I am 22 years old and trying to maintain in life I was in an abusive relationship and for almost two years me and him have been broken up for an year now all of a sudden he is starting to come back around and claiming that he just wants to be my friend but he says he is still in love with me. I really don't trust him because of all the things he has done to me . I don't know if I should be around him or just let it go and don' talk to him. He has caused me alot of pain so I don't know if I should talk to him or not . Do you really think he is my friend because part of me feels like he is'nt. He tries to act so cool about everything but I don't believe he really cares for me? Is there still hope for me to find love after I have been so hurt.
2006-12-18 03:38:29 · 5 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never forgive, just forget and move on
2006-12-18 03:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always forgive people, that's what the bible says; but move on! He hurt you, and was abusive to you, usually these kinds of people do not change! You said yourself that part of you does not trust him, so go with that instinct! Tell him you forgive him, but you don't want to hang out likes friends do. Another thing! Usually when a guy or girl say let's be friends , they want to stay in your life for some reason and I think he is being cool to you right now just to get back in your life! then he will start all the abuse again! stay away from him. there are men out there that won't abuse you and that you can trust.
2006-12-18 03:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by bckatcha! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. Anyone who can abuse you really doesn't care about you. Most likely he would abuse you again if given the chance. Go find someone who will give you what you deserve. It may take time because you need to rebuild trust but once you come across the right guy you will realize that you can just let some of it go because it won't matter anymore.
2006-12-18 03:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once an abuser always an abuser.Move on and take things slowly.All men are not like him but I wouldnt jump into anything too quickly.If you are patient,you will definetely find love again.Dont be too anxious to find love,if you are looking it will come to you.Whatever you do stay away from the ex,trust your gut feelings.Do not trust him.Good Luck.
2006-12-18 03:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Bellows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no dont 4give and 4 get all he is doin is waitin till your off guard some1 who is abusive is always abusive
2006-12-18 03:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by foxychick142003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋