but u dont know what youre going to get, do u want to take that risk? (change is sometimes a good thing)
but think about this.....everything was going almost perfect until he came bak into the picture.......
now its your choice.
good luck. hope u make the right choice, i know i did.
2006-12-19 08:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by ~*precious*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your "EX" for a reason. Try to recall what happened to make it that way. Also, three months is just the start of the "getting to know you" part of the relationship. Don't cheat your new boyfriend out of this special time!
2006-12-19 08:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to but i relized if hes an ex hes an ex it obviously didn't work and the guy your with u should at least try u never now if he might be better than yur ex
2006-12-19 08:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think of it,your ex is exactly that,put that episode behind you and look forward not back
2006-12-19 08:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May the best man win. Dont be so dramatic and keep both of them. Don't you think they'd do the same to you? Have fun, and don't hurt anyone. (In other words, DONT by any menas let them find out about eachother).
2006-12-19 08:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your $hit straight LOL!!! Tell the guy the truth, communication is GOLDEN! Seriously. Tell him your feelings for him but also your feelings of not being able to commit to him. Don't get too specific (that's what I would advise)- don't tell him it's because of the other man. Instead, you're not ready to commit and you want to date.
2006-12-19 08:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋