Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

Before him I was in an unhappy 10 year relationship. Near the end of the relationship I started cheating....should I tell my boyfriend this? I don't want him to think I'm the cheating sort even though I did it with my ex. I would never cheat on him....and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. Should I just leave it be and tell him the truth if he asks or should I sit him down and tell him all of it now?

2006-12-18 03:39:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i had to do this paper right. about how to save a wet cell phone. so i havent done the paper and she said that there are 10 people left to present and so i havent even turned in a paper to her at all. so the reason that im not turning it in is because when i get up in front of a class i get really nervous. i mean like i turn red and everything. so wut do you guys think i should do. just deal with it present and let everyone laugh at me and see how red i can get presenting something? through last week and this week ive seen everyone present and they didnt get red or anything but me i do!! i start getting red and people laugh and start secrest and everything. i dont know what to do. PLEASE GIVE ME A SUGGESTION!!!!!

2006-12-18 03:39:48 · 2 answers · asked by mexican-mami 15 1 in Singles & Dating

your friends boyfriend was doing the dirty on them, would you tell them? or would you confront the man?

2006-12-18 03:39:26 · 29 answers · asked by Miss Tickle 4 in Friends

i really like this guy. he is 29 and single.

apparantly, he has never had a girlfriend before.

should i be worried by this???
what could the reasons as to why he has never had a girlfriend before???

ive also heard that he likes the chase.

hes is not gay!!!lol xxx

2006-12-18 03:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so i will pick you as best answer.

2006-12-18 03:38:31 · 32 answers · asked by lucyandtj 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 years old and trying to maintain in life I was in an abusive relationship and for almost two years me and him have been broken up for an year now all of a sudden he is starting to come back around and claiming that he just wants to be my friend but he says he is still in love with me. I really don't trust him because of all the things he has done to me . I don't know if I should be around him or just let it go and don' talk to him. He has caused me alot of pain so I don't know if I should talk to him or not . Do you really think he is my friend because part of me feels like he is'nt. He tries to act so cool about everything but I don't believe he really cares for me? Is there still hope for me to find love after I have been so hurt.

2006-12-18 03:38:29 · 5 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2 in Singles & Dating

I was trying to be this girls friend and well things got out of hand. She started telling my co-worker friends to asked me questions. Like if I like her. That's how it started at first. So my friend comes up to me and asked me "so what's up with you and Nicole. I said why? My friend said "she wants to know if you like her or not." I told him to tell her that I don't like her and I also told him I don't like her anymore, because she has a bad mouth and she had sex alot with her boyfriend. So my friend went back and told her everything I said about her. So when I saw her she said to me "so I heard you said I have a bad mouth?" I said "yes I did." And a couple of days later she said that my co-worker friend also said I called her a slut. Which is not true. And I talk to my friend about it. He said he didn't say that. And I believe him, because he is a true friend to me and I know he wouldn't lie to me about that. And my friend said to me what is up with you and Nicole again. I said to him I am just trying to be a christian friend to her. He said to me that she thinks you like her and her boyfriend is geting mad at you for being around her. I said to him I don't like her I only like her has a friend and that is it. So my friend tell her what I said and she saids I don't want to be his friend, but i'll just be nice to him. I think this situation got out of hand and this childish stuff needs to end. She making up stuff. I don't even know why. Now her boyfriend wants to fight me. I asked her if her boyfriend said if he wants to fight me she said no. But my friend said she said he does. I don't know why she brought my friend in it.
What do you guys think about this?

2006-12-18 03:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by theman 1 in Friends

So i met this real nice guy lastnight, and we were sitting on the couch watching tv. He was facing me just a little bit, and he had both his hands on his leg closest to me, then eventually his leg was against mine.....What do this body language mean? just curious :) Thanks!

2006-12-18 03:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by jess_n_flip 4 in Singles & Dating

Lately I get the sense that my mother-in-law really doesn't like me. She used to be my best friend, and now she acts as if she would rather not be around me. My husband and I worked really hard to move to her area, and now that we are there I think she would prefer that we were 1000 miles away again. We used to do fun things with them when we would visit, and we were always invited to their parties, and now she doesn't even tell us that she is having a party until it is over. The thing is, that now that we live here, I could care less if she is having a party with her own friends, they are not my friends, so I don't know why she would think we would want an invitation to the party now. What bothers me is that she thinks that she has to do it behind our backs. She does the same thing about going out to dinner. It is as if she thinks we will always invite ourselves to go along, but we have our own lives. Am I taking this too personally, or should I move?

2006-12-18 03:36:29 · 7 answers · asked by BeckZ 1 in Family

2006-12-18 03:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amit 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We spend every weekend together, we've already met each other's parents, and we're planning New Year's Eve together. Lately, he's been busy at work (making an internal job transition and working late) and so he's been a little more distant than usual. I just don't know if he's been distant because he is busy, or because he's comfortable with me, or because he doesn't like me anymore...

I tend to overanalyze relationships and I become insecure when a guy pulls back. I was wondering if I could get some tips on how to remain myself in an uncertain stage of a new relationship. I don't want to appear needy or insecure...

Any advice?

2006-12-18 03:35:59 · 4 answers · asked by Nicki82 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 10 years....we have 2 children together. Once we split up I found someone a little while later and we really hit if off. He's a real family man and has played the role of step-dad very well. Once my ex found out there was a man in the picture he stopped taking the kids so much. He might see them every other weekend. This is upsetting my boys...my 6 year old feels like his father abandoned him and my 7 year old just doesn't want to see him anymore. My ex has made all sorts of promises to them and has broken ALL of them!! Is it ok for me to ask him to either be a part of their life regularly or just stay out of it completely?? He isn't a good influence on them being a heavy drinker, "smoker" etc. so in a way I'd like him to be away from them completely...is that wrong of me? I don't say bad things about him to my kids....but it really hurts me to see them hurting and I just want him to feel some of their pain!!!

2006-12-18 03:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 03:33:59 · 19 answers · asked by Conrad 1 in Singles & Dating

so i like this guy and everyone else thinks he likes me too and im sick of waiting....i met him last year but we hardly ever talked...then we have a class together this semester which is when i realized i liked him....we also have a class together next semester and i want to ask him out but last year i asked this other guy out and he hasnt talked to me since and i dont want the same thing to happen to me and this guy because we are pretty good friends and we have a class together next semester.(last year everyone thought that this guy liked me and so i asked him out and nothing good came out of that, i dont want the same thing to happen with me and this other guy) what do i need to do...im oh so very confused.

2006-12-18 03:33:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so lovesick..i miss her the whole day...i cant eat or sleep..i always think of her every moment...i need to listen to her tender voice...i always dream of her in my sleep....oh my tender baby...oh my sweet honey...I want her to be by my side..oh i wanna be in her heart..im feeling so sad and bitter..lost without her..not able to be with her on her 13th birthday..i love you baby...

2006-12-18 03:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I were to say, for now, I would enjoy spending the night doing nothing more than just cuddling and falling asleep.

2006-12-18 03:32:24 · 35 answers · asked by versatilemile 2 in Singles & Dating

How much do you love Johnny Depp?

2006-12-18 03:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Ciiindy! 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend and I need opinions on the best way to resolve something with
someone who refuses to talk to us. This issue started in September of
this year when we asked someone who is supposed to be the best friend
of a celebrity a few harmless questions.This is an online situation. Not offline.

2006-12-18 03:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what does a guy mean when he loved a girl for 7 months(on n off relationship) and now he told the girl's friend that he still like the girl but he don't want to tell her(as in say it out).He told the girl's friend that he feels that it is better to love a person in his heart than to be together. he would only tell her when the time is ripe. so...my qn is,what does he really mean by doing that? and..why did he prefer to do it this way than to tell her when the girl's friend said that she is still interested in him...?

2006-12-18 03:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's interesting how I read stories this time of year about single mothers that need help to buy toys for their large families. They usually mention that the kids' fathers (not father) don't help. Odd how they find all these men to have a baby with every year but there never seems to be one around to support them and they expect the community to take on the responsibility. While a person might make one mistake or think a guy likes them and then end up with a baby to support, why do these stupid women keep having kids? If they are going to be s*****, why don't they use birth control? Also it seems like there are families where the parents are disabled and can't work but they still seem to be able to have more children. One guy I read was disabled for 3 years but had a 2 year old and a new baby. doesn't sound that disabled to me and when you can't function fully yourself, why keep having kids/ It makes no sense to me and I would not give one dime to these people.

2006-12-18 03:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know someone and I think she messing around on her boyfriend

2006-12-18 03:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with an asylum seeker who says he wants to marry me. My parents say he only wants my passport and is probably making bombs for Bin laden. He assures me that its not true but he is very persistent and insists we get married quickly "before immigration laws change". Confused. Help.

2006-12-18 03:30:01 · 5 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some guys find it necessary to never admitt when they are wrong and place all the blame on the other person for reacting to their considerateness or disrepectfulness in an unapproving way? Why can't a guy just say, "I understand why you're upset." Why is it, "You should've done this or you should've done that." Some guys just never take responsibility for their role in the situation they play the blame game. Why is that? What is with a a man's twisted mind games. Does it make him feel better to make someone else feel guilty?

2006-12-18 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago, but we've remained great friends. We chat, go out to dinner, and sometimes talk about who we're currently dating. We went to his office xmas party saturday night, just as friends, and he introduced me to this guy, cory, that he worked with. This guy was gorgeous. So about 2 hours and many martinis later, cory and i went out fr a smoke. Neither of us had to say anything, we already knew what the other person was thinking. The attraction was mutual from the minute we met. He said wanted to ask me out, but he was afraid he'd be stepping on toes. Though we only chatted for a bit, we both felt a real connection. But in the middle of our convo, my ex came outside. He and I rushed out of the party before cory and I got a chance to exchange numbers.
So should I try to get a hold of cory somehow, or just forget about him completely?
*I think I know the right thing to do but I thought I'd ask anyway*
sometimes its easier said than done.....

2006-12-18 03:29:03 · 3 answers · asked by theburlaces 3 in Singles & Dating

About two years into my mariage I started to suspect my husband was cheating....we had all sorts of other problems as well. We went through a TRAMATIC seperation. Since then All has been well. I have had no reason to supect that he ever cheated again. BUT back in the day I found several nude pics of this girl. This was almost 7 years ago. I kept those pics..I hid them behind my marriage licsence in a frame. I recently did a maijor "winter" cleaning and found them. My heart just rebroke...Should I throw these pics away..or hang on to them..for whatever reason?

2006-12-18 03:28:52 · 23 answers · asked by Mama Mia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they think all american women whores or what?
and how an individual answers questions does not give people the right to contact you thinking they have a chance at s** talk thanks any oppinions?

2006-12-18 03:28:41 · 1 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Singles & Dating

i am shy with guys. when we are in bed i want to go wild and do different stuff but then get really shy and end up doing the same boring things. please help. only serious answers please.

2006-12-18 03:27:58 · 14 answers · asked by Meli 2 in Singles & Dating

My family is coming over to the trailor park for XMas. We've rented some spaces for their RV's and Campers, but I really can't handle them.

My aunt is nearly 800 pounds and my momma is 600 pds. Together they eat nearly $1000 worth of Food Stamps, and how am I going to feed the rest of the family? My Uncle is bringing his strange girlfriend over, and my son and daughter are both bringing thier respective lovers.

Even though my daughter is in love with my neighbors dog. Should I feed him Kibbles and Bits? And what should I do about my Senile Grandma? She always wants to fly like the reindeer, and we can't keep her off the roof.

My Sister won't stop feeling me up in front of my wife and girlfriend, and what should should I tell her husband, my father?

Aarrggh, the holidays are so difficult. What can I do?

2006-12-18 03:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im looking for someone that very smart, funny, an faithful that can keep a smile on my face every day

2006-12-18 03:27:05 · 3 answers · asked by tracy day 1 in Singles & Dating