Is all of this just a big SLAP IN THE FACE? IS HE TELLING ME HE DOES NOT LOVE ME? Could it be any more obvious? Yet he still says he loves me, all the time.
but he never calls me during the day anymore either. Doesnt reply to my txtg msgs, or even mention that he received them. (sometimes trying to get him intereted in some intimacy) Does no good... never even acknowledges my advances.
What do you think?
2006-12-18 02:56:58 · 16 answers · asked by Mikez Bad Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some good answers here.. THANKS... Now I think I will let him read my Question and then HE can choose the BEST Answer HIMSELF...
OR would that be wrong of me?
2006-12-19 17:50:26 · update #1
No gift again this year for x-mas. BUT I did get a peck on the lips & a long hug. Longest ive been held in a long time. it was nice.
2006-12-25 13:03:51 · update #2
I think you should reexamine your relationship with this guy, because even though he says he loves you he is not acting like it. Why dont you try and see if money is an issue, suggest making homemade gifts for christmas.
2006-12-18 03:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your relationship has become very one sided. Take a step back and try to look at it objectively. If your best friend were going through this, what would you tell her?
Most likely you would tell her the relationship is over and that she needs to move on, and so should you. Don't waste any more time on this guy - you're worth WAY more than this.
2006-12-18 03:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is way overly shy or he could be thinking about breaking up with you. It also could be a money issue about the gifts but he should sill want to call and be around you. Talk to him about your concerns and give him some space after that and see how he responds.
2006-12-18 03:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by gotansas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep...dropping more than subtle hints that he is just not that into you...time to move on as his actions do not match is words. Likely just staying with you out of fear of being alone and waiting for the next best thing to come along and then he will dump you. Don't settle for that; dump him and be free to find someone worthy of your love.
2006-12-18 03:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell?? He either fooling you until X Mas, or this guy wants out, Try confronting him face to face and ask him what is going on. If he continues to act this way after the holidays, Leave him.
2006-12-18 03:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have terribly low self esteem to put up with this for even a minute.
We teach people how to treat us and you've taught him that he can disrespect and walk all over you, and you'll still be there at his beck and call, just sooo grateful that he even talks to you.
My God, woman, get rid of this guy and get your pride back!
And, if you can't, go for professional counseling.
2006-12-26 02:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by nova30180 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
continually smile, and say thanks, and continually settle for the presents! The giver receives as a lot excitement out of giving as you do getting! i understand, because i'm a giver! My daughter is a giver too! In existence you'll see, you're both a giver or a getter!
2016-11-30 22:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he does love you and it just being inattentive to your needs, it may be the wake-up call he needs. If not, you're better off without him in the first place. You deserve better!
2006-12-18 02:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His body may still be showing up for dinner...but believe me, he is long gone, and unless you enjoy being the maid, you should be gone as well.
2006-12-18 03:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to find someone else. Seems to me he already has. Just doesn't know how to "let you go" although it seems he has let go alot of the other things. Girl, LEAVE HIM!
2006-12-18 03:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋