I was trying to be this girls friend and well things got out of hand. She started telling my co-worker friends to asked me questions. Like if I like her. That's how it started at first. So my friend comes up to me and asked me "so what's up with you and Nicole. I said why? My friend said "she wants to know if you like her or not." I told him to tell her that I don't like her and I also told him I don't like her anymore, because she has a bad mouth and she had sex alot with her boyfriend. So my friend went back and told her everything I said about her. So when I saw her she said to me "so I heard you said I have a bad mouth?" I said "yes I did." And a couple of days later she said that my co-worker friend also said I called her a slut. Which is not true. And I talk to my friend about it. He said he didn't say that. And I believe him, because he is a true friend to me and I know he wouldn't lie to me about that. And my friend said to me what is up with you and Nicole again. I said to him I am just trying to be a christian friend to her. He said to me that she thinks you like her and her boyfriend is geting mad at you for being around her. I said to him I don't like her I only like her has a friend and that is it. So my friend tell her what I said and she saids I don't want to be his friend, but i'll just be nice to him. I think this situation got out of hand and this childish stuff needs to end. She making up stuff. I don't even know why. Now her boyfriend wants to fight me. I asked her if her boyfriend said if he wants to fight me she said no. But my friend said she said he does. I don't know why she brought my friend in it.
What do you guys think about this?
2006-12-18 03:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like your 'friend' is a true friend. First of all he went and told everything that you spoke to him about in confidence. That would loose my trust immediately.
Personally I think you need to just tell this girl straight up how you truly feel, friend or not. Make it clear you don't want any drama about it, people talk and rumors spread. Tell her not to believe everything she hears. Better to come from the horses mouth, not the mouths of gossipers.
2006-12-18 03:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh she said he said stuff is so terrible. Be honest with her bf and let him know your not interested and you wish the two of them the best of luck. I do want to say this though if you where trying to be a christian friend to her why did you say anything to your friend about her sex life? next time you should just say i like her as a person but nothing more bc as a christian im not into some of the things she is. That way your not talking bad about her or saying something that might sound like you are judging her. Maybe its time to pray about this and maybe apologize for talking about her in the first place. Good luck and God bless.
2006-12-18 03:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ppl like that are not even worth bein friends w/...we are grown ups...well im assumin u all are...just ignore the *****.
2006-12-18 03:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋