why always women have to compromise to save family?

Question

In a husband-wife dispute .a women is always expected to compromise, follow customs, and prove herself as a sacrificing figure.Ideal Sita Mata? why not man is held responsible for break-up?Any reply from Men

Answer 1

The reasons are many: 1) Evolution 2) Physiology 3) Socio-Economic and 4) Cultural.

From an evolutionary standpoint men are hunters and more aggressive while females are submissive gatherers. Physiologically men have more aggressive testosterone while females have emotion causing estrogen. Socio-economically the females may not be financially independent being forced to compromise, especially if a child is involved triggering emotional estrogen.Cultures accordingly mostly encourage females to compromise in the interest of the greater good of the family unit.

However' in modern times as women become financially independent and cultures evolve women are standing their ground as divorce rates go up. Then one has to ask oneself how much does one value marriage or other living arrangements and whether the benefits of separation will outweigh the benefit of compromise.

Before measuring such benefits one has to define the object of a relationship and its place in the totality of the arrangement. Emotional bond, financial security, social concerns, physical attraction, mental peace are some aspects that need be examined before embarking on the road to compromise or separation.

Answer 2

Men portrayed women as weakling and fragile and they used the women for their sexual pleasures and to keep the household. So in olden days men never allowed women to get educated or have a job outside the house. In this century, women have to do all of that plus go outside the house and earn a living to help the man. It is time women figured that they do not need a man for survival because they have earning power. Yes, of course women sacrificed a lot for her family and children because she had no other means of financial support other than her husband. All women out there, wake up.

Answer 3

it is coming from generations that a woman should compromise n parents of the girl also tell her the same thing after marriage so that the family should not have any disputes n the should not go out of the house they subdue the disputes by asking the girl to compromise. mother of the man does not tell him or the man does not feel he has to compromise for anything.

Answer 4

it is only because women allow themselves to be sacrificed that men treat them as a sacrificail lamb......learn to put ur foot down in the first instance itself and then see that u dont have to compromise all the time

Answer 5

If a man expected me to be the one to always compromise, he'd get fooled and find out it don't work that way with me. Whoever told him I should be the one to always compromise lied to him and it's not my fault he was dumb enough to believe it.

Answer 6

It's otherwise sum times. Men have to pay the price for no mistakes of their own. So, it depends on circumstances.

I support you, live by an example n u will be coooolllllll

Answer 7

it depends on the status and position of that perticular women. if she has economic and social liberty she can always think independent. i dont mean to say that she can forget her family responsibilities, but she can always put terms on disobeying males of the family. so a women should always try to maintain her status and dignity and the law is always to their protection if something goes wrong.

Answer 8

because men are too arrogant to admit that they are wrong and they are never ready to say sorry so the women has to say it to save the family from weeks of hell and now the world has changed I think if the man has done something wrong he should apologise

Answer 9

what are you trying to do here ? sorry to say but you are making a joke of SITA MAA . it is another issue of your matter . but if you are indian(which i do not think is) , you should not have said so . no mater what your issue is but but as you are a female , you are nowhere near to our SITA MAA .

Answer 10

because she is the maker of this world.and she is the only one who can handle each and every problem.she has to compromise with anyone like sita9ramayana]