My best mate has a girlfreind, I am happy for him but he's forgetting me and is pushing me aside. What can I do??!!??
2006-12-18 04:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by ironaxe195 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did have a gf too but she moved to Canada.
2006-12-18 04:18:50 · update #1
I am sure that you are happy for your friend, just remember that he is spending time with his girl, but I think you should remind him that you and him are still buddies and suggest that you guys plan a time when you and him can hang and do whatever it is you and your buddy do. Maybe he has not forgotten you and is busy, just be honest with your buddy and let him know you think he is pushing you aside and your not sure what that means and hope that he can be a real friend and talk to you, he probably does not know you are thinking this and maybe he is hoping that you will tell him, he probably has a solution and wants to see what he can do and be with the girl he loves. He will respect you more if you are honest, not that you aren't. So the way find out your answer is to ask your buddy and find out what he thinks.
2006-12-18 04:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried getting a girlfriend of your own? It sounds like his girlfriend is new in his life and therefore you should give them time to spend together. Then try planning things that the 3 of you can do. He will then make the time to spend with you once he spends time with her and then the two of you together. You have to give him his time with his girlfriend.
2006-12-18 12:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you kill the girlfriend then he'll have a lot of free time on his hands...AND...he'll be looking for someone to hang out with to make him feel better and that, my friend, is where you step in.
But be careful, I've seen enough CSI to know that if you're going to do it, you better do it right!
2006-12-18 12:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by tkatt00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when guys get gf things change... im going threw the same thing. i have a boyfriend and his best friend has a gf and he wont spend time with my boyfriend anymore. ppl just grow apart. you can try to tell him how you feel!!!
2006-12-18 12:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he has to spend time with you also remind him that you were there before his girlfriend was just dont put it in a nasty way because he may get a little offended
2006-12-18 12:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by pink_n_purfect1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just putting a space into your relationship..try to understand..most of his time, he wants to spend it with his gf, and he thinks you'll understand..but make him realize that you're just there whenever he needs you. he'll probably notice..
2006-12-18 12:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a girlfriend of your own and then the four of you can double date,go to the beach and so forth.
2006-12-18 12:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel....might be a little tough being a guy...but truthfully...this is what happens to men and women when they find girlfriend or boyfriend.....sorry to say....good luck
2006-12-18 12:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to go do something and invite the girlfriend as well dont leave her out cause if you do he may refuse your invite
2006-12-18 12:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a double date..
2006-12-18 12:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles_n_ar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋