I know someone and I think she messing around on her boyfriend
2006-12-18 03:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were talking about YOUR boyfriend, I'd give some advice as to how seriously you should take it (also you didn't give much info as to why she thinks this).....BUT...
Since you're not even involved (unless he's messing around with YOU!)...then you should back off and let her deal with it. It's an age-old tradition that if you were to prove her right, a) she wouldn't believe you (she doesn't WANT to!), b) she'd probably resent you for bearing bad news and c) even if he IS cheating, she'll probably still stay with him until he TOTALLY messes up her life...that's what women do! (Haven't you been to the movies lately?)
Best advice: Stay out of it!
2006-12-18 03:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i have a boyfriend and i think hes messing around on me it i would take the signs that hes never around like he used to be his whole attitude towards you change he goes out all the time and the main way to tell if hes cheating is that his friends or one of ur friends say they saw him with someone else
2006-12-18 11:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Xtina12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The spidy sense is usually the best.
If you have a feeling something is wrong, it probably is.
This is not a 100% thing.
The best thing is to ask and have as calm and cool of a discussion as possible.
You really do need to be able to talk about everything to have a successful relationship.
best,
cez
2006-12-18 11:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by cezzium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they give pathetic answers to questions, don't have as much time to spend on the other person but won't tell why. When they act like they're hiding something, or like something is going on but won't talk about it. Pretty much when alot of secrets start to show up all at once.
2006-12-18 11:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your gut instinct baby girl... If you can't trust him and feel like something isn't there then most likely your intuition is right. There are tons of fish in the sea, you just have to cast a line...
2006-12-18 11:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower932002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off is she like telling u in a secreat code tgat she is or is she like beeing really sneaky when it comes to being around you or her boyfriend thats how u normally can tell and if she has hickys and you knwo for a fact that they aint from her boi thers another way
2006-12-18 11:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so interested in her boyfriends welfare? Are you interested in him? I really don't see where it's your job to nose out if shes cheating or not. The situation does not affect you in any way. Leave it be.
2006-12-18 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by MizMissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How WELL you know the person is first, and you better be damn positive about it second. Then decide.
2006-12-18 11:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really none of your business
2006-12-18 11:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend and her bf worry about themselves, dont get involved its not worth it
2006-12-18 11:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by sj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋