She just doesn't cut it anymore. When we met she was young, sweet, and all pretty. But after 5 kids and me cheating twice, along with all that weight she gained, I just don't feel like I love her anymore.
We haven't had sex in 4 years, and i'm starting to think she loves the pool boy more. Why do we even have a pool boy when we don't have a pool?
Anyway, is it a good idea to get rid of her and find someone better? Also, with the 5 kids. I don't want to take care of them. Can i just send them all a $200 child support check once a month and never see them again?
2006-12-19 08:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
R U really married...I doubt U R old enough huh?
Oh well...guess you could be doing alot worse things than making up silly questions on here. Ever try writing poetry or write in a journal or writing a book? With that very imaginative mind of yours.....you should!
*Hope santa brings you something fun to keep that creative brain of yours going constantcramps =]
Merry Christmas and happy New Year!
2006-12-23 08:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should leave you. You sound like an a**hole big time. Obviously there was something about her you like, you made 5 kids that you don't want to take care of. If I was her, I would get with the pool boy, he's got to be better than you. You can take you $200 child support for 5 kids and shove it.
2006-12-19 08:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok question WHAT THE HE** IS WRONG WITH YOU?
you sound like a complete dumba** i want to divorce my
wife cause shes not skinny anymore, and she should have divorce your sorry butt when you cheated but she stayed with you dont ask me why, and how you think your goin to get by with paying 200 a month for 5 kids i dont know, how can you be so selfish this women has givin you 5 kids, and her life and as far as the sex goes i dont blame her she dont know where you have been you could have anything, and the pool boy please you need to slap yourself since im not there to do it for you, and wake and see how amazing your wife for her to forgive ,and stay and give you 5 kids she sound like a pretty good person to me she really deserves better that a ego maniac like you.
you need help major.
2006-12-19 08:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by D_R_M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and think about you kids. If you leave her you will be paying more than $200 a month it will be a lot more then that. Try talking to her about it. Maybe you both want to try new things. That maybe why you haven't had sex in 4 years after a while the same old thing isn't worth doing it.
2006-12-19 10:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by KEVIN M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are nuts. Build a pool then the pool boy will have an excuse to come over. You have to plan ahead. I think $500 per child per month will do, that will be $2500 per month. Give your wife $500 as well.
2006-12-19 08:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would probably be glad you left and depending on the money you make it could be about 1,000 per month for 5 kids. Some times I wish my husband would leave so I'd have more time with our pool boy too. Do her and those kids a favor and disappear.
2006-12-19 08:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) It is extremely unlikely that you'd find someone better. She was raising your five kids while you were out cheating.
2) Has it occurred to you that she may be hoping you'll leave? You don't sound like you're anyone's ideal husband.
3) Whatever her attorney says is fair for spousal and child support, college for the kids, and house paid in full & put in her name might be enough.
2006-12-22 07:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Been there, seen that 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would be the biggest favour you could do for her. Kids probably like the pool boy better too.
2006-12-19 08:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could only be lucky enough for you to leave. That way she can sue your a** for child support. How can you even live with yourself? You are officially a s***** person.
2006-12-19 09:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Oh my God. I havent something that funny since the book misery. Dont be a dweeb go play.
2006-12-19 10:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋