Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

Is all of this just a big SLAP IN THE FACE? IS HE TELLING ME HE DOES NOT LOVE ME? Could it be any more obvious? Yet he still says he loves me, all the time.

but he never calls me during the day anymore either. Doesnt reply to my txtg msgs, or even mention that he received them. (sometimes trying to get him intereted in some intimacy) Does no good... never even acknowledges my advances.

What do you think?

2006-12-18 02:56:58 · 16 answers · asked by Mikez Bad Girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

mmkay. This gurl is like trying to be exactly like me. I guess I should be flattered but its creeping me out. All of my ex boyfriends she starts dating them, she dresses like me, and now she is trying to be friends with all of the people I'm friends with and she is tring to take all the same classes as I do....which is weird cuz I'm a junior and shes a freshman...What do I do?

2006-12-18 02:56:36 · 8 answers · asked by lalalalyndsie 2 in Friends

Yeah we divorced and hardly speak and now he says this to me . Should i be worried ? Should I tell his wife ?

2006-12-18 02:56:06 · 20 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had issues in the past (many of them were issues with me that were valid and I am working hard to address).
While things have improved some, I remain worried because we have little or no physical relationship - which I feel is important for a marital relationship. We have a 5 year-old and a 3 year-old and she refuses to do anything about them sleeping - or at least falling asleep in our bed. I carry them up to their room, but, by that time, she is asleep (she goes to sleep around 8:00 every night. She complains about always being tired. She does have a thyroid issue and is taking medicine - but her level of medication is not enough and she won't go to the doctor to get it adjusted. We have only had sex about 4 or 5 times in the last year. I'm only 43 and have a high sex drive. She used to. This has been going on for almost 3 years (out of a 6 yr marriage). What can I do, if anything, besides staying loyal (which I have) and supporting her?? At wits end...

2006-12-18 02:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 6 years. A month ago he went away and cheated on me with another woman abroad. Came back and broke up with me. I decided to move out and did it. We do talk occassionally but he tells me I'm like his best friend or a sister now. He keeps in touch with that woman overseas, although I think it's mostly sexual attraction (saw a couple of text messages in that direction) and there's no foundation for the relationship there. I try to move on. It still hurts, but I have no other choice.
Do you think he'll ever realize what he did and what a great girl (myself :)) he threw out of his life? For some reason I want him to understand that and feel sorry...

2006-12-18 02:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by moonylola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 17 yrs old and and i havent got a cent of money from my mom because my dad uses it for him. Shes been sending it since July. thats over $1200 i could have used for school clothes that i dont have. i dont even have a pair of shoes to wear or a coat because of him. im sick of it.

2006-12-18 02:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The children's ages are roughly 3 years to 10 years, boys and girls. 8 children total. Any ideas for games, good X-mas movies, or things to do to keep them busy and having fun. When they get bored, they get out of control.
Help??

2006-12-18 02:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by casearas 2 in Family

u would like to say no to his proposal without losing him

2006-12-18 02:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Don't say like love or any of that stuff... I mean actual gifts.

2006-12-18 02:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I am happliy married to a wonderful guy, but am a public figure at times due to my job. This old guy and I went on after many years to new lives. He noticed me in a nwspp article and sent an email. I just erased it but feel guilty I didn't mention it to my spouse. My thinking is why? It might hurt him and I wouldn't do that for the world. So I just erased it and did not reply- rude of the guy anyway I think. Was I wrong?

2006-12-18 02:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by fireworks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 02:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 11 months. We were extremely close... we were even promised. But there were a couple things about him that I just couldn't picture myself marrying. Here were the three biggest things: he's pretty immature, he's controlling, and I just wasn't happy. None are qualities I want in a husband. I knew that was where our relationship was heading.

Then... there's a different guy. I really like him, and he shares the same feelings for me. But I still love my ex. He knows this and doesn't want to get involved with me til I'm over my ex. I haven't been really good friends with this guy until recently, but I feel us connecting on a really deep level. Plus this guy is more mature and better looking [which doesn't really matter that much... I judge more by personality.]

So who do you think I should choose? They both have their good qualities... It's a tough decision...

2006-12-18 02:54:10 · 5 answers · asked by mandarin 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy i went out with like 2 years ago and i want him back and i will do anything to get him back he is 17 and im a teen and i really like him he likes me but he isnt sure about me do u think its worth it if u do tell me how to get his attention how to get him

2006-12-18 02:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by chasi m 1 in Singles & Dating

Deep down ladies, what are you looking for in a man? looks, someone who shows he cares/ someone who does show it, gentleman/ rough-neck, good guy/ bad boy.
ladies, i need honest-to-god answers

2006-12-18 02:52:59 · 18 answers · asked by Vendetta 1 in Singles & Dating

TORN BETWEEN WHITE BOYFRIEND AND BLACK friends and family?
I have done what i swore i would never ever do,date a white guy.I'm Black. My black friends are totally disgusted that i'm dating a white guy.I really like this guy.He is blue
eyed,blonde,'6'4 and i must say handsome. He is educated, has a very good job.POINT OF CORRECTION,we have been told that white guys are not good in bed and have small packages. I cannot speak for all white guys but my B/F is packing. I have had my share of black guys but none come close to him when it comes to making love. he loves every inch of my body,with him making love is about pleasing me and ofcourse i do the same for him. i feel like a woman when i'm with him.No black guy has treated me like him.we have been together for 9 months.My friends who have always stood by me will not talk to him.My brothers insult him all the time in his face.When he greets my Mom,she refuses to acknowledge his presence.This really hurts me alot.I don't know what to do.I really love my family and friends.how can I make it work

2006-12-18 02:52:58 · 12 answers · asked by its me a 1 in Friends

I still have a year and a half until I turn 18. My parents are not good parents, they are divorced, my dad has a horrible temper calls me horrible names. My mom screams and also has a horrendous temper and her boyfriend is an abusive drunk. My question is when I turn 18, I mean the day I turn 18, will my mother no longer have custody of me. for example, I could say F*** you I am moving and she could do nothing about it whatsoever

2006-12-18 02:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by creativebuddhism 1 in Family

i guess my other question was not written well enough so i had to re-word it. i am pregnant with my boyfriends baby and his mom does not like me i am 15 and feel like she blames it all on me

2006-12-18 02:52:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It wasn't that they did anything wrong and actually proved to be a really great person but that physical attraction just disappeared without any just cause. Did you still try the relationship/dating out or did you just cut your losses and leave? Why do you think that happens especially when you did find them attractive in the first place?

2006-12-18 02:51:47 · 3 answers · asked by serenity113001 6 in Singles & Dating

TORN BETWEEN WHITE BOYFRIEND AND BLACK friends and family?
I have done what i swore i would never ever do,date a white guy.I'm Black. My black friends are totally disgusted that i'm dating a white guy.I really like this guy.He is blue
eyed,blonde,'6'4 and i must say handsome. He is educated, has a very good job.POINT OF CORRECTION,we have been told that white guys are not good in bed and have small packages. I cannot speak for all white guys but my B/F is packing. I have had my share of black guys but none come close to him when it comes to making love. he loves every inch of my body,with him making love is about pleasing me and ofcourse i do the same for him. i feel like a woman when i'm with him.No black guy has treated me like him.we have been together for 9 months.My friends who have always stood by me will not talk to him.My brothers insult him all the time in his face.When he greets my Mom,she refuses to acknowledge his presence.This really hurts me alot.I don't know what to do.I really love my family and friends.how can I make it work

2006-12-18 02:51:17 · 43 answers · asked by its me a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if its just making a friend at work?

2006-12-18 02:51:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do i get a bloke that i have been with for about 2 months - although mates for years? Not sure whether to get him something serious (smellys etc) or something jokey! We are not that serious, but kind of are, still early days and trying to go from mates to more. We did not buy each other presents before! and i don't wanna look stupid if i give him something and he doesn't get me anything!

2006-12-18 02:50:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a girl that was a good friend, but lately, she has become a close friend. We became closer since I told her that I could see myself with a girl like her, and now, she touches me more everytime she sees me. I just kinda let her touch my arm, tap my upper leg, lean against me, and hug me whenever she feels like it. She tells me she is touchy-feely, and she touches me more everytime I see her. I ignore it because she says it is her personality, but other people are starting to think things. Should I continue to allow her to advance? Would it matter that everyone thinks she is nuts about me?

2006-12-18 02:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are my ex-boyfriends parents and they invited me to dinner on Christmas Day. I only met them once. I'd like to get them 1 gift for both. What's a good idea for someone you barely know?

2006-12-18 02:50:18 · 4 answers · asked by yaira007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

for christmas anybody else feel the same?

2006-12-18 02:49:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have very difficult in-laws that I will be spending Christmas with. There are a few of them that attempt to control the day by being crabby, complaining and being selfish. My sister in law and I get very frustrated.
Without causing a major ruckus, how can we sail through this day with style and grace?
We don't want them to think they have won.

2006-12-18 02:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by casearas 2 in Family

In a husband-wife dispute .a women is always expected to compromise, follow customs, and prove herself as a sacrificing figure.Ideal Sita Mata? why not man is held responsible for break-up?Any reply from Men

2006-12-18 02:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by vjayashree19 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and pookie didn't work out - he told me to stop calling him so I did now he tells me I can call him and when I do he's excited -whats all that about ?

2006-12-18 02:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by Jen I 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and yea ihad alot of bad relationships in the past and that why my parents dont want me to date anymore. right now im talking to someone and i told my parents about him and my moms ok with it but my dad isnt he still dont want me to date again. i like this guy alot and he respects what i want but how do i get it hrought to my dad that i want to date this guy??

2006-12-18 02:47:42 · 11 answers · asked by Xtina12 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this friend i have and i have liked him for about 3 years now.I can't ever stop thinking about him and having dreams about him.I know there is no future between us and that he will probably never like me.What do i do?How can i stop with these feelings?

2006-12-18 02:47:10 · 3 answers · asked by punkrocker 1 in Singles & Dating

My son's father and I live in different states and I just wanted to know what to expect when I go to court.

2006-12-18 02:46:52 · 9 answers · asked by sxymafrmnyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce