How can my b/f and i stop arguing? we fight over nothing....is that normal??

Answer 1

baby girl, it's not a healthy relationship when you both contiguously arguing. stop and think about it. do you want this type of relationship that will go on and on like this? come on now. i think you both are good people; but the chemistry is just not right.

Answer 2

It is very normal for couples of all kinds to argue.
No one is going to have the same opinion on every single little thing.

But fighting constantly all the time, especially about nothing usually means you are 'boyfriend/girlfriend-centered'.
Either that or you guys are getting a wee bit tired of eachother.
You could either talk about how you fight all the time and how it shouldn't be ALL the time for nothing or you could spend maybe a week or less apart and then hang out again and see what happens.

If you guys are happy, then it's really not that big of a problem.
BUT, it might turn into one so talk while you can.


:D

Answer 3

Well, This ussually happens because both of you are being stubborn about the other telling you something.Like if you think its blue and he says it dark blue you feel the need to correct.You see, Somethings are just good to let be un said.If one person learns that instead of always correcting or getting upset about something said. The other eventually learns to do the same.Instead of getting upset and lashing back at him everytime something is said that you dont like.Turn to him calmly and say "O-k, so thats how you feel,Sorry that you do but I am not going to argue with you about this stuff anymore".If he doesnt have a return arguement, the issue ends. Soon he will learn to adjust his tensions and both of you will stop fighting over dumb things and hopefully only argue when its something huge, if ever at all. Good luck!

Answer 4

I suggest everytime you guys fight you throw a dollar in a jar(each of you)! eventually you guys are going to say "wow look at how much money we are wasting fighting all the time" and you will either stop fighting or devide up the money and go your seperate ways.
Another good idea would to buy each other something with the money you save!
Remember too... that every healthy relationship fights sometimes. But why fight over silly things, just walk away from them sometimes, you don't always have to be right!

Answer 5

In a bad relationship yes it's normal. In a good relationship it's not. I'll put it to you this way do you enjoy arguing with him all the time? If the answer is no then move on there are plenty of guys out there that you don't have to settle for that.

Answer 6

Arguing over everything isn't normal....it's a sign that something is wrong.

Usually what's wrong is that you're not really listening to each other.

When you start to argue you should both stop....then one person gets to talk for 2 minutes without being interrupted...then the partner repeats what they think you just said.

No talking or explaining at the same time.

Answer 7

It is normal to a certain extent. If it is a daily thing I would say yall need to break up. If it is every once in awhile, just try being the calm one and don't throw fuel on the fire. If you know you are fighting over nothing, then WHY ARE YOU FIGHTING!!

Answer 8

If you fight all the time then there are issues. Maybe you just are holding on because of the "idea" of having a boyfriend. You are too young to be serious so its time to ask yourself is this fighting worth it? I am sure it is not. Talk to him about your issues but be prepared to break up. It will happen-sorry

Answer 9

communication is a big part of a relationship and arguing not that being child ish it time to grew up or move a part you need to respect each other both of you guy are not listens to what you are both try to say so you start yell to be hear and gruss what no one hear because you both shut down good luck

Answer 10

no its not normal well ive heard if you guys have had sex then you 2 will argue more you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel that always works