i am shy with guys. when we are in bed i want to go wild and do different stuff but then get really shy and end up doing the same boring things. please help. only serious answers please.
2006-12-18 03:27:58 · 14 answers · asked by Meli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's completely normal. Just work up to it slowly.
2006-12-18 03:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your BF about it. Love making takes 2 so you can't assume all the blame if the bedroom is boring. For some reason a lot of couples don't talk about their sex life and they decide to just "let it happen". If you communicate your likes and dislikes things turn out better because you know what the other person wants/needs.
2006-12-18 03:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Spugsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite okay and normal to be shy. Most men don't see that as a deficiency. Sometimes you'll find men that are very expressive and would be willing to try different things without having to ask for them.
But when you do run into men that aren't as willing to try, and you feel shy to express yourself, it can be tough like it is right now for you.
One way you can try is to show subtle signs to your partner when you guys are having sex. You can silently guide his hands to touch you in a specific way. Sometimes closing your eyes and just doing what you want to do might help you overcome your shyness. You may try to mount him with your eyes closed at first to give him a subtle indication of what you desire.
And slowly you may try keeping your eyes open as you do it. That'll help you slowly build confidence in yourself. Try expressing yourself when you feel great about something. That's usually easier for you to appreciate when he's doing it the way you like. Getting into a mode of conversation when having sex helps a great deal in getting over the shyness. Pretty soon, you'll begin to express well and even be able to tell your partner exactly what you're in a mood for :-)
I can't wait to hear how you're overcoming your shyness over time. Be in touch if you'd like - email/IM. Good luck.
2006-12-18 03:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 11:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is somebody you are comfortable with LET LOOSE!! It is human nature, don't worry about what they might think. If they aint down with it, they aint the one for you. There are plenty of freaks out there. LOL. No but seriously, most men are down for new things as long as it dose not involve inserting things in areas that things are not meant to go on them, if you know what I mean. Just get loose and let it go. I used to hold back like you but then I said screw it, went for it and POW she fell in love. If all else fails get drunk, or act like your drunk and blame it on that if they don't like it. Everyone knows alcohol brings out the best in people.lol. Good luck!!
2006-12-18 03:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by nattibadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to feel comfortable with the guy. If u dont even feel comfortable with him there's no point in tryin 2 do it wit him n plus u shouldnt go around ****** dudes n e ways. u do dat **** outta love.
2006-12-18 03:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? You're shy yet you go wild with them in bed? Get real! Only serious questions please!
2006-12-18 03:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh for heavens sake!! If you're so shy, why are you sleeping with these men? What a skank!
2006-12-18 03:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a glass of wine before you get in the sack!!!
2006-12-18 03:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by bear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be spontaneous and go with the flow, don't let anyone use you but just have fun and enjoy the moment.
2006-12-18 03:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋