Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I'll try to be brief. I grew up lonely..NEVER felt loved..EVER! My parents favored my sister bigtime. I made many mistakes trying to be noticed..After I married my husband, my mother kept butting in trying to control and manipulate. She has lied to me, stole from me and mental abused me. Even refused to let me stop stripping because she pocketed all the money..My husband was no Angel either, my father stayed uninvolved & believed countles lies about me told to him by my mother to keep herself out of trouble. My sister..carbon copy of my mother...I was always in the wrong. A huge blow out came about...My husband and I REALLY worked it out. We live our life right now. I walked away from my family. Every family member on both my mom&dad's side, say stay away,they never treated YOU right. Use to be suicidal from 5th grade on after break up of family...no longer hate my self. Except I still cry in my heart for my lost family. Was I wrong to run away forever? Should I try again?

2006-12-18 04:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by Mama Mia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best mate has a girlfreind, I am happy for him but he's forgetting me and is pushing me aside. What can I do??!!??

2006-12-18 04:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by ironaxe195 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say she's wearing something nice and pretty, like a two-piece suit and there is no cleavage showing. Or maybe nice tight jeans and a cute top, with a jacket over it....basically u can't see any boobs and the top is not skin tight!

If she had a great set, would you be able to tell that she did??? If so, what makes it obvious? Do you have to stare at them, to figure it out? How close do you need to get, to figure out that she has got some really nice big boobs?

I ask because I got a nice rack, but I don't always wear tops with cleavage showing, or tight shirts. So, I wonder how much guys can figure out? Share your thoughts guys!

2006-12-18 04:04:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A close family friend just told me he's HIV +. He is a gay male who has lived a risky life.

I didn't know what to say when he told me and I feel bad. He asked me not to be afraid to hug him but I was so caught off guard that I just stood there.

What have you done when someone just sprang some surprising news on you?

2006-12-18 04:04:03 · 6 answers · asked by colombianqt_247 2 in Family

We've been together for 6 years. A month ago he went away and cheated on me with another woman abroad. Came back and broke up with me. I decided to move out and did it. We do talk occassionally but he tells me I'm like his best friend or a sister now. He keeps in touch with that woman overseas, although I think it's mostly sexual attraction (saw a couple of text messages in that direction) and there's no foundation for the relationship there. I try to move on. It still hurts, but I have no other choice.
Do you think he'll ever realize what he did and what a great girl (myself :)) he threw out of his life? For some reason I want him to understand that and feel sorry...

2006-12-18 04:02:26 · 22 answers · asked by moonylola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there was an article in sundays chicago sun times about a man who helped his girlfriend adopt two chinese babies and now she has moved on and doesn't let him see the girls who call him dad. she told one of the girls' don't call him dad hes just a guy i dated"he wants visitation for christmas and she says no. he seems too care about them and if he is truthful should he be able to see them

2006-12-18 04:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by sharon p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 04:01:32 · 22 answers · asked by LC6 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now just to be clear...I don't watch these things but I thought about some funny titles this morning...what can you come up with?

"Becky does Santa"
"Mrs. Clause c u ms to town"
"The Naughty List"
"Holiday Sausage"
"Katnip for the p us sy kat"

Batseries5 Question 3 of 5 (sexual). I will ask a series of 5 questions a day (psychological, spiritual, sexual, polls, and miscellaneous). If you have time, answer all 5 during the day for a broader perspective of yourself. Have fun!

2006-12-18 04:01:22 · 15 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean how to trust someone again after an accident that caused a mistrust?

2006-12-18 03:59:53 · 6 answers · asked by goalkeeperx2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I had been best friend with this guy named Jared for a good year now,He lives in a different state from me. then all of sudden he takes me, my girlfriend and my room mate off of his MySpace friends list. I begin to think OK that is strange so I called him many many times, unfortunately he only had his friends answer the phone for him, who I might say were all pricks to me. He block me from his AIM. So one day finally get talk to him and he say he does not want be my friend anymore because he do not believe in ghosts. ( It is s omething I am very interested in) He say I am insane for believe in ghost and that he believe ghost can only be seen after death, and that I should not believe they be seen otherwise. So I tell him why should we not be friends because of ghosts? I call again and again he not talk to me one bit. Even on my birthday last week he refuse to speak to me. What should I do?

2006-12-18 03:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I moved here with my husband four years ago. We have been married 9 years. He moved out after becoming involved with another woman. We have three kids 2,5 and 8.
I wantto start a new life but it is hard because 1) this is his hometown. Mine is 1200 miles away. 2) He moved out but only three blocks away. 3) He is active in the community so I have to see his name in the newspaper all of the time 4) I soon realized that all of my friends are his friends or their wives and they seem to have no problem with his infidelity and moving out ( they have him and the girlfriend over for dinner, etc.) Any suggestions on how to get a new life. He moved out 8 months ago. About two months ago it seemed that we were getting back tgether but suddenly he pulled away again. He won't file for divorce. I don't because one of my children is disabled and so far I am still listed as his beneficiary and I would need the insurance if something happens to him. Any ideas? I can't move away.

2006-12-18 03:59:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That started out sweet and whatnot but turned into a blunt mind speaking wanting nothing but sex asshole. Maybe I'm just stupid but I kept going back to him and giving him what he wanted, and I finally learned the last time I went to his house what I was doing.....proving to him he still had me strung even after we broke up. The other night he called me to come over and I told him no and that I was done with him. I kinda feel like **** now. Did i do the right thing?

2006-12-18 03:59:10 · 23 answers · asked by queenbee0687 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 30 and she is 45
we both work in the same office
and we hang out alot at work
we always talk about going out on a date, but never do
do you guys think it will work?
am i too young for her?
is she too old for me?

2006-12-18 03:58:44 · 25 answers · asked by alooz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

My sweetie and I have been together through a lot. We have grown together and I really want to show him how much I love and appreciate him. Any gift ideas? I wanted to give something romantic this year. Please and thank you:)

2006-12-18 03:57:13 · 3 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just got back from our two week honeymoon a little over three weeks ago. Four days ago we got a phone call from his Ex saying that she is moving 4 states away and doesn't want their son anymore. Before all of this my husband would only see his son every other weekend and if that. I am worried about how the son will adjust to a whole new family and plus losing his mother and half brother within 48 hours who he has lived with his entire life.

Last night he asked where his mommy was and that he wanted to go back to her. He is 4 years old.

I cannot believe she gave up her son for some guy in another state who she has just started talking to for a couple of weeks now. During the divorce she fought and fought to get full custody of the son and now just like that she is giving him away

I was wondering if anyone has ever gone through this and how I should introduce the son this Christmas to my side of the family?

Thank You

2006-12-18 03:57:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mean am i the only one that likes to feel sexy?

2006-12-18 03:56:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever Me and My Girlfriend are showering together, and I refuse to let Her pee on Me She gets angery and usually ends up going Home and not speaking to Me for days, several times when We have been sleeping She has laid right up next to Me and peed all over Me, I find this gross! wouldent You?

2006-12-18 03:56:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:56:28 · 5 answers · asked by britt- britt 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy just broke up with me because he thought I was lieing to him wen I wasn't..well he got a new girlfriend the very next day..he claims to still love me so much and he says his new g.f knows he loves me but she will deal with it..he e-mails me everyday like 100 times and i usually e-mail back..but he says stuff like "we can stll be friends..hint hint" and he says he still likes me alot..but if thats true..wats he doing with another gurl??

2006-12-18 03:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend since like 7th grade is popping alot of pills and im scared she might OD. but i have told her many of times to stop bcuz all she is doing is hurting her self and now she is talking about suicide. it wouldnt bother me as much if it was like 5 or 6 pills but its like 30 or 40 at a time. What should i do about all of this?

2006-12-18 03:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by !~*BabiiGurlii*~! 1 in Family

I'm almost 15 and I've never kissed a boy! I've been asked by a couple of really nice guys, but I panicked and said no. I'm just so afraid I'll make a complete fool of myself!! Please help me!!!!

2006-12-18 03:55:05 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Pucca♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

read into it as you need

2006-12-18 03:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's a paying guest. He's 16 n is smoking hot while im 14! I know he's interested in me-
1.He kisses me now n then.
2.He tries to stick with me when i rest on the couch
3.He brushes against me, trying to skim his hand across my waist.
4.One night, when i was in bed, n the bed-lamp was on, he dropped in without a knock n thinking me to be asleep, squeezed ma breasts lightly!

But then how shall i tell him that i want a physical realtion with him?? He's smokin hot!

2006-12-18 03:54:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:54:31 · 11 answers · asked by KL 2 in Singles & Dating

We are all in agreement on a No reception wedding. Maybe at the max cake and drinks after the wedding. Also they want to have a 1:00pm wedding. She would like a cake for pictures so that is why cake and drinks is considered. How would we word this in the invitations. And would be the best why to go about this. Budget is very low. and they would rather go on a honeymoon, then blow thier budget on a reception. They are also saving for a down payment on a house. Any suggestions?

2006-12-18 03:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Gugie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been pondering this cause my sister just had a failing marriage(now they don't live together) and now the kid ( who is 1 year old) will be living between two parents who don't really love eachother.The cause? the guy just wanted to go out and drink and party, wasn't responsible and he also always abused my sister verbally.

Other examples:
-aunt and uncle- still married but ther'es no love just fighting all the time and heard that uncle has an outside love affair
-that same uncle's daughter just married recently. before the 1 year passed divorced cause the guy wasn't reponsible and just wanted to go with friends and party.

anyways, in a male female relationship... for some reason i get the feeling that if the male was a nice person.. the relationship would work. I don't thnk a guy would get into a marriage with a girl knowing that she had a bad personality... but for some reason girls seem to fall for the mean guys.

2006-12-18 03:52:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are all in agreement on a No reception wedding. Maybe at the max cake and drinks after the wedding. Also they want to have a 1:00pm wedding. She would like a cake for pictures so that is why cake and drinks is considered. How would we word this in the invitations. And would be the best why to go about this. Budget is very low. and they would rather go on a honeymoon, then blow thier budget on a reception. They are also saving for a down payment on a house. Any suggestions?

2006-12-18 03:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by Gugie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i am 5 months pregnant with my husbands child. I have a 4 year old from my first marriage... I found some pot in my husbands car... I am pissed! How would you confront the situation? I am thinking of giving him an ultimatium.. The way I see if he wants to act like a child then he can be single again. I was a single parent once and I can do it again. But i don't really know if I should be that extreme. Any suggestions? He really is a wonderful husband aside from this.

2006-12-18 03:51:56 · 33 answers · asked by #1mommietwice 1 in Marriage & Divorce